reason for what?Kendarik said:I'm still waiting for a reason that isn't your personal opinion.Vault101 said:unless you make it a vital part of your identity and boradcast it to everyone then I dont see why it should, you can still do watever you capable of/set out to do...and if need be its sotmhing you can hide...to me its like aying being into bondage is going to hold you back in life..not if you let itKendarik said:It doesn't matter if it shouldn't, it DOES. And the fact that you think a child should get medical treatment to be "normal" when it comes to hearing but not "normal" when it comes to sexuality only peaks to you asking on YOUR own biases. Either both are ok to "fix" or neither are.Vault101 said:what I ment was Im not comforable with the Idea of a parent deciding NOT to give thier child a chance at hearing because of spme moral standing, its thier child not a representation of their belivesKendarik said:Interesting. Did you know that the only even partial cure available to give hearing only works if the operation happens as a child? (Otherwise the brain has never wired for sound until it is too hard wired to accept the new input). So, either the parent decides, or the child stays deaf for life. Still feel the same way?Vault101 said:theres nothing wrong with being deaf, but Im not comfortable with the Idea of parents making such a choice on their childs behalf...Kendarik said:Why? You are "born that way", just like you are born gay.Vault101 said:being deaf is a serious disabiltyKendarik said:That sounds like the deaf people that don't want children to have their hearing restored.Vern5 said:If the drug was announced as being a "Cure for the gay", then yes, a lot of people would be pissed. It would be the same as offering a "Cure for the White" which sounds like medical genocide or a "Cure for the Gamer" which sounds like culture-o-cide. <- Needs revision.
So what's so wrong with being deaf? They have their own languages, cultures, what's intrinsically different about deaf and gay? Deaf people often argue that hearing people calling them disabled is offensive and its no more a medical condition/disability than being gay is.being gay? how is that any worse than say..being turned on by bondage or robots or feet? should we "cure" those people too because god forbid what people get up to in their bedrooms should be of great concerin to us "normal" people
like somone already said being gay "shouldnt" affect your life aside from the child rearing thing (which wouldnt be such as in issue if peopel would let them adpot)
it wpuld just be easyer if we were all bi-sexual...where the pill for that?
deafness means adapting to a world made for people who can hear, and sure some do it fine..but the fact is its there...it affects what you can do MORE than being gay
deafness and being gay are not the same thing
being gay also means adapting to a world made for people who are straight.
I dont think comparing being gay and being deaf is fair....