I'm inclined to say PS3 just on the basis of personal preference, but I'd say your preferences match you more to the Xbox 360. Though, if you're looking for a more longer lasting platform, I'd recommend the PS3. For the online, you get to pay Microsoft to play, while Sony kinda thinks it complimentary for you, much like pillow in a motel. Then there's the base--Live is, well, lively, and excitable, while the PS3 is more solemn, and a bit more goal-focused (especially when you hear your mates talking about having to contact the mortgage company because the paycheck would arrive a few days late, but that the money was already posted as pending to their account while they drop lead into some guy's face). Game wise...most things are on both, so it just depends. Look into the exclusives, see which are your type, then go from there. But I'll still recommend the PS3.