Poll: Weight-loss surgeries, your opinion?

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Zyntoxic

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I know of two people who have had a gastric bypass: my mother and my boyfriends stephmother, and there were two different reasons for them to get surgery, and two completely different resuts after the surgery.

the stephmother: she is rather typical, she has a hard time to motivate her self to exercise and eat right, and can never stay on a diet for more than a couple of days.
her husband has tried to go on diets with her to motivate her, but it would always end with him dieting alone. when the whole family goes camping or hiking, which happens fairly often, she will always stay home and watch TV, because she doesen't like to hike, bike, run, swim, skii or well anything that requires movement.
in sweden if you manage to convince a psychiatrist that you know no other way and say that you feel deeply depressed, you can have the surgery practically for free, and this she did.
so she had the surgery, lost a pretty good ammount of weight, went back to her old diet and she is right back at where she started.
she had her surgery 5 years ago.

my mother: she might not always have done the best choices when it comes to food, but when she made her mind up she would be very dedicated, but her overweight had caused permanent damage to her bones, so she could'n exercise properly, and she was really depressed, she had no energy or motivation left to take care of her self, so she would always smell rather strange and look terribly tired.
when she got the surgery she lost a huge ammount of weight, making it possible for her to exercise, and so she still does regularly, and she still pretty much keeps to the diet recommended by the doctors.
she is now a completely different person, she has so much more energy and so much more happy.
The surgery was the push she needed, and she had it 4 years ago.

sometimes, the surgery is something good, and a neccessity, but sometimes it is just an easy way out.

do it for the right reasons, because if you don't, you will fall back to square one any way.

Btw, strange side effect: people that have gone through a gastric bypass always seem more sensitive to cold than other people.

EDIT: and for all of you who think these surgeries goes with out effort, let me tell you: it doesten't.
there is a certain diet you need to follow before the surgery for 2 weeks where you only eat liquid food in order to shrink the liver and minimize the risks during the surgery, and if you are too fat you can't even have the surgery until you have lost a few kilos on your own.
and depending on the effort you put in to loosing weight after the surgery the better results you'll get, and after the surgery there is a strict diet one needs to follow and several steps before one can even consider eating normal food again, and this is a painful process.
The surgery is a boost not a soloution.
 

Scarim Coral

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I fine for those who are taking it if they are really obese and taking it as a last resort. I can understand how some person body work differently to other people body (if their metabolism is strong or weak). I mean maybe those people had taken exercises, cut back on their meal intake but they're still not losing much weight (it's all have to do with the metabolism in your body).
 

Jhonka527

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To be perfectly honest I have a friend of mine who had this operation after she tried everything, and I mean EVERYTHING to lose weight. She changed her diet, exercised regularly and did all of those healthy lifestyle changes and it didn't help her enough. Now that she's had the surgery she's losing weight fast and keeping it off for the first time in her life and she looks amazing! Some people see it as the "easy way out" but it isn't. If you aren't careful and stick with the changes required with it then not only will it not work, you'll end up hurting yourself. In all reality it's a last resort and it works, but with all things it only works if you work at it. If it is the only option left to you after you have tried everything else, then go for it but just know it won't be easy.
 

Dutch 924

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To me, weight-loss surgery is an easy way out.

Yes, it makes you lose weight, but that's it. If you want to get fitter, you have to work for it, and having the results of those changes from the surgery could affect your progress
 

TehCookie

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I'm failing to see how this is any different from eating less, besides the fact it requires no willpower. I have no problem with fat people as long as they don't complain about their weight and do nothing about it.
 

Lokithrsourcerer

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depends on the reasons. if there is nothing medically wrong with you but you want to lose weight then eat less and move more.

I'm due to go for lipo-suction soon but that is because i have a medical condition a side-effect of which is excessive weight gain. i have to eat right and i cycle 5-6miles a day and that just about stops me gaining weight but doesn't make me lose it :-/
 

Syphous

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Ignore half of these assholes. If you could lose the weight with a simple diet and some exercise I'm sure you would have by now. Do you feel surgery is the only option at this point? Only you can answer that, not some random children on the internet.
 

fraszoid

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Simple advice, be careful what you eat if you get it. I had an aunt that got stomach stapling done, then proceeded to eat like she usually did and popped every last one. There are a lot of risks in it too so make sure you are aware and have an updated will incase something happens.
 

Gamblerjoe

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I can not possibly conjure the words to express my disdain for the fact that this procedure exists. I could see it being worth it if it were physically impossible to lose the weight any other way. In that case, you would be vastly shortening your life and damaging your health, but if it were your only option, at least you would gain some measure of quality to the little time you're giving yourself.

The thing is, for 99.9% of people there are other options. To pretend that this is your only option is to admit defeat. It is to give up on life essentially. We only get one crack at life, and people want to throw away years of theirs in order to not have to exercise and maintain a healthy diet? That's absurd.

Besides, if you start dieting and exercising, you will feel great, have energy, and actually look much better. Iv seen guys and girls who are overweight, but through the process of trying to turn it around, they began to look and feel better. They were still overweight, but looked pretty good. They had some muscle under their fat, they had energy and stamina, they had color in their faces, they were flexible, etc.

Iv seen people who got the surgery. They look pale, have sunken faces, and become extremely lethargic. I know one guy who did it and subsequently divorced his wife assuming he could do better now. Well, it didnt help his personality, and he still looked like shit, just thinner. No dice for him. He got what he deserved.