Poll: ... WHAT DID I JUST DO!

[Chase Yojimbo]

Just about 30 minuites ago, I sent a message to this girl I have liked sense I was in the 5th grade... This message was asking her out. and now, I feel more excitment and Intensity than I have ever felt. Before I was writing this message, I was able to drown out feelings like this very easily with metal music. (Yeah, Metal...) and now nothing works. I feel sick honestly. How could I have done something so dumb??? But, WHAT IF SHE SAYS YES??? I WILL PROBABLY GO INSANE, I HAVE NEVER GONE ON A DATE BEFORE!!! SOMEONE HELP ME! I FEEL LIKE I AM INSANE!

Truthfully man, if she thinks your funny, smart, or anything in that catagory, probebly be a yes.

The worst thing that could happen however is that she sais no, and you are a fool who still has a friend. Though, nothing sais you can't keep trying, some girls like that.

And in person would be your best option IMHO.

 

[steampunk42]

the story of my first girl friend is almost to difficult to believe.....but the truth is often stranger than fiction...or so they say. i was on vacation in another country, i got lost walking around the city...a girl helped me find my hotel again and i thanked her my buying her some coffee in a small cafe, later we did one of those picture booths. never thought id see her again, summer ended and school started... i walk into my first class and there she is sitting there, she was doing the exchange student program and had been sent to my school...i still feel like she somehow figured out where i lived but i doubt she would go through all that trouble...both of us just stared at each other for like 5 minutes until she finally asked if i was who she thought i was....anyway she was my first girl...best girl

 

[Biffy Cakeo]

the story of my first girl friend is almost to difficult to believe.....but the truth is often stranger than fiction...or so they say. i was on vacation in another country, i got lost walking around the city...a girl helped me find my hotel again and i thanked her my buying her some coffee in a small cafe, later we did one of those picture booths. never thought id see her again, summer ended and school started... i walk into my first class and there she is sitting there, she was doing the exchange student program and had been sent to my school...i still feel like she somehow figured out where i lived but i doubt she would go through all that trouble...both of us just stared at each other for like 5 minutes until she finally asked if i was who she thought i was....anyway she was my first girl...best girl

I have a great idea for a movie!

 

[steampunk42]

like i said....it sounds made up and looking back sometimes i believe it was....but its as true as the grass is green....i only wished it had ended better....

 

[MASTACHIEFPWN]

the story of my first girl friend is almost to difficult to believe.....but the truth is often stranger than fiction...or so they say. i was on vacation in another country, i got lost walking around the city...a girl helped me find my hotel again and i thanked her my buying her some coffee in a small cafe, later we did one of those picture booths. never thought id see her again, summer ended and school started... i walk into my first class and there she is sitting there, she was doing the exchange student program and had been sent to my school...i still feel like she somehow figured out where i lived but i doubt she would go through all that trouble...both of us just stared at each other for like 5 minutes until she finally asked if i was who she thought i was....anyway she was my first girl...best girl

Oh my God, miricles do happen.

 

[steampunk42]

yeah...it was a small miracle...sometimes i feel like it was forever ago that it happened....just wish it had ended better...

 

[cream]

Well if it was an exchange program, I don't think it could've ended better.

 

[Cinnamonfloss]

the story of my first girl friend is almost to difficult to believe.....but the truth is often stranger than fiction...or so they say. i was on vacation in another country, i got lost walking around the city...a girl helped me find my hotel again and i thanked her my buying her some coffee in a small cafe, later we did one of those picture booths. never thought id see her again, summer ended and school started... i walk into my first class and there she is sitting there, she was doing the exchange student program and had been sent to my school...i still feel like she somehow figured out where i lived but i doubt she would go through all that trouble...both of us just stared at each other for like 5 minutes until she finally asked if i was who she thought i was....anyway she was my first girl...best girl

Thats so cute. x)

 

[Asturiel]

Ooooh, text is always bad. I remember I once asked a girl out by Facebook message, though admittedly I was quite young then (I was about 15, I think...). As far as I'm aware though, she never even noticed the message in her inbox, as it was never mentioned by her or me whenever we saw each other after that. Oddly enough I'll be seeing her again in two weeks for the first time in two years...

Anyway, I remember the first girl I ever asked out was in primary school, and I was eight years old. She said no. Then she said yes. Then she had to leave the school because her family were moving away. It was a very awkward time, I have to admit. Especially since usually I'm crap at asking girls out, the one time I did manage to enter into a (relatively) successful relationship it was with a girl who lives 300 miles away in Scotland. We're still Facebook friends and whatnot, but it kind of fizzled out with the distace.

Seriously, Fate has a really black sense of humour when it comes to me and romance...

Fates a spiteful mistress aint she?

Well, (I didn't text her) This was the only way to comunicate with her, I will probably not see her again unless she says yes. Riddle me how else I could have asked her, STALK HER??? Seriosly though, was their another way I could have done this?

