Vault101 said:
"we"..as in you or "I" not all together at the same time (if that makes sense)
but we actually "cant" comprehend 1000 people, you cant cry/greive for 1000 individuals like you would 1 that ment alot to you...its the way our brains are wired
this explains it better http://www.cracked.com/article_14990_what-monkeysphere.html
Ahh, we as in you or I, kk; i never thought of using that word that way, but it does make sense even if i would find better for you to use I when talking about something that you are sure you feel/do and we when you are almost sure you and I both do.
And that's precisely my point, we can (without too much efforth) comprehend 1,000 people and the idea that each of them is a person, we can't however feel personal connection with each and every one of them. Think of it like this, I can comprehend why people love ME 3 or Mario Galaxy 2, i can't bring me to like them but can see from an outsider PoV their charm.
That is also why I find kind of aberrant that so many people ain't choosing the one person, either they are deluding themsevles or their emotional links are kind of screwed up (compared to your average human monkey). Then again, my monkeysphere is not even in the 100's, so i might overvalue the "people" in it
Dan Steele said:
Lets see: sacrifice the only rare, 1 in a million sexy girl, that I will probably never get again in my entire existence OR a large group of narcissistic humans in a petty society that hates me and will probably forget mine and her sacrifice in a few months. Sorry, but I will take the loved one any day.
Ahh, chances are that your GF is not the sexiest girl in a 500 group of females (taking 500 because the starting number is 1000 and females make more or less 50% of the population in most countries); you just see her that way because phisical contact and sexual interaction has released oxytocin in your brain making you bond to her in a way not totally different as a smoker associating nicotine with good times.
You will never see get anyone again, each person is factually unique, so uniqueness is not a special feature.
Again, just by chances the person you have a relationship with is almost surely more narcissistic that at least 1 out that 1000, unless she is the freaking Mother Teresa, and eww to the idea of dating her (even when she was alive).
I would take the one in a heartbeat, but not for her nor for any of those reasons (rationalization to trick your own mind IMO), i would choose her for me, because I do care more about people close to me than the rest of the world.
emeraldrafael said:
As the one how the feel about the situation and act on their answer.
EFF THAT! What if she choose to die? I couldn't live with that
Just choose her before you can even think, on a 0.5 second delay at most! The moment she looks and sees all those big eyes of the kids that would need to die for her you are fucked -.-''