Poll: One of those contrived ethical dilemmas.

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Lectori Salutem

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Kill him/her of course.
I mean, the person in question is already dying and this way I avoid the problem all together.


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bartholen_v1legacy

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Depends on the question. If it was something whose answer would make them happy, why would I lie? If it's something that would wreck them, why would I want to make their last living hours agony? That would depend on the person...

Stupid answer: it all depends on the factors.
 

krazykidd

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You don't lie to someone on their deathbed ! Even i wouldn't do that! And i'm a terrible person. If it's someone a care about i will definately tellthe truth ? If it's not someone i care about i don't know why i'll be there in the first place.

I swear if i'm dying and i'm asking a question and whoever lies , i swear i will rank up in hell ( because i'm totally going to hell ) come back and haunt the shit out of them .
 

RhombusHatesYou

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Zhukov said:
Someone you care for greatly is dying. They are an adult. It could be your grown up child, close sibling, dear friend, parent, beloved spouse, lover... whoever. They will be dead within hours, but for the moment they are lucid and aware.

They ask you a question. They expect an honest and sincere answer.

I admit that I saved the dog.
 

C F

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Truth. You tell them the truth.
If you lie, you're dishonoring their final wish by taking it into your own hands to do what you feel is right for a person on their deathbed. And for what? A final few moments of disillusioned comfort when they want clarity and closure for their last hour on this earth? If they wanted comfort, they would have asked for comfort. Instead, they asked for the truth. That is what you give them.

A moment like this is a test of character. If you're writing a story, you want to consider all aspects of the possible choices, and what they reflect upon the person making them.
Who's doing the asking? The protagonist? What kind of person is he? Is he so shortsighted that he would lie to someone on their deathbed because from his perspective, it's the right thing to do? Or would he brace himself and tell a groundbreaking truth to someone because he feels they deserve to know, despite how it makes either party feel? Do his morals outweigh his own interests? How much does he respect the dying person?

This kind of context is important, a lot more so that "What is it they want to know?" That's merely peanuts, since it's already been established that telling the truth would be awkward, disconcerting, and distressing.
 

hooblabla6262

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Truth.
You don't deny someone their dying wish.
And I would expect someone to tell me the truth, regardless of if it hurt me.
Gotta show them the same respect.
 

CommanderL

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tell the truth they will be dead soon they wont have to suffer for long but I will get to watch it
 

Mr.Cynic88

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I'd absolutely lie. I'd be far less at peace with the death if I knew I made their last moments more stressful, while I'd take solace in lyng to make their last moments better.

The "truth" is always up for interpretation anyways, and as a whole, is largely overrated. Far more important is the impact we leave on each other's life, whatever the "truth" happens to be.
 

Your Gaffer

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You never know exactly how someone is going to take something even when you think you know.

I am not completely sure but I lean towards the truth. We only get one life and I can only think if it was me and I bothered to ask the question at all I would want a straight answer. So I say tell them the truth.
 

Tinygiant

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Lie. In this case, telling the truth would cause far more distress than the lie and would do very little good.

Might not be easy to live with later, though.
 

Canadamus Prime

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On the other hand, finally knowing the truth could put their mind at ease no matter how painful it might be.
 

Savryc

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Tell the truth, none of my loved ones like to be coddled so why lie? If the situation were reversed I'd damn well want a straight answer.
 

Gylukios

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Only the truth will set you free.

But seriously, these kind of abstract things are pretty pointless. There is no context. Context is everything. Context is the real world. Leave abstract to the classroom.
 

Flamezdudes

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It depends greatly on the person who is dieing and what they are asking of me to tell them. If it is my best friend or one of my group of best friends I think i'l try to be as honest as possible.

Not sure really.
 

Scarim Coral

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The truth no matter how horrible it is, they have the right to have their final hours to lament/ be prepare his/ her final thoughts.