I definitely liked Fallout 3 but I have to say I prefer New Vegas. As for the "led around by the nose part, I'd like to disagree: in terms of being railroaded like a ************, I felt that this was more prevalent in F3.evilneko said:Get Fallout New Vegas IF:
* You want something with more of a wild west feel than a post-apocalyptic one
* You want more silliness
* You prefer being led around by the nose
* You don't care much about random encounters while traveling, you'd rather just get where you're going.
* You like the idea of a plot driven mainly by seeking revenge, that ends less than halfway through the game.
Get Fallout 3 IF:
* You want your post-apocalypse to be more post-apocalyptic
* You want less silliness (but not quite none)
* You like the idea of more random encounters while out exploring the wastes
* You like the idea of tracking down your estranged dad and bringing his dream to fruition, while taking a massive step towards rebuilding civilization at the same time.
Wait for a nice sale and get BOTH if you like all those things.
There are a ton of differences between the two games that I did not list. Iron sights and hardcore mode in NV, variety of weapons and enemies, crafting, that sort of thing. I left these out mainly because of mods. With mods you can add, remove, or change most if not all of these features. If you want, say, iron sights in FO3, you can have it. There's a mod for that, a very good one actually. If you think you'd like NV better but hate iron sights (I find them annoying, actually, but not enough to mod 'em out), there's a mod for that too.
I don't really think either one is objectively superior to the other. People rag on the story of Fallout 3 all the time, but I think most of those people just haven't thought through the implications of what you're doing in it. I like it better than the generic revenge plot of NV.
For instance, the way in which there is basically only one faction for which you can work. Oh, sure, you can do the "Stupid Evil" route (Blow up Megaton, Carry out the bidding of the "President" etc.) but basically you're still responsible for the dumb water quest.
Contrast this to the basically free choice of factions for which to work in F:NV.