I don't want to resort to the police yet, I will if I have too but I want to do it this way before I spend money of legal teams.CriticalMiss said:If you are being harassed on the internet to the point you have a breakdown then contact the police and have them do something about it. If this person is seriously stalking you then having their account banned isn't going to stop them, they'll just make another and carry on and step up their game knowing that they have gotten to you.
Back on topic: I'm fairly content with Steam. I've gotten a bunch of games on the cheap and it has worked without a hitch since I've started using it. And I haven't had any issues with customer service, I've contacted them twice and gotten a reply within a few days each time. They weren't particularly urgent things so I can understand why some people are upset because they have had to wait over a week for help with something important.
I do have an issue with the in-game web browser in that it doesn't want to work properly and flickers on and off whenever I try to move the mouse. Although I don't know if that is because of Steam or if my laptop is buggered.
What kind of messages does this guy actually send? Does he swear at you? Can you give us an example of what he has said in the past using steam?BigTeef said:I personally enjoy steam a lot and use it to my full extend, and take full advantage of the sales.
But there is one thing I really don't like about steam is how their support team handles things.
See I am a victim of stalking, I am apart of the empires mod community and I have been targeted by a long time user who has been harassing this community because of bitterness hate.
I have reported this person so many times, and it frankly got scary to the point I have sent them an email and open a ticket regarding this user. It took them a week and a half to get back to me and all they said was.
"Hello Joshua,
Thank you for contacting Steam Support.
We apologize for the delay.
Please use the "Report Violation" feature to report inappropriate behavior on the Steam Community.
Please do the following:
Go to the profile of the offending user.
Click the 'More' drop-down located at the top right of the page.
Choose "Report Violation"
Select the violation and hit "Submit Report"
All complaints are reviewed by the Steam Community team.
If you have any further questions, please let us know. "
Me and my friends have reported this person so many times, and this is all they tell me after dealing with another week of this person. He is thoroughly blocked but somehow manages to send chat invites, and its scary to see the first thing I login into steam when I get home from college is this guy sending me a chat invite. I had a nervous breakdown and it's just shocking to see how they just refuse to stop this person. I have sent in so much evidence via the support ticket and all I get is that standard response.
I have been a loyal user of steam for 7 years, and they just don't seem to help me when I really need it.
What is your opinion on steam, and are you content with how they run things?
Get his IP. Invite him to a voice chat, netstat in console, grab his IP, and wave it at him. That typically scares off anyone. You now have enough information to getBigTeef said:Snip
He never talks or refers himself in first person, he says "we" for everything. He communicates like Legion does in mass effect. He talks about conspiracies involving the empires forum, talks a organization inside empires called Blackhole and something about deists.DrOswald said:What kind of messages does this guy actually send? Does he swear at you? Can you give us an example of what he has said in the past using steam?
I mean, banning someone is a pretty serious step and unless you have some real evidence to back up that he is harassing you they are not going to ban him. A chat invite every day is not harassment, it is a minor annoyance. Unless he is actually using their service to actually harass you (by, say, cussing up a storm) they have no reason to ban him and in fact should not ban him.
From their perspective you could just be some asshole with a grudge trying to hurt another person by getting him banned. They are not going to take your word for it and they really shouldn't.
I am better than that, I don't want to stoop to that level because then im no better than him if I did that.SadisticFire said:Get his IP. Invite him to a voice chat, netstat in console, grab his IP, and wave it at him. That typically scares off anyone. You now have enough information to get
His Name
His Phone Number
His ISP
His place of living
And of course you could(I HEAVILY DON'T ENDORSE IT) DoS/DDoS it, though that is illegal.
But it does also give away your IP to him if he goes through the same process.
If you're paranoid he could ruin your life, set up a VPN, or spoof your IP. Typically people don't know how to get passed that.
You could ask server owners he's been on, see if he has IP logs. Maybe watch what servers he's go on, befriend server owners and ask for IP. That's a pretty safe one-way IP catch.
But on a more personal note, I can empathize with this situation.
Some guy that was harrassing me and DDoS'ing me and DDoS'ing and server I go on. Eventually I decided it was time to change my IP and be done with it. It worked.
He can't grab your IP via steam chat, but via servers he controls/can get IP from, voice chat, and any other direct communication he can.
So, if you're in college, I don't know what you can do if it's shared dorm internet, but personal internet you can contact your ISP for an IP change.
He's haramless then, just annoying words and empty threats.
Ok, then 2 follow up questions:BigTeef said:He never talks or refers himself in first person, he says "we" for everything. He communicates like Legion does in mass effect. He talks about conspiracies involving the empires forum, talks a organization inside empires called Blackhole and something about deists.DrOswald said:What kind of messages does this guy actually send? Does he swear at you? Can you give us an example of what he has said in the past using steam?
I mean, banning someone is a pretty serious step and unless you have some real evidence to back up that he is harassing you they are not going to ban him. A chat invite every day is not harassment, it is a minor annoyance. Unless he is actually using their service to actually harass you (by, say, cussing up a storm) they have no reason to ban him and in fact should not ban him.
From their perspective you could just be some asshole with a grudge trying to hurt another person by getting him banned. They are not going to take your word for it and they really shouldn't.
I have heard stories from members who had dealt with him on how he managed to get a hold of medical records of someone on the forums, then posted them online. Then he framed somebody of being a pedophile and they had to spend overnight in a cell until he was cleared the next day. Then he spread a rumor about an admin being bulimic.
He has contacted everyone at-least one in our members database trying to talk to somebody. Now he is doing it to me, and frankly the timing could not be anymore worse.
BigTeef said:He never talks or refers himself in first person, he says "we" for everything. He communicates like Legion does in mass effect. He talks about conspiracies involving the empires forum, talks a organization inside empires called Blackhole and something about deists.
I have heard stories from members who had dealt with him on how he managed to get a hold of medical records of someone on the forums, then posted them online. Then he framed somebody of being a pedophile and they had to spend overnight in a cell until he was cleared the next day. Then he spread a rumor about an admin being bulimic.
He has contacted everyone at-least one in our members database trying to talk to somebody. Now he is doing it to me, and frankly the timing could not be anymore worse.
This is it exactly. This has nothing to do with Steam and it isn't their responsibility to shield or protect you from someone saying, by all intents and purposes, "Hello" to you using their system.DrOswald said:You are probably looking in the wrong place for help with this problem.
That pretty much sums up Steam. I've never ever been able to identify with the people that claim "Valve truly care about their customers". They don't give a toss about their customers unless money is changing hands, and the fact that Steam has remained a largely untouched pile of mismatched code for years only highlights how unconcerned Valve are about the user experience.babinro said:Bottom Line: Steam is a minimalist service. They don't care about their products or customers beyond what seems to be the minimum legal requirements. They offer amazing prices and it's pretty much buyer beware from there.