Poll: Sexual encounters, and your discussions about them.

[OmniscientOstrich]

I guess with the anonymity I'm more willing to discuss sexual quirks here, but as for actual encounters there's really not much of anything to discuss. IRL I really don't feel comfortable talking about that stuff; I guess to me sex is something you do, not something you talk about. I don't think I'll ever understand the kind of people who brag about their conquests. >.>

 

[OctoH]

I will not go into any specific details (usually), but I will confirm or deny if someone asks.

 

[Eamar]

IRL, only with my best friend. He knows everything about me and I know everything about him in that regard. Not sure how delighted our partners are about it, mind you We're both pretty open minded and share tips on things to try... thinking about it now, it's pretty weird. Better not fall out with him any time soon, or NOTHING will be safe.

 

[Starik20X6]

Yeah sure. I'm not the type to bring it up randomly, but if someone asks I'll answer. Usually confined to a handful of IRL friends.

 

[Crazy]

No, whenever someone asks me I usually just show instead of tell. Examples are better than a description, right?

 

[The Funslinger]

In real life? Not intentionally...

Here? Why not? None of my exes are on here and only about two or three people on here know me IRL, so no harm done.

The online world offers enough basic anonymity which is great for gleaning tips off of people with more experience. What? It's true...

*awaits Bara_no_Hime's comments* =P

To be fair, it's always wise to take online anecdotes with a grain of salt.

OT: Online, I will contribute to the discussions about this sort of thing. Offline, while I'm not adverse to such discussions, unless it's explicitly A-OK, I follow the bro-code by never going beyond the "slightly more detail" section of this:

1) no detail: We hooked up
2) slightly more detail: We totally hooked up
3) too much detail: We took all our clothes off and I put my in her and we simultaneously.

The reason for this is because detail forces bros to envision their fellow bro nude, which is a situation nobody wants to be taken by surprise with.

 

[JokerboyJordan]

Ever since talking to one of my best friends (admittedly rather loudly), and also one of my other friends about a certain sexual conquest, suddenly everyone was making jokes about it, as my girlfriend isn't the kind that is meant to be doing such things.
As such, I don't talk about such things with people any more, and I find that just fine, as other people my age are either total slags or bullshitters anyway, so no loss there.

 

[WolfThomas]

I'm super closed lips with most people, I usually won't even confirm or deny anything. But with very very close friends I discuss very frank details, it's good to work out what seems normal, good and bad by comparison.

 

[boyvirgo666]

It really depends who im talking to. Sometimes ill go into details with certain people but im fairly closed in my life with most people.

 

[LongAndShort]

Nah. I can't say I've had enough to have anything really to discuss beyond a few occasions that I didn't feel particularly happy about afterwards, but even if I did I like to keep my lives separate and private. I get pretty uncomfortable when my mates start talking about there's.