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Therumancer

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Also my principles include "censorship is not a convenient defence for when I get criticised for saying shit"
In this context, especially given the tone of your post I am finding it increasingly difficult to talk to you.

I'm not worried about criticism, which is what 90% of your posts to me over the years. You'll never acknowledge it, but I'll pretty much just outmaneuver you like usual and then leave you screaming for proof of things you already know for lack of anything better to say, in which point I'll go in circles with you inviting you to do research, which you won't do, thus gain no familiarity with the subject that you will accept to participate. Eventually I'll just get bored and stop posting. If you or someone else has been snarky I'll declare victory first to reinforce what we both know at that point, since your entire remaining point is tantamount to declaring that the entire conservative movement does not exist.

That said, in this case I am literally being moderated for expressing my point of view, which we have gone back and forth about, and yeah you know what it is. I suppose your the type of person who supports censorship when it supports your point of view though from the way this sounds, so there isn't much to talk about.
 

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I'm not worried about criticism, which is what 90% of your posts to me over the years. You'll never acknowledge it, but I'll pretty much just outmaneuver you like usual and then leave you screaming for proof of things you already know
what do I know?

because I don't know how gay men are comparable to paedophiles

I don't know what some children being abused in the adoption system has to do with allowing gay couples to adopt and I certainly don't know how being more accepting of others is destroying America and/or the world

[quote/]for lack of anything better to say, in which point I'll go in circles with you inviting you to do research, which you won't do, thus gain no familiarity with the subject that you will accept to participate.[/quote]
what exactly do I need to research? I know children going through the system get exploited and abused


[quote/] since your entire remaining point is tantamount to declaring that the entire conservative movement does not exist. [/quote]
lol wut? of corse they exist, just because they exist doesn't mean I have to agree with them. Or was that your argument? [I/]"lots of people disagree with you so..you know"[/I]

[quote/]That said, in this case I am literally being moderated for expressing my point of view, which we have gone back and forth about, and yeah you know what it is.[/quote]
that's between you and the moderation rules

[quote/]I suppose your the type of person who supports censorship when it supports your point of view though from the way this sounds, so there isn't much to talk about.[/quote]
I don't agree with censorship of something if it doesn't mesh with my views...I just don't think calling people out on their bullshit counts as censorship
 

Therumancer

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I don't agree with censorship of something if it doesn't mesh with my views...I just don't think calling people out on their bullshit counts as censorship
So you do agree with censorship of people if they don't agree with you? If so that kind of explains a lot. Personally I believe in free speech.

That said, I can't answer your questions due to threat of moderation, you can infer what you want. It won't make you right of course, or prove anything, other than you can rest assured that The Escapist is a vacuum chamber for you on this subject.
 

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So you do agree with censorship of people if they don't agree with you? If so that kind of explains a lot. Personally I believe in free speech.
"free speech" does not mean "I can say what I want without consequences"

also no, censoring someone who says something with no value "fags all need to be shot" is fair cencorship. Again I don't know what's going on with you or the mods

[quote/]That said, I can't answer your questions due to threat of moderation, you can infer what you want. It won't make you right of course, or prove anything, other than you can rest assured that The Escapist is a vacuum chamber for you on this subject.[/quote]
what? how bad can it be?

gays have more inclination to abuse children?

gays are mentally ill?

I think your blowing the apparent vendetta the mods have against you out of proportion
 

Therumancer

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Therumancer said:
So you do agree with censorship of people if they don't agree with you? If so that kind of explains a lot. Personally I believe in free speech.
"free speech" does not mean "I can say what I want without consequences"

also no, censoring someone who says something with no value "fags all need to be shot" is fair cencorship. Again I don't know what's going on with you or the mods

[quote/]That said, I can't answer your questions due to threat of moderation, you can infer what you want. It won't make you right of course, or prove anything, other than you can rest assured that The Escapist is a vacuum chamber for you on this subject.
what? how bad can it be?

gays have more inclination to abuse children?

gays are mentally ill?

