Poll: She's really into me... she just doesn't know who I am

[Deadarm]

You should go along with it for a while and then come clean when you get bored of it, then try to explain yourself in such a way that she doesn't try to kill herself.

 

[Logic 0]

Ok, so a bit of backstory first. I am the most generic looking person of all time. Now that we have that out of the way, today I was walking from my class to my car and I hear this girl yell "Nick" really loud (This isn't my name BTW). So you know, natural reaction, you hear a loud noise, you react to it. So I look over and this smoking hot girl runs up and gives me a hug and a kiss on the cheek, and then starts telling me about how she hasn't seen me in over a year and things of that nature for about 2 minutes. Now, to avoid an extremely awkward situation and just because I have a sense of humor, I just sort of go along with it.

So I make some small talk with her for about, 10 minutes, (she's dropping major hints that she's into me) and then she asks "So how are you and (Natalie?)" and I just pulled out of my ass something along the lines of, "well she's going to SDU, I'm here at (my college) and with the whole long distance thing we both decided that it wasn't going to work out." So she tells me that she doesn't have a boyfriend right now and asks for my number. At this point I'm kind of committed to the lie that I'm this Nick guy so I tell her I dropped my phone and now it doesn't work so I'm switching to Cingulair and I probably won't have the same number. So she writes down her number for me and tells me to call her when I get a new phone, then hugs me again and runs off to her next class.

So now I have her number and I really have no idea what I should do. I could keep pretending to be Nick. Sure, that will blow up in my face probably very quickly, but I would have an interesting story to tell for the rest of my life. I could call her and come clean. I feel like kind of an asshole for getting her hopes up, and she did seem pretty into me anyways. Or I could just not call her, but then i might run into her again and that will be just as awkward. So what do you think I should do? And do you think if I come clean I still have a chance with her, or will she be too pissed off at me?

Oh, sidenote. just as a complete mindfuck to top it all off, I come home and the movie fightclub is on TV. If you've seen it you know what I'm talking about.

I know this is just going to end in pepper spray.

 

[Joa_Belgium]

Call her and come clean. You may get away with being that Nick character in the beginning, but sooner or later the entire situation will blow up in your face. And that's way worse than telling her the truth.

 

[King of the N00bs]

congrats you just f***ed somthing up so bad that you are eventually going to get a really big thorn in your side. i guess we all do that one time or another

 

[Flunk]

Wait until you run into her, if you both go to the same college it will happen sooner or later. When you do tell her how funny her "prank" that she pulled on you was and that you'd love to buy her a drink.

 

[AbsoluteVirtue18]

[small]God, Max is evil...[/small]

Come clean. Just tell her she mistook you for this "Nick".

 

[sumanoskae]

Call her and come clean, calmly and maturely apologize and ask if you can make it up to her, tell her you still want to get to know her. sorry dude, I know you didn't mean badly, but what you did WAS kind of fucked up, whoever this Nick person was he was obviously important to her. But I think that you might have something good here, plus if she's understanding then that's a very positive character trait. Give it a shot, what have you got to loose?, worst that could happen is that she'll feel deceived and end up hating your guts. But if you keep lying then she'll hate your guts anyway, and if you don't try you won't get anywhere. So the only course of action that could potentially do you any good would be to call her and tell her the truth

 

[JonnoStrife]

Rules 1 and 2! But seriously at least she didn't call you Tyler...

Tell her your you and go like a bull at a gate. And by generic do you mean you have a forgettable face or your just plain looking?

 

[Ramthundar]

As a moral person, I say you should tell her the truth, but say you lied because you liked her and wanted to get to know more about her.
As a human being, I say whatever the hell you do you post every detail of what happens, good or bad.

 

[Pegghead]

Tell her the truth. Or keep it a secret, because it will be funny as hell after you've been together your whole lives through a long, happy marriage, had a few kids etc then you break the news to her just before you pass away. I hate sound extremely evil here but the look on her face would be priceless, and would She be really mad and upset for thinking you were Nick, or would She just accept the fact. Anhow, whatever happens in this situation you've gotta state the result afterwards.

 

[Nickolas Azieha]

do you like your head? good. girls will eat your entire body if you fuck with them like that (in my experiance) dont call her, just talk to her at school till she might actually like you (if its beyond like 1.5 days) come clean. if she begins to like you come clean. dont like it linger though.

 

[Insanum]

Ring up, Come clean.

This story is epic enough now, If you go further it goes from being "Lol! Silly girl!" to being "you were a prick" if you carry on.

I wish that'd happen to me! Lol.

 

[Fists]

sounds like you've been reading too much shakespeare, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Comedy_of_Errors , well at least we can trust it will be a hilarious escapade.

 

[Leopold_Stotch]

All male-female relationships are built upon lying.
So if she could make you happy while you are together, go for it.

 

[ScientificDJ]

i always recommend the honest approach. lying is wrong, especially when you're just doing it to uck with someone or cos you're to much of a coward to tell the truth.

All male-female relationships are built upon lying.

mine aren't. i'm always 100% honest and transparent.

 

[JC175]

Call and come clean, for sure. You can't pretend to be someone else for long before things get suspicious. Just explain that you were put off by her attractiveness or something, in sexier words.

If it fails you've lost nothing, and you've got a cool story to tell.

 

[Reklore]

I said call her and pretend to be Nick and get a date.


Then at the end tell she... if you don't give your Self away before hand.

And try and do it with some class!

EDIT: Amm, maybe tell her at the beginning so she don?t hate you AS must. Then if you take her to a nice place she'll stall.

 

[ChocoFace]

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Maybe the girl is playing games on you instead?

anyways, i'd say come clean.