Passionate. Sex without the passion is like...Half Life without Gordon Freeman, it's a good game but it's just missing that part that makes it amazing.
Poll: Ok Sex vs Passionate Sex
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Passionate sex. Without question.
I've had one night stands with hot girls that were so "meh" I completely lost interest in the girl afterwards. Seriously - disappointing sex is a very unnattractive feature in a person. My current partner and I have incredible sex, and their looks don't matter to me.
I'd sooner have a series of unbelievable orgasms with someone less attractive, than a short bout of frustration with someone hotter. I mean, half the time the lights are off anyway.
I've had one night stands with hot girls that were so "meh" I completely lost interest in the girl afterwards. Seriously - disappointing sex is a very unnattractive feature in a person. My current partner and I have incredible sex, and their looks don't matter to me.
I'd sooner have a series of unbelievable orgasms with someone less attractive, than a short bout of frustration with someone hotter. I mean, half the time the lights are off anyway.
I like how everyone is saying good looking is nothing if the sex is bad. It doesn't say bad sex it says okay sex, and if I feel the exact same for both of them but the only difference is looks and mediocre or amazing sex then I will choose the good looking one. Mainly because one of my number one turn on's after all the personality stuff is a good butt...oh man am I a sucker for a nice rear end 
I hope so. Cause so far sex hasn't been anything amazing. I guess that biases my answer towards ok sex.Vitor Goncalves said:
I would have the "ok" sex with the hot girl.
I've tried doing an ugly person for me, and god...it was horrible. She wasn't that ugly, but it was enough where I kind of just finished it as quickly as I could.
Sex is still overrated, anyways.
I've tried doing an ugly person for me, and god...it was horrible. She wasn't that ugly, but it was enough where I kind of just finished it as quickly as I could.
Sex is still overrated, anyways.
I think it comes from some rom com.Zac Smith said:
Anyway the question doesn't work for me. If I am in love with a girl then I find her attractive, beyond merely physical levels, so the passionate sex will win out as the choice is simply passionate sex or okay sex with a person.
or we can burn the both of them for being harlots.
If you were watching a Spanish channel then I'm guessing that the woman in the scene you were watching was hot.Raizekage said:
I would reject the question outright. Sorry, but I don't do well with multiple choice when it's a personal question. I would rather have a less-good-looking partner who was passionate and knew how to have hot sex, but I just couldn't get it up for a woman to whom I am not attracted. That's the best I can do.
I can say that the best-(or second best, as it's hard to determine since they're really neck and neck)-looking woman I've been with has definitely been one of the worst lovers. Oddly enough, she was really great at it until we got into the really intimate stuff. She was great at kissing and touching my non-intimate parts. And I'm not exaggerating when I say she looked like an anime character, so it was almost tragic. And the two greatest overall lovers I've had were women whom I dated long-term, and they were definitely the least attractive 2 lovers I've had (thank you, Escapist anonymity!). But they were far from ugly.
My question is: why can't I have both? And I don't just mean when it comes to sex. Why can't I have a woman who's both gorgeous and a great person? Obviously I need to be attracted to her, but I need to be able to stand her as well. The former may not apply if you're asexual, but I think that some Escapists greatly exaggerate the number of asexual people in the world.
Oh, Reginald. I disagree. There are a whole lot of really really bad things that can happen during sex.Zac Smith said:
I wonder what the gender divide for the answers would be. Typically, 'good' sex is principally a physical connection for men and more of an emotional connection for women - that's not to say that women would turn down sleeping with a good-looking guy or that men have no emotional connection whatsoever during sex, I just imagine thare would be a distinct split between genders on responses to this scenario.
OT: I'd choose the 'passionate' sex option. My Jacobean comedy alter-ego is also telling me I'm less likely to get cuckolded that way.
OT: I'd choose the 'passionate' sex option. My Jacobean comedy alter-ego is also telling me I'm less likely to get cuckolded that way.
Actually this is just a an famous phrase, no one is really credited with it's inception.370999 said:
However famous comedian Mel Brooks is the first and most popular user of said phrase, at least within public media.
On topic, I myself have only have had ok sex, probably due to awkwardness, and basic self-depracation. I can tell you its kinda unfufilling.
So full on animalistic *hispanic* passion sex is probably the better choice. Fat chicks need some loven' too
4 out of the 10 women were attractive. The hottest one being blonde and the guy deemed her out of the running because she was a bad dancer. (Him linking dance skill to sex) The other 6 unattractive women looked like crack whores, cheap strippers and very filthy looking women, but they were left in the running because apparently they were good dancers. One of them, the stripper, started doing a pole dance for the guys. That's when I stopped watching.funguy2121 said:
I'd go for the passionate sex. Attraction is based on more than just the appearence of both parties, if the sex was much greater with the girl you deemed uglier than surely she is the hypothetical woman I have better chemistry with in this scenario. The only downside to picking the ugly girl would be if I cared about other people seeing me with her and I know I would not.
So in answer to your question I think I would avoid being shallow and just enjoy life.
So in answer to your question I think I would avoid being shallow and just enjoy life.
Agreed, that poor person.Vitor Goncalves said:
Is there a in-between? Like a secret option. Usually in my experience the ones considered "Hot" are bitches most of the time.
Nah - I'm with you there. But to really get the best out of Dragonforce you need long hair and a wind machine.Alucard788 said:The best sex is with elf ears on both partners, and Dragonforce playing in the background.
Or is that just me?
Oh good! I thought I was alone. ^_^Hugh Dingwall said:Nah - I'm with you there. But to really get the best out of Dragonforce you need long hair and a wind machine.Alucard788 said:The best sex is with elf ears on both partners, and Dragonforce playing in the background.
Or is that just me?
Hmm I do have one of those huge room fans...perhaps....hell you just gave me an idea!