I think your blowing the apparent vendetta the mods have against you out of proportion[/quote]

I never said the mods have a vendetta against me, if it was that bad I'd be gone already. I also wouldn't be calling them out on policy, but keeping a low profile. The fact that I'm banking on it not being a complete vendetta is why I have been taking the approach that I have.

Also by definition if I told you what I said, then obviously I'd be in violation.

That said free speech is not only the right to say what you agree with. Love speech, hate speech, positive speech, negative speech, it's all supposed to be protected. The problem is the laws protecting it were never written with the belief that so much human communication would become reliant on private platforms. Thus a private forum like this one is able to censor whatever they like without justification. Arguably, the laws should be adapted to make that illegal, as it makes no sense for private citizens to be wielding more power over other citizens than those granted to elected officials. A principle I've held to long before now by the way, and before I ever came to these forums. One which of course you apparently disagree with, but then again your not currently being censored and it favors your positions, should the shoe land on the other foot, which with time it probably will, you will doubtlessly think different. As things stand now though, the mods are within their rights. As a result I'm put into a position of protesting policy.

Let's just say that you've deduced what I've said in your posts, which shouldn't be hard as I said it many times before the mods decided to change their interpretation of policy and how it works to engage in political censorship.

As far as consequences go, the general consequence to free speech is of course someone else's right to speak back to you. Once you start saying the consequence is the right to be able to effectively gag anyone that dares say something you don't like, you get to the point where there is no point to having a right to free speech.

As I said, it's easy to not get behind free speech or support abuses when they happen to support you, but remember, what's done to someone else, can also be done to you.
 

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I have no clue of the percentage, but I generally assume it's higher than what a statistic would say, if only slightly.

Tumblr taught me there are quite a lot of sexual identities out there that I had no clue about. I've only ever known a few gay people and like one or two trans people.

I had a Bi-sexual friend at Uni and I still don't "get" it. But I don't have to understand it to respect it and grant them, and all others, the empathy they deserve.
Tumblr isn't exactly the best place to try learning about all that stuff. Just saying
I'm aware, but it's the first place I've seen it all mentioned.

If I desire to learn more, I won't be doing it there.
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kenu12345 said:
] Tumblr isn't exactly the best place to try learning about all that stuff. Just saying
why not? granted I haven't been to tumblr but I've been in similar online spaces and while people like to mock all the "SJW'ness I found it fairly useful

unless Tumble goes to otherkin levels of insanity
kenu12345 said:
Vault101 said:
kenu12345 said:
] Tumblr isn't exactly the best place to try learning about all that stuff. Just saying
why not? granted I haven't been to tumblr but I've been in similar online spaces and while people like to mock all the "SJW'ness I found it fairly useful

unless Tumble goes to otherkin levels of insanity
Its cause of otherkin levels of insanity that I advise people not to use tumblr. No offense to the site, but people invent all sorts of sexualities and pronouns there just to be important even if it means the same as other words. Sure, if you find a reasonable person there that knows there stuff sure, but alot of the people I seen there make up some weird chiz
Tumblr should be treated like Wikipedia, you can get a lot of information there but not all of it is credible. However Tumblr is a good place to get introduced to newer (or unfamiliar) concepts and do further research from there. There are extremely knowledgeable blogs on Tumblr of course, but it does take a bit of filtering. It's also up to you to determine how much you're going to buy into the concepts Tumblr will introduce you to and to what level you want to take it.

Personally I believe that asexuality and pansexuality are valid and both of those have very vocal communities on Tumblr, but not everything that comes from those communities should be taken as absolute truth and for as many accepting and knowledgeable blogs, there are just as many toxic and hateful ones.

Basically the same as any online community.

Also, without Tumblr, I would never have known about the existence of LED hula hoops, nor what they do to cats.



 

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I use the term loosely, I know.
VERY loosely.

