Poll: Ok Sex vs Passionate Sex

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Anaril

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Definately passionate sex, I don't know that I'm that fussed whether the rest of the world thinks my significant other is sexy, I mostly care what I think and if the sex is really good, then I know.

Although you might be less likely to find out if people are good in bed if you aren't physically attracted to them to begin with.
 
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to quote scrubs

"fatties just seem to try harder" not that its my personal preference but I have found that "pretty" people seem to just coast on looks half of the time.

Also screw them both awesome sex with a mask on is the best.
 

Ladette

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Bad sex is bad, if I could have a better time with self service than I could with a romantic partner there's something wrong.

Passion or bust.
 

Zantos

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Depends. If I'm doing this for life (unless I'm being forced at gunpoint) then I'd assume the ugly girl (You know, it feels weird saying that, can I call the one OP called ugly Derek and the hot one Paul?) is really nice and we get on really well etc, which is why we're having great sex. Similarly, if sex with Paul isn't that great it probably means we don't get along and don't know how to please each other or particularly want to learn.

Following from this, since the question was the rest of your life I'm gonna go with Derek, since I'd much rather be having great sex with someone I like than OK sex with someone I don't.
 

Candidus

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Your question doesn't work. The ugly persons ugliness is likely to impact on my ability to become interested in sex to begin with, so the sex will simply not be better.

I'll go for the hot person every time.
 

Altorin

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ugly person all the way

I guarantee that if you're having passionate sex with an ugly person, they won't feel ugly to you, no matter how shallow you are.
 

LostCarcosa

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rutger5000 said:
Passionate sex, without a second doubt. I can hardly immagine anything worse then just okay sex.
I can imagine quite a few things worse than okay sex. Spiders on the toilet paper, for example.
However, I do agree with you. Passionate sex all the way!
 

Alucard788

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The best sex is with elf ears on both partners, and Dragonforce playing in the background.

Or is that just me? o_O
 

Vitor Goncalves

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Lucien Pyrus said:
There is such a thing as passionate sex? I would swear from my own experiences that this is just a myth.
You have a lot to live still.

Passionate sex, anyday.
 

The Chemist

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i've had a lot of sex, sex that lasts minutes and sex that lasts all day and passionate sex wins hands down. the only weird thing is, you can't have passionate sex with anybody. it can only happen with someone you are truly into.
 

Lord_Nemesis

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Speaking as a dude, I find it hard to differentiate between the different levels of sex awesomeness. I have never had bad sex, it's always good. So taking the hot chick would by my vote. The fact she is hot can make up for if she's a potato sack.
 

meryatathagres

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Passionate sex, because that just inherently indicates there's something about the ugly or less attractive person that really turns me on.....for the rest of my life! Hell, I've had affairs with some very hot individuals and even in the best case the mad passion cools down in a year or so.
 

winginson

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For 'passionate' I will substitute in 'good' as passionate envokes emotions that I never have.

Whilst it is true (for me) that good sex with an ugly person is better than bad sex with an attractive person, it is also true that being more attracted to person means the sex is better for you ie. ok sex is better with an attractive person than an ugly person.

Also have to assume that extreme outliers are ignored for this. You are never gonna have good sex with someone you find repulsive. As with all things about sexuality it is very hard to objectify these things as what you want changes from case to case.