cuddly_tomato said:
This is the problem - you are basing your assumptions on other assumptions. The fact is nobody knows if life started by chance, was deliberate, or even what life actually is. If you want to follow pure scientific reductionism to its conclusion then life is a chemical reaction which has not yet resolved itself. But even then there is no real proof it was an accident, and attempts to actually create life (not organic chemicals, but actual life) have thus far failed.
True, but don't forget about deduction. Sure we don't know the answer, but that doesn't equal knowing jack shit ;-) And don't forget (but this is more directed to I3uster), that chemistry is fár from a lottery; if you put certain molecules under certain circumstances toghether, they will make a certain reaction. Repeat everything, and you'll end up with the same reaction.
All you have done there is take a step back from the assumptions earlier onto another assumption. There really isn't a good reason to believe in alien life, and equally there isn't a good reason to disbelieve it either. It is simply a mystery awaiting discovery. I do believe the SETI programs are going to discover jack-shit though. Best plan is to scrap them and accelerate the various space exploration programs. Get a whole bunch of shuttles up into space and build a REALLY REALLY MASSIVE super-telescope that will let us actually view other systems and possibly see planets in them. We might have more of an answer then. Sitting about waiting for possibly radio signals (which we mightn't even recognize even if we get them) will do little except drain resources.
FYI, we already have space-telescopes looking at exo-planets [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HAWMa_YEuKI], and it's quite an old telescope as well

Heck, even ground telescopes are looking for exo-planets, and not without success. The counter stands on 228 planets [http://exoplanets.org/] actually, even sporting a póssible candidate for harboring alien life [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gliese_581_d]. There are also space missions planned, and already operating, regarding the search of exo-planets and even life. I'll post a little list (directly from wikipedia

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COROT (launched in 2006, exo-planet project) [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/COROT]
Kepler Mission (scheduled for this year, exo-planet project) [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kepler_Mission]
PEGASE (scheduled for 2010-2012, Jupiter-like exo-planet project) [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/PEGASE]
Space Interferometry Mission (scheduled for 2015-2016, Earth-like exo-planet project) [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Space_Interferometry_Mission]
New Worlds Mission (scheduled for 2013, exo-planet project) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_Worlds_Mission
Terrestial Planet Finder (no launch schedule yet, Earth-like exo-planet project): http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Terrestrial_Planet_Finder
And last but DEFINATLY not least, the Darwin Mission (scheduled for 2013, alien life and Earth-like exo-planets project): http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Darwin_(ESA)
So yup, SETI is hopelessly antiquated, and more like a symbol just like that golden disc we send with that space probe in the 70's. Exo-planet research is indeed our best shot, ESA and NASA fully realised that, hence the little list. You're lagging behind the facts my man, hehe ;-)
Edit: seems that there is a limit on hyperlinks, can't get the last couple one's straight. O well, then this will have to do.