Blow_Pop said:
Friends- Let's just say my straight friends are outnumbered by a LOT and are more rare than not (Also, most of us including myself prefer it to be MOGAI - Marginalised Orientations Gender Alignments & Intersex at least in my friend circle because also a lot of us including myself don't identify as the gender we were assigned at birth)
I'm the same way. I seem to attract all flavours of queer. Some people call it strange. I call it "awesome."

Vault101 said:
you're asking people to take your [I/]'pinions[/I] as objective fact because you say they should. You write paragraphs upon paragraphs but in the end you're saying NOTHING except "no I'm right because I say I am"
Maybe we should try this.

"gays have magic powers."

Huh. Didn't work.

Maybe it's like clapping your hands to save Tinkerbell. Come on, everybody!

Therumancer said:
So you do agree with censorship of people if they don't agree with you? If so that kind of explains a lot. Personally I believe in free speech.
And apparently, consequence-free speech.

That said, I can't answer your questions due to threat of moderation, you can infer what you want. It won't make you right of course, or prove anything, other than you can rest assured that The Escapist is a vacuum chamber for you on this subject.
Yes, it's an echo chamber on the subject of accusing people of committing illegal acts in bad faith. This is quite possibly the most horrible thing ever. Or least. Yeah, probably the least.

You may have noticed it's not the anti-gays who are being warned, it's the anti-gays-who-make-tacit-allegations-of-child-molestation who are being warned. And if that's the position you are complaining about not being professed here, all I can really say is "good."

Love speech, hate speech, positive speech, negative speech, it's all supposed to be protected.
Actually, hate speech isn't "supposed to be" protected. We also have numerous other restrictions, including defamation.

But, of course, this is a moot point because this is a privately run website that can set its own rules for entry, as you know. They could set a rule in effect tomorrow that prevented us from saying "I like pie" and it wouldn't violate your rights to free speech. I mean, people could complain about it (though really, who would stand up for a pie-loving lifestyle?), but in the end, that's their determination.

Pretending this is about free speech may make you feel more noble in your struggle, but it's not even remotely true. Free speech in no way insulates you from someone saying you have to get off their property.
 

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Creating a poll on this site about it is pretty biased, considering the generally positive view the moderator and user base has toward them, there generally will be more than the usual percent present in the user base.
I not only edited this into my OP days ago, but also have already replied to several people with the following statement: I was well aware that this poll would not represent the population when I first created it. This is why, if you read my OP, the poll question is specifically stated to be separate from the question in the title of the thread.

Nothing personal to you, Random Fella. I'm just getting tired of people saying the same thing you just did, as if they didn't even read the OP or any other posts.
By that are you referring to this?

[Edit 2: I don't expect a huge breakthrough where all the questions I asked would be answered with absolute certainty, I wanted to start a discussion. Also, I understood that the poll would be inaccurate, but that doesn't mean I wasn't curious about what the results would be.]

Because saying a poll is going to be inaccurate is like saying a cow shits in a field. You never stated a reason there would be extreme bias as I did in that post.
No offense to you, but if you don't explain your points, people aren't going to pick up the minor details which you will then correct them with later.
Now if you said something like 'I understood the poll would be inaccurate BECAUSE ....', then the details would be clear of what you're trying to say.
and I don't read every posts made in a thread, because I don't have the patience or the time.


Vault101 said:
your right
I know you like to write out huge arguments picking at peoples posts, but every line is filled with primary level grammar mistakes.
Please give your text an occasional look over :(
 

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Tumblr should be treated like Wikipedia, you can get a lot of information there but not all of it is credible. However Tumblr is a good place to get introduced to newer (or unfamiliar) concepts and do further research from there. There are extremely knowledgeable blogs on Tumblr of course, but it does take a bit of filtering. It's also up to you to determine how much you're going to buy into the concepts Tumblr will introduce you to and to what level you want to take it.

