Poll: what attracts you most to a girl/guy?

[Dr Jones]

Definitely personality. Biggest turn-on is a geek (Well, as long as she can take care of herself and maintain decent looks..) Though the god-woman would probably be a gamer, nerd in general and Bob Dylan fan (and all music of the 60ies really). Oh god what i would kill for a gal that loves Dylan (or just any similar music, really

 

[saoirse13]

Definitely personality. Biggest turn-on is a geek (Well, as long as she can take care of herself and maintain decent looks..) Though the god-woman would probably be a gamer, nerd in general and Bob Dylan fan (and all music of the 60ies really). Oh god what i would kill for a gal that loves Dylan (or just any similar music, really

I love Bob Dylan. But to be Honest I'm more of a Neil Young Fan

 

[Canadamus Prime]

Generally I notice looks first, but a good personality will keep me interested.

 

[Snowbell]

I prefer my guys to look nice and have a lovely personality.

 

[Yopaz]

To be honest, body, face, hair or eyes. I might be shallow, but at least I admit it. I'm not attracted to a trait that I can't see. I can be attracted to a person who I connect with on a deeper level, but there's no immediate attraction just because a person is nice. However I could not enter a relationship based solely on looks and even if you wont admit it, most of you wouldn't go out with a really nice girls if she looked like an ogre.

 

[Dr Jones]

Definitely personality. Biggest turn-on is a geek (Well, as long as she can take care of herself and maintain decent looks..) Though the god-woman would probably be a gamer, nerd in general and Bob Dylan fan (and all music of the 60ies really). Oh god what i would kill for a gal that loves Dylan (or just any similar music, really

I love Bob Dylan. But to be Honest I'm more of a Neil Young Fan

Neil Young is amazing too. I haven't really dug deep into his stuff yet, but from what i've heard (Harvest and Only Love Can Break Your Heart) he is pretty amazing (especially Birds, Hey Hey, My My and After The Gold Rush).

Also, I hate to be a recruiter, but if you dig Bob you should join us... [http://www.escapistmagazine.com/groups/view/The-Bob-Dylan-Fanclub]

 

[saoirse13]

Definitely personality. Biggest turn-on is a geek (Well, as long as she can take care of herself and maintain decent looks..) Though the god-woman would probably be a gamer, nerd in general and Bob Dylan fan (and all music of the 60ies really). Oh god what i would kill for a gal that loves Dylan (or just any similar music, really

I love Bob Dylan. But to be Honest I'm more of a Neil Young Fan

Neil Young is amazing too. I haven't really dug deep into his stuff yet, but from what i've heard (Harvest and Only Love Can Break Your Heart) he is pretty amazing (especially Birds, Hey Hey, My My and After The Gold Rush).

Also, I hate to be a recruiter, but if you dig Bob you should join us... [http://www.escapistmagazine.com/groups/view/The-Bob-Dylan-Fanclub]

After the Gold Rush is great. My favourite though is Rocking in the Free World. Have to love that song. Oh thanks for the link I just joined.

 

[babinro]

Personality is what makes a woman interesting.

I want someone I can get along with, not someone to show off. The better our personalities mesh, the more attractive they become.

 

[saoirse13]

Pretty self-explanatory. Is it looks, personality, sense of humour or something completely different? And if it's soething completely random, do tell.

Oh and a guys laugh. I love if a guy has a weird laugh. Mines pretty weird and I get laughed at for mine.

What about evil maniacal. I find some of mine being pretty evil from the start.

For me, and I know just about everyone else will say this (but mines true), personality. Just because it encompasses so much more then just likes/dislikes. Right now the girl I'm attracted to just has the right personality. She doesn't lie to make herself more interesting and has a great sense of humour. And a sense of duty. Currently in the Army over in Afghanistan.

Yes evil manical I find attractive. I love anything different.

 

[Ignatz_Zwakh]

I can't really say. Over the years I've gotten a vague impression of what I find attractive in members of the opposite sex (And at times in members of the same sex) but I can't really give a detailed explanation as to what it is. There are numerous factors (Hair, eyebrows, voice, personality, quirks) but nothing definite, since I've found myself attracted to types of people I would've never pegged myself as fancying....I guess who I fancy screwing is a mystery, even to myself.

 

[Hap2]

I've been asking that question for years and still haven't gotten a solid answer. The only person I ever became interested in wasn't due to some kind of sexual chemistry or interest. It developed out of a close friendship, though it never went anywhere.

 

[hazabaza1]

Tits
Arse
More tits
Tits
Tiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiits
A combination of most of the things in the poll helps.

 

[Loop Stricken]

Heh, seems I'm the only person who's voted laugh so far.

Hmmmmmm, I would've, since the first girl I ever fell for I only actually noticed 'cos I heard her angelic laugh piercing my heart like shards of ice, but she looked very good too so... yeah.

 

[SckizoBoy]

A combination of things, really...

First impressions, it's all about the voice... a soft contralto with an RP accent will effectively knock me out.

If for the long run, then, like most folks, personality... and all the rest of it... *shrug*

 

[Bara_no_Hime]

I'm not sure there's really a "most".

When I see an attractive man or woman (ie, body) I am attracted to that individual. Having a nice face/hair is part of that package.

However, while I might want to have sex with them, they have to have a compatible personality or I won't be able to stand being around the individual long enough to have sex with them.

So face/body/hair are the first things I see that cause the initial attraction. But it won't get beyond the first five seconds if personality (and voice to a lesser degree) don't work.

Which is most important? ... no idea. **shrug**

I voted body because you asked about attraction rather than, say, desire to have a relationship with. And because face and hair are part of one's body.

 

[AngloDoom]

The initial attraction for me always has something to do with hair. I just love nice looking or unusual hair. Dyed or natural, short or long, frizzy or straight, nice hair just gets me interested in a person.

That said, after all of a month the novelty fades and it's optimism and humour that really makes me get all squishy and happy with a girl. I get stressed out enough with life as it is, but when I'm with someone who knows how to have fun and forget the world from time to time it makes me feel all the younger for all.

Captcha: Picture perfect

Ah, Captcha, truer words have never been spoken

EDIT

...the first girl I ever fell for I only actually noticed 'cos I heard her angelic laugh piercing my heart like shards of ice...

That...sounds pretty painful, if I'm honest.

Edit Captcha: Love is automatic.

This version of the Captcha is rather profound compared to the last.

 

[BlindTom]

wallet obviously

 

[I-Protest-I]

Sense of humour, I am brutal with jokes and expect a lass to joke with me back or I'm forced into an uncomfortable position where I'd rather not bother with them and hang with friends.

I also like tall lasses, so I want a tomboy.

 

[Depulcator]

I'm a massive sucker for short women.