Skeleon said:
Paragon Fury said:
With 6 billion people in the world, that means there are likely to be 6 people like that......
And your chances of actually meeting any of those 6 people are...?
... One in one billion. We're going in circles, guys.
On topic, I would say your thinking is as human as it gets. It's not fair for anyone to say you can't have far fetched fantasies (if you'll pardon the alliteration). That's what people do. They wish they had something (like love) and imagine a situation that would fit their wants (dating a girl like that).
I can certainly relate on this topic. For a long time, I spent a LOT of time thinking about what the perfect girl would be like. Now I'm dating someone who's almost the exact opposite. I'm a rising sophomore in high school, so I'm sure it won't last, but this is my first real girl friend, and I'm learning a lot more about myself from this experience than I thought I would.
Basically, the girl I imagined was tall and quiet and a geek/nerd. The girl I'm dating now is short and EXTREMELY extroverted and doesn't know much about computers, if anything. First played a video game, like, a year ago. My point is that you learn, once you meet someone you really like, that your tastes vary greatly from your expectations of your tastes. I hear people having this same kind of experience all the time, like my brother, who's several years older than me and a fountain of dating knowledge. So the idea of this girl can really be as out there as you want, but I say it's totally normal. She could have a sword the size of just about any male Final Fantasy protagonist, be a master of alchemy, or whatever. I say it's fine, because it's a fantasy. Fantasy's are SUPPOSED to be ridiculous, because the point of them is to indulge you're wildest desires, the ones that either can't be or haven't been fulfilled in real life. But I think you'll learn in time that the girl you really want is nothing like that. Or maybe she is something like that. But you won't bother comparing her to your fantasy and being disappointed, you'll just like her. 'Cause, as far as I can tell, that's how life and love work.