Personally I believe that asexuality and pansexuality are valid and both of those have very vocal communities on Tumblr, but not everything that comes from those communities should be taken as absolute truth and for as many accepting and knowledgeable blogs, there are just as many toxic and hateful ones.

Basically the same as any online community.
That's pretty much the truth. My first exposure to Tumblr was via the MLP fan community. Many artists and content creators had Tumblrs so I became familiar with the site. Then came the rather *ahem* vocal fringe of Tumblr. Being a brony on that site is something that some don't entirely like all that much...

It's easy to stereotype the whole website for it's worst members, and I've done so in the past. Even now it's a place I don't enjoy... putting it mildly. However, it's a diverse website with different cultures and people that populate the various groups and fandoms. It's not all the same, just like 4chan isn't all the same. Different boards, different cultures and users.

It's just the first place I've ever read things like "pansexual" and "demi-sexual" There seems to be a consistent amount of anger from several of these communities. The whole "white cis-scum" thing, etc. It's kind of hard to discern if these issues and such are valid, as you said, or just identities that teenagers are grasping onto during that tumultuous time in their lives.

Your thread on Asexuality a while back was an interesting read. I lurked that thread for a few days. As a male who is five years shy of wizard status, asexuality is something I've been thinking about lately.
 

Therumancer

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As far as consequences go, the general consequence to free speech is of course someone else's right to speak back to you. Once you start saying the consequence is the right to be able to effectively gag anyone that dares say something you don't like, you get to the point where there is no point to having a right to free speech.

As I said, it's easy to not get behind free speech or support abuses when they happen to support you, but remember, what's done to someone else, can also be done to you.
Well no, a consequence of free speech is other people don't have to listen to you. You can say what you want in the street, but other people don't have to give you a platform to speak. You can go into a shop and be racist, and they can throw you out. It's their shop, they pay for it, they don't have to give you a platform to speak. If you wanted to be racist, you can do it in the street.

This forum is no different. No one has to give any of us a platform to speak, but they can't censor us. We've agreed not to say certain things on this platform, and if we break the thing we agreed to then they can take away the platform they've given us. But there's nothing stopping us finding another platform, or just saying what we want in public.
You are correct, to an extent, legally, but not morally. As I said the laws were not written with the understanding that something like modern telecommunications technology could exist or have such power. The idea of political and social censorship by anyone was anathema to the founding fathers. It was simply believed that only a government could wield such power so only the government was regulated. Whether that will change or not remains to be seen. Personally it's something I, and other advocates of free speech tend to push for.

That said when it comes to free speech in stores and such the laws for that vary greatly through the country. If your open to the public in most places you can't discriminate against someone, which includes politics and dress (used heavily to defend liberals actually, especially when you had that whole hippy thing going on). You can however say in general there is no solicitation on your property, which you have to post. This means that people would not say be able to involve themselves in political rhetoric, but it would have to include all of it. In most places if your say pushing for no solicitation, this prevents you from say also hanging a sign saying to vote for some politician. This is why in many places you'll see say a mall with a no solicitation sign, but then outside the mall's parking lot on say a grass lip before the road you might see political signs before an election because that's technically public property and most towns allow or even encourage campaigning on public property. It's also why in many cases you see so many signs in one place, as one side tries to take up all the property they can in high traffic areas, or in cases with mixed signs the various people all tried to one up each other. At least that's how things worked in Waterford Connecticut when I was learning about it a long time ago (and before you make cracks the instructor was the semi-retired police chief for the town who took up teaching Criminal Justice at the Community College I attended, which used rooms at Waterford High School for some of it's classes). Time has passed though and things might have changed, but apparently that is supposed to be how most places do it. It's a mild correction, but an important one, your rights with private property can be complicated if your running a business and are open to the public, specifically because of people who did things like throw people out subjectively based on their beliefs, it's actually kind of ironic when you consider something the left wing pushed for when it was in a somewhat minority position can actually work against them, but as I say frequently, the pendulum always swings back the other way.
 

