What we need: Cooperation between the moderates on both sides towards transparency and open disclosure in games journalism and creating a much more welcoming community. Sure, it's not the "sekret klub 4 boyz onlee" that some people say, but there's certainly a good number of assholes out there.
What I'm worried both sides have become to cancerous to achieve: Cooperation between the moderates on both sides towards transparency and open disclosure in games journalism and creating a much more welcoming community.
Since the beginning of this whole debacle, my friends and I have been playing the part of a third party in this debate. I've always been against the whole devs paying money for better reviews schtick that's been going on for years, ever since the whole Kane and Lynch debacle. However, I've also supported creating a welcoming environment within the gaming community, and am generally opposed to harassing women just for being women. Personally, I think this whole debacle has created the idea that these ideas are mutually exclusive, when they're really not, and otherwise have very little to do with each other.
With that said, both sides have left a poor taste in my mouth, with Gamergate using the morally dubious actions of people like Zoe Quinn and Anita Sarkeesian to excuse a lot of sexist bullshit, and the people against it being no better, engaging in quite a bit of doxxing and harassment themselves. There's so many people, particularly on twitter, both for and against gamergate, who are far more interested in badmouthing the other side than in actual change, that I honestly don't want to support either side. I would rather strike out on my own and get my own thing going, and I'm kinda glad to see that some people, including Russ Pitts, agree with me.