Poll: Self pleasure

[Ledan]

2: four times a day? Every day? I don't know if I should be worried, or impressed.

Not every day admittedly. Just when I'm feeling particularly unloved.

WATCH SOME PONIES!

Oh, and hug someone. People usually feel better after a hug..... just don't hug a random stranger. That can be a bit creepy......

Oh.... and KITTENS! Get a kitten to love you (and ignore you). If you can't get a kitten...... well there is always internet kittens. Lolcats also help.

Captcha: sedbyR Medicine..... try some of that as well?

 

[Woodsey]

Absoulutly not! I'm 17 and have never done such a thing. It is barbaric, disgusting and unhealthy. It is bad for both physical and mental health. It is shunned in society, and rightfully so.

If whoever's been feeding you that shit carries on for much longer, your eyes are going to turn a particularly unpleasant shade of brown.

OT: Once or twice a day.

Some Sundays can get really boring though....

 

[Loop Stricken]

But my point is that, according to him, excessive masturbation is what gave him the sexual prowess he has. He can climax and stay perfectly hard and keep going. I had the honor of watching him climax about 7 - 8 times within the hour without going flaccid once.

Well Goddamn, looks like I've got some work to do; not only is that impressive stamina, but to make it an honour to be observed? 'tis some ubermensch shit right there.

 

[Mr Fixit]

And for some odd reason 3+ a day when i'm sick, kinda strange i guess.

Huh, same here. Well, not 3+, but usually 2-3 a day. I'm guessing it's because I can never play videogames when I'm sick, so my mind doesn't get distracted.

OT: Five times a week sounds about right. It can differ from week to week.

I can't even use that excuse, i go about my day as normal as possible when i'm sick unless i'm dead to the world. Plenty of distractions, but i still gotta crank a few out.

 

[Blow_Pop]

whenever I feel like it. Can be up to 5 or 6 times a day to once every few months.....

 

[Loop Stricken]

But my point is that, according to him, excessive masturbation is what gave him the sexual prowess he has. He can climax and stay perfectly hard and keep going. I had the honor of watching him climax about 7 - 8 times within the hour without going flaccid once.

Well Goddamn, looks like I've got some work to do; not only is that impressive stamina, but to make it an honour to be observed? 'tis some ubermensch shit right there.

You can do it four times, you're very well on your way I'd say.

By the way,

Besides, it's not like I'm waving it about the place like a hyper bonobo chimp.

I LAAAIVL'd (laughed aloud at an inappropriate volume level).

Well, if you can proffer any advice I'm all ears. Recently been made redundant so I have a lot of free time on my hands. Never occurred to me to try competitive masturbation.

 

[sky14kemea]

I don't think there is a set average, it depends on the person.

Mine is never. I find it a bit gross and I'm too uncomfortable to do it, but I have nothing against others doing it. I know it's meant to be normal.

And please don't quote me saying "You will when you're older" or "You're lying." I'm 19 and I'm telling the truth. =P

 

[Jonluw]

Usually once a day before bed. Sometimes twice, but that is rare.

And I thought once/twice a week was -too- much.

Oh...what a sheltered life I've led.

Why would once or twice be too much? If you are in your 20s and you do it about 20 times a month you cut you risk of prostate cancer by a third. That's at least what I have heard

It all depends on the demographic, no?
I think somewhere between 5 and 7 times a week is normal for (single) men.

Really? I know at least one person who has a wife and he still jacks a few times a week. I wouldn't be surprised if she goes to town too.

Oh I don't doubt married men still polish the whistle (gaaaaaaaaaaah, now I got a mental image of my dad). I just think it's likely for them to step it down a notch, seing how they have other outlets.

 

[Dinosaur_Face]

me, usually once a day, sometimes twice, thats pretty normal right?

 

[sky14kemea]

I don't think there is a set average, it depends on the person.

Mine is never. I find it a bit gross and I'm too uncomfortable to do it, but I have nothing against others doing it. I know it's meant to be normal.

And please don't quote me saying "You will when you're older" or "You're lying." I'm 19 and I'm telling the truth. =P

I hope for your sake you identify as asexual, because as I said to that guy above/on the first page somewhere, your first sexual experience will probably be a disaster if you have no idea how to control and pace yourself.

So yeah. If you choose to do that, at least expect your first sexual encounter to be you staring off into the distance at the end of a bed, humiliated. It's a bit like... I dunno... offering to cook a spread for a dinner party when you've never cooked a meal in your life. And then when the guests arrived, they're disappointed at the sight of microwave noodles instead of lobster thermidor.

Mm, lobster.

Fair enough, thanks for the warning. I'm expecting my first sexual encounter to be a disaster anyway. xD

I probably would qualify for asexual. >.>

 

[Ossian]

Hmm. I don't know about that.

My boyfriend has a crazy sex drive and always has had it. Even with me in the picture, he needs "additional time".

But my point is that, according to him, excessive masturbation is what gave him the sexual prowess he has. He can climax and stay perfectly hard and keep going. I had the honor of watching him climax about 7 - 8 times within the hour without going flaccid once.

I don't know if there's anything to back up his claim, however. I'm interested to hear what you've heard.

Well, I'm saying this, if you are content getting yourself off, you will have less physiological motivation to find a girl and have a relationship with her. Sure everything is better with a partner, and this is especially true when it comes to the topic at hand. I'll make an analogy; Why though would someone go out to eat for dinner when they have a perfectly fine refrigerator full of food at home? Well one might say eating out is a special occasion, and it is true, but you don't want to do it every night. If you have an empty refrigerator, you'll want to eat out all the time because you have nothing at home.
Basically I dumped out my Fridge


Since I've abstained, especially considering I'm a shy, inexperienced 21 year old that never has had a Girl friend, since I've stopped I've noticed how much I want a relationship, not even for sex, but just for company and a relationship. Before I would simply be happy having some me time and I'd go back to playing games or whatever.

I read an article online about a month into my abstinence and It was saying that you can seriously deplete your testosterone by excessive masturbation (in this case its talking once daily) This can seriously effect your mood in different ways.

 

[Zing]

There's no "normal" amount. However much you do it is fine. It fluxuates for me. Sometimes I do it once a day, sometimes I won't do it for like a week because I'm tired at night. Sometimes I just have sex.

 

[Conza]

Absoulutly not! I'm 17 and have never done such a thing. It is barbaric, disgusting and unhealthy. It is bad for both physical and mental health. It is shunned in society, and rightfully so.

Wow, I found one of the 9. Which country are you from? In most Western societies, its considered normal I believe, even if not often publicly discussed.