You could have made "hush hush" inquires about her and found a place where you can "bump into her by complete accident". Up to you really, frankly I've never liked the idea of something that personal being talked over through letters, vocalization is something I crave I suppose.

Yes. I still have the scar where her secret boyfriend attacked me with a knife later that day. (we were both 15 and her boyfriend was a 23 yr old college dropout) He's enjoying quality time with a bunch of hairy inmates who rape him on a daily basis. Her name was Miranda, we still e-mail each-other now and then.

Secret from you or the both of you?

the story of my first girl friend is almost to difficult to believe.....but the truth is often stranger than fiction...or so they say. i was on vacation in another country, i got lost walking around the city...a girl helped me find my hotel again and i thanked her my buying her some coffee in a small cafe, later we did one of those picture booths. never thought id see her again, summer ended and school started... i walk into my first class and there she is sitting there, she was doing the exchange student program and had been sent to my school...i still feel like she somehow figured out where i lived but i doubt she would go through all that trouble...both of us just stared at each other for like 5 minutes until she finally asked if i was who she thought i was....anyway she was my first girl...best girl

I'd have to say thats a champ way to meet up. Feels like a movie, if it is just something you made up right now I will be angry. Very angry.

OT: My first girlfriend was somebody I kind of knew, found out she really liked me, a lot of people said if you asked her out she will definitely say yes. Being the low risk guy I am I was blinded to the person I really liked for the opportunity for that fabled "girlfriend", my parents resent the idea of me dating so I guess that added fuel to the fire. I asked her, she said yes, we hung out in the school after school for a while, talking and cuddling. Ended up getting found by my friends while we were wandering... I don't think it was awkward for them but it sure as hell was for me! In any case the more I learned about her the more I realized her home was hell and that she needed to get out and I respected that, she also said that since she knew I didn't like smoking(No I didn't find that creepy at all) she said she would quit. For a while I believed her... Then we talked online and she started talking about really really heavy stuff concerning her and for me, that stuff being typed out just doesn't work for me, it puts me in an awkward position, non verbalization of serious things just leaves me in an odd spot. So I went along and "listened" and then christmas break came along. I said my parents didn't like me dating so I had no choice but to talk to her occasionally online and not see her for the break, apparently that was a bad thing... When we got back from the break one of my friends messaged me with some kind of Drama about me and her apparently, I can't remember the details and then she started avoiding me in school. So I took that as a confirmation to my suspicions and it ended on a bad note there.

Also that was the day I got my first stalker... I'm pretty sure she is done with that(...I think).

Holy Jesusfish I just went on a rank didn't I?

 

[steampunk42]

yeah....wish it had ended better though....

 

[steampunk42]

its not made up my friend....like i said...truth is stranger then fiction, or more wonderful, or more sad....all depends on yer point of view.

 

[stabnex]

Secret from you or the both of you?

From her parents.

When they found out about him after the incident they filed restraining orders, pressed charges of statutory rape, and mine pressed charges of armed assault.

Aaaah, high school...

 

[wasalp]

Why yes I remember the first and currently only time I asked a girl out. We've been good friends for over a decade and I had a thing for her for most of those years. Back in January I finally asked her out in person and she said yes. 'Twas amazing except for how something would keep coming up each weekend until about a month later when she got two of our friends to inform me that she'd changed her mind. Hopefully if you get a yes it will actually lead to a date.

same thing happened to me...except I will be seeing her tomorrow. One more weekend of I'm too busy and I would of told her to never mind. Sucks for you

Well I draw some solace from the knowledge that you haven't suffered the same unfortunate conclusion that I did. You enjoy tomorrow my good man.

That I shall, didn't mean to make you feel bad tough sorry

 

[MASTACHIEFPWN]

SHE STILL HASN'T REPLIED!!! GAAAHHH!!!

 

[spartan231490]

Yes, she strung me along with "I'm busy" for way too long before I asked her if I should just give up. She had just gotten out of a long relationship and said she needed time to be single. She was dating one of the people on my top 5 idiots ive met list, and on my top 3 people ive hated list 2 days later. Sooo glad she did that, the more time that passes the more I learn that she is a ***** in every way and they deserve eachother, but it still hurt like hell at the time.

The first girl I asked out gave me the excuse "Mabey" God I have always hated that word. And ever sense that, I have been on a quest to remove the word from the english dictionary.

Lol. good luck with the whole dictionary thing, but there are several you would have to attack. Oxford, Webster, im sure there are others.

 

[MASTACHIEFPWN]

CONCLUSION!
http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.200013-Poll-WHAT-DID-I-JUST-DO-The-conclusion

 

[Kroker]

Well I draw some solace from the knowledge that you haven't suffered the same unfortunate conclusion that I did. You enjoy tomorrow my good man.

That I shall, didn't mean to make you feel bad tough sorry

Oh don't worry about that mate it was quite some time ago. You didn't make me feel bad.