Poll: What do you look for in a partner?

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MetalMagpie

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Sexy. It's all about the sexy.

(But intelligence, sense of humour, commitment, and ability to open jars are all good too.)
 

Sightless Wisdom

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Intelligence and clarity of communication are the most important things. I have a very small group of friends because I hate trying to talk to people who are ignorant and unintelligent or can't express ideas through words properly. The next thing is appearance I suppose, I'm not going to lie and say that sex appeal doesn't matter to me. Essentially any combination of those factors would be ideal, and a huge bonus would be musical talent/ interest in music sharing some similarities to my own.
 

ThePenguinKnight

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First thing I look for is individuality. Not particularly in the sense that they are unique, as we all are, but rather that she's comfortable with expressing herself freely.
 

ThePenguinKnight

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bluepilot said:
My ideal guy would be a failing rock star in his 30s, who spends most of the day sulking around the house topless with long unwashed hair and Levi jeans. He will have a part time job and spend the weekends with his rocker friends touring pubs to try to make it big time. He spends every spare penny he has on getting more tattoos to express his pain, chain smoking, and random romantic gestures. He wrote a song named after me and after concerts walks home hand in hand with his rocker friends slurring drunkenly and giggling, makes it to the house, throws up on the door step then collapses on the sofa.

90s guys....sigh....
Hey, I'm a 90's guy and I rese- -Vomits Uncontrollably-
 

Haunted Serenity

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My wife fits the bill perfectly. But the major requirement was to love me back so...

No you need to be hardy to be with me. I'm such a idiot alot of the time so you need to be able to put up with all my crap. She does amazingly well in that regard so I am trying to be such a moron to repay her.
 

.No.

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Shawn MacDonald said:
.No. said:
Shawn MacDonald said:
To each his own I guess. Each guy wants to pretend they are captain save a ho to make themselves look better, then go ahead.
Yep. To each their own. You want to delude yourself and make mass generalizations that set humanity back a couple hundred years? Fine. You want to be a misogynistic asshole who sees his his beliefs as the one and only truth? I'm okay with that.
I'd like it if this was the last post. However, if you feel like responding, then come at me bro. Your words will do nothing but make me laugh.
To be quite fair, you poked your nose into my post and gave me nothing to work with. Be brutally honest, you just wasted your time. Basically anybody that doesn't make you think at least a little bit is a waste of time, see ya later Mr. I think like everybody else.
OH NOES
I THINK LIKE PEOPLE WHO DON'T HATE WOMEN?
WOE IS ME
Also, I didn't waste my time. I had a laugh, and now feel better about my friends when they're assholes. Also, I saw firsthand something that can only be described as beautifully dumb. Bye!
 

Vault101

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Are you a sociopath?

No-> Ok then

Yes-> Run away

Im not hard to please really
 

bluepilot

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ThePenguinKnight said:
bluepilot said:
My ideal guy would be a failing rock star in his 30s, who spends most of the day sulking around the house topless with long unwashed hair and Levi jeans. He will have a part time job and spend the weekends with his rocker friends touring pubs to try to make it big time. He spends every spare penny he has on getting more tattoos to express his pain, chain smoking, and random romantic gestures. He wrote a song named after me and after concerts walks home hand in hand with his rocker friends slurring drunkenly and giggling, makes it to the house, throws up on the door step then collapses on the sofa.

90s guys....sigh....
Hey, I'm a 90's guy and I rese- -Vomits Uncontrollably-
Want to move in?

You can play the guitar in your underwear on ny couch. When I yell at you to get a real job you can also lock yourself in the bathroom screaming "nobody understands me, you don't get my pain".

Sigh, they don't make men like that anymore....
 

AnotherAvatar

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I chose mysterious as that's my favorite, but I'm also a huge fan of both cuteness and massive breasts. I don't need it all, just one of the above. Also a killer personality (Funny and witty or GTFO), and as I'm extremely into electronic music (I both produce and DJ) I couldn't date someone who didn't love to dance. Also if they like to play around with psychedelics and love weird art then they get bonus points (though I also like showing girls the joys of such things).
 

AnotherAvatar

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bluepilot said:
ThePenguinKnight said:
bluepilot said:
My ideal guy would be a failing rock star in his 30s, who spends most of the day sulking around the house topless with long unwashed hair and Levi jeans. He will have a part time job and spend the weekends with his rocker friends touring pubs to try to make it big time. He spends every spare penny he has on getting more tattoos to express his pain, chain smoking, and random romantic gestures. He wrote a song named after me and after concerts walks home hand in hand with his rocker friends slurring drunkenly and giggling, makes it to the house, throws up on the door step then collapses on the sofa.

90s guys....sigh....
Hey, I'm a 90's guy and I rese- -Vomits Uncontrollably-
Want to move in?

You can play the guitar in your underwear on ny couch. When I yell at you to get a real job you can also lock yourself in the bathroom screaming "nobody understands me, you don't get my pain".

Sigh, they don't make men like that anymore....
I would do this, but I'm in school so I haven't had anyone yell at me to get a real job in a while. Guess what: Musicians never change.
 
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manic_depressive13 said:
GethBall said:
manic_depressive13 said:
Can someone clarify what is appealing about 'mystery'? If I were to ask my partner questions only to get vague and cryptic responses I would be rather annoyed. Unless by 'mystery' you mean 'doesn't describe the exact shape and texture of their turds to me', which I would be quite grateful for, particularly after living with my family.
Well, some people (like myself) just find it attractive.

I like women with a mysterious vibe.

Maybe I've been hanging around with the Dark Brotherhood too much.
Yes, but what is a mysterious vibe? What makes someone mysterious? How might one go about appearing as such?
Y'know, usually loners, keep to themselves, were hoods, go about killing dragons for some mysterious purpose............

Yeah, I don't think my ideal partner will come anytime soon.
 

wintercoat

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I require two things in a potential partner: physical attractiveness and mental attractiveness, both to be judged on a case-by-case basis. However, regardless of attractiveness, I would also require a break from the "it's a mans job to initiate the relationship" mentality, because I've got about as much spine when it comes to talking to the opposite sex as a jellyfish. I've only been in one relationship, and she basically forced me to be the one to initiate it. I was physically ill from the stress, even knowing that she'd say yes. I've never been able to do it again. Feeling like you're going to throw up and pass out are rather good deterrents.