Poll: My best friend cheated on my other best friend.
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Forgiveness is fine the first time. Encourage him to forgive her and give her a guilt inducing talk about alcohol.
Otherwise if he refuses, stay out of it.
Otherwise if he refuses, stay out of it.
All I had to do was read the title and that was enough to tell me the wisest course of action is to stay the hell out. If you get involved, you will end up in a pile of shit so deep that it would take 500 septic trucks working around the clock for a month to haul it away.
Never, I repeat, NEVER, get involved in a relationship dispute between two friends, because 9 times out of 10, you WILL lose one of them.
Never, I repeat, NEVER, get involved in a relationship dispute between two friends, because 9 times out of 10, you WILL lose one of them.
Bang them both, and see if you can make the situation worse.
Now, seriously, either fake cerebral hemorrhaging, or pretend you've moved until the nuclear warfare is over.
Now, seriously, either fake cerebral hemorrhaging, or pretend you've moved until the nuclear warfare is over.
Stay out of it. It will come out eventually, and there will be a s~it storm from hell. Don't be in the middle of it.
It happened to me. My friends knew about it and said nothing, but it eventually came out (she eventually told me that she was leaving me) and they gradually told me they'd known about the bloke, but I respected their decisions. And it was a cheap divorce.
CJ
It happened to me. My friends knew about it and said nothing, but it eventually came out (she eventually told me that she was leaving me) and they gradually told me they'd known about the bloke, but I respected their decisions. And it was a cheap divorce.
CJ
Leave subtle hints now and again to your male friend. Don't just blatantly tell him because that will only make things bad for you. But say things that would get your friends brain going, plant the seed of doubt I suppose. Don't lie or make anything up to slander your female best friend, just make intelligent observations. Hopefully he will find out on his own and will resolve the issue in his own way.
Staying out of it all together is the easiest route and probably the safest, but not telling a good friend his girl had something on the side is just not right.
Staying out of it all together is the easiest route and probably the safest, but not telling a good friend his girl had something on the side is just not right.
I said stay the hell out because i wish i could. Your chick friend needs new friends and your guy friend needs to get the chick friend out his life. You... you decide weather or not someone will be pissed if you take someone's side, or don't take someone's side.
Recently I met the "girl" of one of my dude friends i thought she was really cool and we started talking and wanting to hang out. She however couldn't stop complaining about how she actually wanted to be the girlfriend of my guy friend and no more open relationship stuff. Basically he wasn't willing to commit and i tried getting him to. Now she has changed all to hell and I don't wanna talk to her because she is different now... some how i knew that shit was gonna happen. I like a chick that can roll with guys and take jokes and dish them out... now she is suffering from a crisis of morality... that does not make dmase a happy person. fyi no i didn't wanna date her
Recently I met the "girl" of one of my dude friends i thought she was really cool and we started talking and wanting to hang out. She however couldn't stop complaining about how she actually wanted to be the girlfriend of my guy friend and no more open relationship stuff. Basically he wasn't willing to commit and i tried getting him to. Now she has changed all to hell and I don't wanna talk to her because she is different now... some how i knew that shit was gonna happen. I like a chick that can roll with guys and take jokes and dish them out... now she is suffering from a crisis of morality... that does not make dmase a happy person. fyi no i didn't wanna date her
