I'm not really sure, since I haven't tried it yet. I've actually been to a BDSM event where people were playing and stuff. I could have tried some stuff out, but I didn't really feel comfortable yet and just met and talked to people. When it comes to BDSM, most of the time I don't really find the idea of S&M that pleasurable, but the idea B&D kind of stuff appealing. But then again, sexuality always finds a way to surprise me, so I always try to stay open-minded and not make solid conclusions about myself too early on, or if I do, don't just close myself off to those conclusions changing.