That's me, minus the "I stopped growing up in my teens" part; There's a big enough difference between 18 year old me and 21 year old me that, honestly, I find the average 18 year old girl to be too immature to be of much interest. Building lego houses and randomly thinking about Batman, though? I do the former whenever I find a pile of legos (sadly less frequent than it could be.) I'm doing the latter right now. Heck, I went and bought a Nerf gun this weekend so I could play a game of Capture the Flag with it. My inner child never left me.Keepeas said:I'm pretty sure I still am a child...and I think I will be for a loooong time
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sure there's that adult in me...but he's in a cage most of the time
yup...pretty much the same hereLightning Delight said:I wouldn't really call him my "inner child," since his personality is more a part of me than my adult one. I pretty much let that guy have free reign. So I guess I am an outer child with an inner adult. Sort of.
Maturity, for me, has more to do with interpersonal relationships[footnote]Example: the "Friend Zone" ceases to be a thing once both parties are mature enough to be up front with what they want. I've been rejected plenty of times in the last couple of years. I haven't been friend zoned once, because I've been upfront with the women I've taken an interest in, and they showed the courtesy of being up front with me. There was no confusion because there were no mixed signals. Another example: All that he-said she-said drama that happens when a couple breaks up, and their mutual friends wind up caught in the crossfire? Yeah, after a certain point that doesn't happen. The former couple may hate each other's guts, but their friends don't really have to choose anymore. Also, former couples absolutely hating each other becomes more rare -- they may avoid seeing each other in social situations for a while, but mature individuals can generally be civil to one another, even if a social situation winds up forcing them to interact. This is the kind of thing that marks maturity; losing the creativity and wonder of a child is a sign that you're becoming cynical, not that you're maturing.[/footnote] and acceptance of responsibility than anything else. It's quite possible to be mature without losing that child-like sense of joy; it's a balance that we each have to find in our own lives.