Ok so heres my problem. 2 years ago I was on and off with this amazing girl but nothing serious. At a house party I got together with a girl from school and now 2years later we are still together.
The problem is this other girl is still in my life, we stayed good friends the whole time and everytime i see her (which is rare because she lives an hour or so away by train) there is this big spark between us and she is so fun and exciting. My girlfrined is fun in her own way and i do love her but i still have all these annoying thoughts.
My girlfriend is great, cute ,friendly, exceptionally loyal and kind. We get on great ,we are like part of each others families. We have a huge history together and were each others first more or less everything .Our day to day stuff is fun and still isn't dull or boring even after all this time. The only problem really is she doesnt get on too well with my friends, its not that they don't like each other its just they don't really click you know, they all talk and joke with her but wouldn't really count her as a friend of their own. They think she is a little boring ,she doesn't really drink or go out clubbing etc. Also she can be quiye clingy at parties she follows me around and won't give me much space.
The other girl is full of good qualities really fun, funny, social gets on with everyone very very sexy. We talk on the phone alot and she tells me everything about her life ,we keep nothing from each other. She is great fun the whole time has lots and lots of friends and ...well is just great fun all round. I can't stop thinking about her its driving me mad but i still love my girlfriend
What would you do in my situation or have youu ever been in a similar situation and what have you done?
Edit: The other girl has made it clear she still has feelings for me.
Edit2: Just looking for outsider opinions not gonna base my decision on it. I don't actually expect to solve my problem on the internet just curious is all.
The problem is this other girl is still in my life, we stayed good friends the whole time and everytime i see her (which is rare because she lives an hour or so away by train) there is this big spark between us and she is so fun and exciting. My girlfrined is fun in her own way and i do love her but i still have all these annoying thoughts.
My girlfriend is great, cute ,friendly, exceptionally loyal and kind. We get on great ,we are like part of each others families. We have a huge history together and were each others first more or less everything .Our day to day stuff is fun and still isn't dull or boring even after all this time. The only problem really is she doesnt get on too well with my friends, its not that they don't like each other its just they don't really click you know, they all talk and joke with her but wouldn't really count her as a friend of their own. They think she is a little boring ,she doesn't really drink or go out clubbing etc. Also she can be quiye clingy at parties she follows me around and won't give me much space.
The other girl is full of good qualities really fun, funny, social gets on with everyone very very sexy. We talk on the phone alot and she tells me everything about her life ,we keep nothing from each other. She is great fun the whole time has lots and lots of friends and ...well is just great fun all round. I can't stop thinking about her its driving me mad but i still love my girlfriend
What would you do in my situation or have youu ever been in a similar situation and what have you done?
Edit: The other girl has made it clear she still has feelings for me.
Edit2: Just looking for outsider opinions not gonna base my decision on it. I don't actually expect to solve my problem on the internet just curious is all.