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It's just the first place I've ever read things like "pansexual" and "demi-sexual" There seems to be a consistent amount of anger from several of these communities. The whole "white cis-scum" thing, etc. It's kind of hard to discern if these issues and such are valid, as you said, or just identities that teenagers are grasping onto during that tumultuous time in their lives.

Your thread on Asexuality a while back was an interesting read. I lurked that thread for a few days. As a male who is five years shy of wizard status, asexuality is something I've been thinking about lately.
Yeah... white cis-scum. To be fair, both "sides" have their set of colorful insults. Lurking Tumblr will give you a taste of the "pro" side, while if you lurked my thread, you've already seen what the "anti" side has to offer. They're controversial subjects that people feel strongly about and just like any other topic (see feminism, GG, ext) you'll get the us vs them mentality and both sides only serve to make the other more stubborn.

If I got called "white cis-scum" or "cis-shit" by somebody who identified with these groups, I can see how that would leave a bad taste in my mouth.

Likewise if I identify as part of these groups and I get called a "special snowflake" or "mentally ill", that may create a need to fire back and call some people "cis-scum"

Both sides go on the defensive, nobody listens to anybody else, conversation is not had and no one comes out the wiser.

As for whether these are valid identities or just something that teenagers latch onto, it would be no surprise that the teenage years are when a lot of people discover their orientations. That's when the most "experimenting" is supposed to happen after all, however for some people, this behavior is not just a phase, it carries into adulthood and doesn't seem to show any sign of changing. This also discredits the idea that it's a hormone issue, because our hormone levels are always fluctuating. People have this idea that hormones are stable, they're not, even little things like stress at work and your diet can change your hormone levels.
 

Therumancer

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Yes, it's an echo chamber on the subject of accusing people of committing illegal acts in bad faith. This is quite possibly the most horrible thing ever. Or least. Yeah, probably the least.

You may have noticed it's not the anti-gays who are being warned, it's the anti-gays-who-make-tacit-allegations-of-child-molestation who are being warned. And if that's the position you are complaining about not being professed here, all I can really say is "good."

Love speech, hate speech, positive speech, negative speech, it's all supposed to be protected.
Actually, hate speech isn't "supposed to be" protected. We also have numerous other restrictions, including defamation.

But, of course, this is a moot point because this is a privately run website that can set its own rules for entry, as you know. They could set a rule in effect tomorrow that prevented us from saying "I like pie" and it wouldn't violate your rights to free speech. I mean, people could complain about it (though really, who would stand up for a pie-loving lifestyle?), but in the end, that's their determination.

Pretending this is about free speech may make you feel more noble in your struggle, but it's not even remotely true. Free speech in no way insulates you from someone saying you have to get off their property.
You know, one thing that kind of gets me on this site is how a lot of people jump into ongoing conversations without bothering to read what was already said. I believe I already covered this with Vault101.

I never claimed I was protected by Free Speech here, indeed I've commented numerous times, through many threads, that as a private site The Escapist, and other private platforms, have the right to engage in censorship. I've also commented, that it's because the laws were designed at a time when modern technology and communications were never envisioned. It was believed only a government could wield the power to censor people on a large scale or control free speech. One group of people being able to silence others, especially on social matters or those related to politics, is anathema to everything the country and the spirit of such laws stands for. On a lot of levels the idea of private citizens wielding over the speech rights of other citizens than officials elected by the people is ridiculous. The government wasn't supposed to have this kind of power, never mind some website. For the moment though, you are correct, which is why I talk about the issue, make issue of the abuses, and push for reforms.

I actually find it both sad and ridiculous when I see liberals start screaming about "consequences for speech" when decades ago when liberals happened to be more of a minority "fighting against the establishment" this was one of the big things they opposed in principle and more or less won. Of course now that your seeing the left wing control the media and a lot of the platforms they have become worse than the people they were criticizing.

