Poll: What do you do if someone doesn't like you?

[Jedoro]

There are enough people who do like me, so I just avoid those who don't.

 

[The Kangaroo]

What you gotta do is find out where they live, find out where they work, everything about them, put them all in a letter to him telling him to meet you in an abandoned car park and when he arrives to confront you about it, you crack him in the head with a bat.

 

[Gizmo]

It comes to down to if I like them, if I liked them and found out they didn't like me i'd probably ask them why they don't like me or give up completely on them because their missing out I have so much fun with real friends who I can be myself with.

 

[LeonLethality]

lots of people dont like me, for different reasons but I dont care for them so why ask and inevitbly try and change what people dont like that wouldnt make you you

 

[bombchu]

... My answer isn't on the poll.

I'd cry D: I haven't had anyone hate me before, really, and... yeah, I'd cry.

 

[Murlin]

Ignore them, I don't like me either anyway

 

[ffxfriek]

I really don't care, if they don't like me, then it just makes it easier for me to dislike them.

good answer

 

[Aedwynn]

Usually I just don't care - but if it's someone important who seems to have taken an active dislike to me (manager, previously a close friend, person I have to speak to every day, other person of influence over me, etc.) then I'll either snoop around a little asking why - or just straight up ask them; "Look, do you have a problem with me?"

Usually it's either over something extremely petty, and I'll just apologise (even if I'm not at fault) or it's a case of mistaken identity. Although sometimes - people just don't like me - which you just have to ignore IMHO.

 

[Sewer Rat]

I just act passive aggressive to them for the rest of their lives.

 

[Zealous]

Avoid them/Ignore them. Easiest thing to do. If they don't like me, it's their problem. If they bother me I smack 'em one and tell 'em to piss someone else off.

 

[Fraught]

What do I do? In the recent months, I've started doing one thang, and one thang only, which I can describe to you with two words: "Don't. Give. A. Shit."

I'm not that bad of a person for someone to say not like me for a reason that can be taken seriously. The only ones who say something negative are the ones who's M.O. is just to be assholes.

 

[-Orgasmatron-]

Set their house on fire.

 

[DrDeath3191]

Don't Care. I'm a Catholic Conservative, I'm used to not being liked.

 

[AvsJoe]

I ask them, but not outright. I have more of a passive approach when it comes to this situation. But if it's a person with whom I'm unfamiliar (did I word that correctly?), I usually just shrug off the news.

 

[EeveeElectro]

Plenty of people dislike me for no reason, so I don't care anymore.

 

[Captain Pancake]

I'd probably ask a few people why that is so, but I wouldn't take it any further. If they don't like me, I don't want to antagonize them. I don't like most people at my school, though, so I'd only care if it was somebody close to me or in my social circle.

 

[TelHybrid]

To be honest, I ask them the reason, because if it's a good reason, such as me being patronizing or talking too much or something, which is often the case with me, I try to work on it (not for them, for myself).

If it's a stupid reason though, such as because I'm white and therefore apparently automatically racist, or male and therefore apparently automatically sexist, to name a couple of examples, then I tell them to fuck off and get their head out of their arse.

 

[anthony87]

I tend to not care as long as there's a reason for that persons dislike of me but if it's a stupid reason like "Uh...I dunno I just don't" then I get annoyed.

 

[TheNumber1Zero]

I might begin to mildy care about figuring out why they don't like me, but the feeling will passes quite quickly.

Antisocial habits sure are fun.