This drone speaks with the voice and authority of the LGBT community (sounds like a delicious sandwich)-
Let me weigh in on the issue, after reading countless responses to this issue here and everywhere else people seem to be missing one big part of the puzzle here. When a heterosexual character engages in a relationship with a person of the opposite gender, what is their most defining characteristic? Is it their sheer obstinancy? Their roguish lop sided grin and sarcastic manner, perhaps they are inhibited and reserved around most people? For whatever the reason we know that the character is of note and is differentiated by their own characteristic flaws or merits, it certainly isn't because of their heterosexuality.
Which brings me to the big point, we need to stop writing about "gay characters" and start writing characters that happen to be gay, and not just for fiction for children. I am not a fan of any heavy handed method when it comes to teaching children even if it is for a good cause, I think there should always be a choice for the parents if they want to expose their children to any sexuality of/or human pair bonding.
My biggest problem with 'gay characters' in most day time friendly television series is the heavy handed way they are meant to educate adults about sexual diversity. Most of these characters are hardly relatable and they always have a tendency to devolve into camp, that or they are depicted in an overly flattering way, this can be just as damaging and counterproductive to what the writers were intending to do. How is a character even remotely human when he does nothing but act like Jack from Will and Grace?!
I just came out at work a month ago, I've been dreading it for awhile simply for how inevitably boring it is and I'm sure my coworkers noticed after my lack of alacrity in how I was barely engaged with their conversation about your typical generic super model/actress type anyway.
Big deal, so what? You know why I didn't come out when I started working there over a year ago? Besides being INCREDIBLY obnoxious and a gross implication that I can't stand out beyond my sexuality and just having the virtue of being INCREDIBLY unimportant to the task at hand, I didn't think they were ready and that I'd rather that they know me as a person and make their own judgments based on THAT information rather than some absurd stereotype.