Let me be brutally honest, if there are "consequences" for free speech then it's not free speech. In England for example you could also have said anything you wanted if you were willing to face the consequences too.

As far as the rest goes, screaming about the inherent unquestionable justice of social liberalism and how wrong it is to criticize groups of people or have different beliefs about them from you is just another socio-political position, not anything else. Censorship is being used to silence those that disagree, because there are of course so many of them, and being able to shut down the other side is a big step towards political control and bringing your ideals into society. There is nothing inherently righteous about either of our positions, we simply disagree on some very big matters, the major difference is that your saying you have the right to censor people that disagree with you. I'm sure the Redcoats felt the same way about colonial propaganda. Sure it wasn't a social issue, but it was just as important and all encompassing to them at the time as any major issues are to the people at the time when it's relevant.

Face it, you might disagree with me and find what I say is repugnant, but what is going on is morally and ethically wrong. What's more coming from liberals who fought the battles they did to get this far it's also totally hypocritical, representing arguments about the right of everyone to speak, until a degree of power is achieved and it becomes inconvenient.

Given that you are dealing with major social issues with millions and millions of people on either side, all with their own little variations on whatever ideal they signed up with, there is no way to justify this simply by the numbers. Once the sides get big enough it's not crackpotism or some insane person ranting.... and let's be blunt at the end of the day the reason for the censorship is because this is a nasty level through all levels of society and being able to control information and lock out the other side represents an incredibly powerful advantage in eventually winning. The thing is that in the US things are intended to change slowly, and what your supposed to do is convince people like me that you are right in great enough numbers to succeed within the system without causing major tensions throughout society, if you can't, you hope you can sway things generationally. Right now the left wing wants everything right now, so it's been ignoring the rules, principles, and system, just like every other group of tyrants (who almost always start out idealistically). The sad thing is people rarely see that the pendulum swings back, and everything done out of self-declared righteousness now will come back on you later.


NOTE: I've been online quite a while. I'll be offline for a while, and not sure when I'll be able to post regularly. RL calls. I was mostly on while I was not feeling well.
 

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Like others have said, it would be near impossible to get a correct number for the amount of LGBT people in the world. Breaking it down country by country might reveal that some countries have such a problem with it that many are too scared to admit their sexuality.

OT: I identify as bisexual and I'm 100% supportive of the LGBT (and others) community. I'll campaign for their rights, for schools to teach us about different sexualities so it's not as alien to kids when they start learning about it.
I've felt like it since school but wasn't comfortable about coming out until last year or so. My hesitance came from my friends but not in the way you would think. I was part of the emo/goth/alternative crowd and pretty much all of them were supposed bisexuals. It seemed to me that they treated it like some sort of fashion label. I have no reason to doubt anyone's sexuality if they say what they are but when we used to have serious conversations about it, they would pipe up with "Eww, I couldn't lick minge/suck cock" but girls would drunkenly make out with other girls. I always found it confusing, and I wasn't sure if people would think I was doing it for attention.

That probably sounds like the shittiest reasoning ever but I wanted to wait until I was 100% sure about myself before I identified as such, rather than having a "my friends are doing it and I want to look edgy too" mindset. Funnily enough, none of them are no longer bi. Two are now gay men, and one is a lesbian. Teenage hormones are weird.

I don't shout about it, because that's just stupid. I've never understood why people put "I'm bi" in their about me sections. If it comes up in conversation I'll tell people. I'll admire both women and men openly.
If I find a woman I was romantically attached to and someone I got on well with I would date her, but I haven't been lucky in that regards so I've only ever had boyfriends and a few flings with women.

I'm happy with my boyfriend now, God forbid we ever break up but if we did I would definitely get myself down to a gay bar. :)
 

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God, just realized that I didn't answer your questions the first time around! >_<

Ehm, let's see... I don't have any family or friends that are LGBT (or outside that group, but like me, still technically "fitting" one or more of the letters). Actually, apart from one person, I don't know anyone who would fit, as I've been mostly avoiding LGBT (as in, the group, organization), due to some bad experiences with them. As for percentage... I don't know, it depends on how you define heterosexuality and such, but at very least 5% seems rather likely.

