Poll: Still with your first boy/girlfriend? First kiss?
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Exactly. I love my current girlfriend incredibly strongly, but I think the failures of all my previous relationships (Including a marriage) makes this relationship feel all the sweeter.Nimcha said:
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I've been with someone but never kissed them.....?
Really?
WHAT? are we talking fake relationship Tim & Daisy here or something? (Spaced ref if you don't geddit)
Went with "Screw you, I'm eternally single and proud!" because it was the closest to "I've had neither".
my first girlfriend WAS my first kiss, but in hindsight she was rather shallow (take that as you will, in both senses you are correct).
she was (is?) actually a model, but I'm glad she broke up with me before she started posing in pink leather outfits with swords. it might've worked if she'd been any good. got away safely. next kiss was actually with the girl I was with for about 6-8 months. I don't regret the relationship, I just regret the fact that I kept sleeping with her after it ended. the last party I was at she and a roommate tried to keep me from leaving the bathroom (and no, clearly not with those intentions) so I think it's time to put a full stop behind that one.
she was (is?) actually a model, but I'm glad she broke up with me before she started posing in pink leather outfits with swords. it might've worked if she'd been any good. got away safely. next kiss was actually with the girl I was with for about 6-8 months. I don't regret the relationship, I just regret the fact that I kept sleeping with her after it ended. the last party I was at she and a roommate tried to keep me from leaving the bathroom (and no, clearly not with those intentions) so I think it's time to put a full stop behind that one.
My current girlfriend isn't my first but she is (technically) my first kiss and we've been going strong for 9 months
My first kiss was with my first boyfriend and I'm not dating him anymore. In hindsight, it was a bit of a mistake due to the fact that I was 21 and hadn't yet had a boyfriend at that time. Societal pressure, wasn't friends with him long enough to get a grasp of what he was like before dating him, etc.
The borderline internet stalking thing after breaking up with him is not exactly endearing to me either.
(So, if he happens to read this: Stop monitoring my accounts!)
The borderline internet stalking thing after breaking up with him is not exactly endearing to me either.
(So, if he happens to read this: Stop monitoring my accounts!)
My first relationship ended because we were very different people that didn't fit well together. I don't regret it as I recognize that we were kids who were eager to experience it, and it soon ended after. I just moved on and am still looking for that special someone.
My history would qualify me as a bed-hopper, but I'm mellow...er now. Not so much settled down as preoccupied.
My first kiss was when I was 21, but that was a girl who regularly would get drunk and hit on someone new. I was the target of the night. I don't like to think about the incident.
My first real kiss was when I was 25. We met on a train, and she was fabulous. Alas, the relationship was very short lived and busted my innocent heart in two. I cried for a week. I went emo for the rest of the year.
My current paramour has been with me since September 2010. We've kissed a bit, we play games a lot, and haven't gotten around to sex yet, and that's okay with both of us; chemistry is a bit iffy there.
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My first kiss was when I was 21, but that was a girl who regularly would get drunk and hit on someone new. I was the target of the night. I don't like to think about the incident.
My first real kiss was when I was 25. We met on a train, and she was fabulous. Alas, the relationship was very short lived and busted my innocent heart in two. I cried for a week. I went emo for the rest of the year.
My current paramour has been with me since September 2010. We've kissed a bit, we play games a lot, and haven't gotten around to sex yet, and that's okay with both of us; chemistry is a bit iffy there.
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To explain that further, basically you were in a relationship but were very unsuccessful with physical contact. Someone EXCRUCIATINGLY Fundamentalist would fit here. Also, this thread was written for the lulz cuz I see too many threads about first kisses written as though they (the threads) were actually relevant. I'd hoped the silliness of the poll options would demonstrate this somewhat.Rancid0ffspring said:
Yes to both for me, though I am by no means her first. Had sex before we were even officially dating which was a little odd, but now we've been together happily for just over two years now, longer than she's been with anyone by a long shot. Couldn't be happier.
I am not currently with my first girlfriend. The first person I kissed was not my girlfriend at the time either, actually. Nor was my first "anything else more intimate than a kiss".
Oddly enough, when I'm officially going out with someone, they want nothing to do with me. Before or after though... that's where all the fun is.
Oddly enough, when I'm officially going out with someone, they want nothing to do with me. Before or after though... that's where all the fun is.
Still with my first, who is also the first girl I kissed. Kind of surprised that she puts up with my mild schizo/bipolar/whatever-the-fuck-is-wrong-with-me, though. Guess that makes me lucky, that I have someone who completely loves and accepts me, despite my flaws.
[sub]She could do better...[/sub]
[sub]She could do better...[/sub]
Oh, god no. I have a penchant for short relationships with horrible breakups, followed by awkward conversations months later when I feel ashamed for being a douche. I have a tendency to be way too distant and uncaring about other people's issues. That leads to arguments, which leads to elevated douchiness from me.
But my conscience will eventually get to me and I'll call and apologize, for whatever little it's worth by then. I don't like the idea that I may cause someone to think lesser of themselves, though I probably don't really have that power.
On a good note, my last breakup went well. It was sort of casual anyway (not in a having-sex-like-rabbits kind of way. But in a "let's just hang out and chill. Drink some beer. Go see some live bands" kind of way. First girlfriend of mine that was a gamer. I'll never forget the moment when she saw Twilight Princess in my den and said "Ohhhh! I love Zelda!", and then we looked into each others eyes. And then my roommate said, "All right, I hate to break up this nerd bonding moment, but who is gonna be the DD?"
She and I still get along though.
But my conscience will eventually get to me and I'll call and apologize, for whatever little it's worth by then. I don't like the idea that I may cause someone to think lesser of themselves, though I probably don't really have that power.
On a good note, my last breakup went well. It was sort of casual anyway (not in a having-sex-like-rabbits kind of way. But in a "let's just hang out and chill. Drink some beer. Go see some live bands" kind of way. First girlfriend of mine that was a gamer. I'll never forget the moment when she saw Twilight Princess in my den and said "Ohhhh! I love Zelda!", and then we looked into each others eyes. And then my roommate said, "All right, I hate to break up this nerd bonding moment, but who is gonna be the DD?"
She and I still get along though.