I think my situation isn't the worst there is out there : when I organize a role-playing session with friends, the job of the storyteller befalls on me almost every single time, so I couldn't let my dear players down nosepicking while I go chasing down my love interest, unless I want them to crucify me.
On the other hand, I managed to get said love interest interested into my games, so she'd be sure to come and hey, who knows what can happen once the evening is done ? I tend to be a rather persuasive bastard, when I set my mind to it.