Apart from that, I'd say that the place I'm from is pretty cool about this kind of thing, we've got a lot of the law stuff settled, support for certain things from the government, and people usually is of the opinion that "I honestly don't care who you have sex with". The most extreme I've ever seen was me talking to a friend of my sister, who said she wasn't sure what to think of lesbians (gays were completely fine with her) because she wasn't sure what to reply if they hit on her, and my brother telling me about a friend who was fine with them as long as he didn't have to hear about who they were having sex with, because he found it uncomfortable.

Perhaps I'm just incredibly lucky in that regard, or perhaps I've just learned to avoid the sort of people who is against certain groups of people, but I haven't seen much of it at all. Growing up; bisexual, homosexual and asexual were just words describing a sexual orientation -my mother would use them as legit terms, and, as a matter of fact, openly voiced her suspicions of that I might be asexual when I didn't show any interest in boys when I was younger- and they still are. My school taught sexuality as part of the course, and I'm fairly sure all 3 terms were involved. Granted, I am living in socialist country, and I'm only 19, so that's probably part of it as well.

Then again, as seen above, I haven't met many non-heterosexual people, or at least, many people who has mentioned it in a conversation, as I don't find it very relevant to most conversations. I don't have any special dislike or like for LGBT, but I don't see any reason to identify with a group of people based on something I find to be a private thing, a position that seems to get me into trouble if I mention it, so perhaps I shouldn't have. >_>
 

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well now lets go there then

why is homosexuality an illness? I mean sure its a deviation but it was declassified as an illness in the 70's and unless we're basing everything on some skewed idea of "nature=good" then its really just a harmless preference

and how are gay men comparable to peadophiles? M/F peadopheila exists does it not? perhaps this is a problem with the male gender as a whole? I mean if you'll base the actions of gay men on some cases of M/M paedophilia then why not go all the way and just be wary of ALL men?
 

Saltyk

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I'm legitimately surprised by the current polls results.

Mainly, I'm surprised that it's that high. I've heard most estimates put the total LGBT population at about 5-10%. Seeing it so high in this poll does make me wonder why that would be. Is the escapist simply a haven for LGBT people? Are LGBT people more likely to visit this poll and answer it? Are some people simply trolling the results? Are these results completely legitimate and a representation of the true size and scope of LGBT people?


I don't have the answers. I merely asked the questions.
 

Mykal Stype

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Kinsey's 10% is often the one used because he was very in depth, but even he thought it was wrong. One of the problems for him was his own invention, the Kinsey Scale; if there's more to sexuality than gay, straight, or bi, it's difficult to get a good answer. The best you can do is go to a liberal, mainly gay accepting place that is not advertised as such. Probably areas of the European countries with a large support of gay marriage. And you have to make sure there's a "other" option because there's quite a few people that consider themselves something outside of the typically used scales. And then gender becomes an issue. If I like a woman, but that woman has or used to have a penis, and I only date a woman if she has/had one, am I heterosexual, or would you list it as heterosexual with a qualifier?
As for me, I'm starting to call myself a whateversexual. I mainly identify as gay, but that's because it's easier. My sexuality is so fluid that I have no clue what's next, I just know that according to patterns, I'll always like dudes. But then some times I like women, but then a few years later I have zero interest. MtF trans women would not work out for me quite a while ago, but now I'm down. But later I might not be. Fetishes come and go on a regular basis. The only thing that's common among all times is that I'm not completely sexually attracted to someone I've not become close to, so I have a tendency to only be attracted to people that I've known for quite a while, and that's a problem. Every so often someone catches my eye right off, but that's rare.
So I'm a demisexual, highly fluid somethingsexual. That's really not on any list for studies.