Poll: What Personality Traits Do You Find Attractive?

[Colour Scientist]

Once again, T0ad you fail to answer your own question.
Tut-tut, bad thread making!

OP: Traits?

Well, he has to have lots of cash moneys...

Seriously though, I like guys who are confident but not arrogant.
Someone who can take a joke, especially at their own expense.
I don't know, all of my exes are actually really different, I can't pinpoint the things that made me attracted to them.


I do want a guy who will (or will try to) dance. Even if it's silly, drunk, flaily dancing.
My last boyfriend didnt dance at all!

 

[Guitarmasterx7]

I like when a girl is enjoyable to talk to. A sense of humor and some brains go a long way. I also really like a positive outlook. I'm generally negative so it's nice to have someone who balances that out.

That proud bitchiness thing that some girls do is pretty much the most unattractive personality trait to me. I really don't know what to call it, it's probably more a personality type than a trait. If you've ever met a girl that describes herself as "brutally honest" or says that she "has no filter" you probably know what I'm talking about. I'm not even necessarily saying someone who actually is brutally honest mind you, I'm talking about the kind of girl who makes a point to tell you that, and then thinks that makes it totally cool for her to be a total ****.

 

[Vegosiux]

Personality traits?

Level-headedness, witty sense of humor, pragmatism and open-mindedness.

 

[Caiphus]

I do want a guy who will (or will try to) dance. Even if it's silly, drunk, flaily dancing.
My last boyfriend didnt dance at all!

Well, there go my chances.

Frankly, after you see me dance once, you'll never want to again.

 

[Johnny Novgorod]

Good humor, really. I want to have nothing but good-humored people in my life.

 

[Johnny Impact]

Spoiler: This pretty much explains it

But seriously: smart, reasonably stable, honest, knows how to communicate, gets me on a level even my friends don't, loves books, likes my sense of humor and has one of her own, introverted like me, understands the need for space, not too high-maintenance.

....And as long as I'm dreaming, six feet tall, silky skin, long straight hair, big expressive eyes, and the physique of a gymnast.

 

[TWRule]

None. I'm attracted to persons, not personality traits.

 

[JaceArveduin]

Not stupid and fiery.

What can I say? I have a death wish.

 

[2012 Wont Happen]

I'm attracted to women who curse, don't care much about laws, make shockingly offensive jokes, and like double dash.

On a less strange note I like women who value intelligence.

 

[ShipofFools]

All my dating life, a certain type of woman has had this irresistible pull on me.
It's craziness.

I love crazy women.
And I don't mean "fun crazy."

Full blown psychosis drives me wild.
Fuck me

 

[Colour Scientist]

I do want a guy who will (or will try to) dance. Even if it's silly, drunk, flaily dancing.
My last boyfriend didnt dance at all!

Well, there go my chances.

Frankly, after you see me dance once, you'll never want to again.

I don't care if you dance well, just that you try.
I only ever go dancing after I've had a few with friends, so it's a social, messing around thing.

 

[ShipofFools]

I do want a guy who will (or will try to) dance. Even if it's silly, drunk, flaily dancing.
My last boyfriend didnt dance at all!

Well, there go my chances.

Frankly, after you see me dance once, you'll never want to again.

I don't care if you dance well, just that you try.
I only ever go dancing after I've had a few with friends, so it's a social, messing around thing.

Always dance as if nobody's watching, and when people are actually watching me flail around like a crazy person, then it's even more fun.

Other people's judgement can't hurt you if you're having fun

 

[Bertylicious]

Women who're lazy, unclean, emotionally distant and listless are flipping hawt, especially if they are unable to dance. Also they must be small enough to not hog the duvet.

That said I have never been with a tall lady and find the idea intensely erotic.

 

[trollnystan]

I'm not exactly sure, as I haven't felt genuinely attracted to a real live person in my vicinity in years.(Crazy cat lady spinster reporting in, SAH! *salutes*)

However, I suppose I'd enjoy someone which a similar sense of humour - a bit snarky, a bit silly - integrity, kindness, intelligence; a bit flirty is fun too as long as it doesn't translate into "sleeping around". I don't have any real experience in the matter, but I believe I'm a monogamous type of person. So, hypothetical perfect lifemate, feel free to be flirty with the other girls and boys, but only playfully thank you.

Would probably need someone who was more solid and dependable than I, and who could give me a loving kick out "the nest" so to speak when I need it. Like Daystar I'm a lazy bugger so there's that, but I'm also awash with social phobias that make me cocoon myself at home more often than not.

Wow, what's with my vocabulary today?

I am waiting by the phone for you to call me all night long.

Where have you been?

Just call 1-800-ASSASSINO

You beautiful, beautiful man. Thank you, that made my day! <3

 

[Daystar Clarion]

I'm not exactly sure, as I haven't felt genuinely attracted to a real live person in my vicinity in years.(Crazy cat lady spinster reporting in, SAH! *salutes*)

However, I suppose I'd enjoy someone which a similar sense of humour - a bit snarky, a bit silly - integrity, kindness, intelligence; a bit flirty is fun too as long as it doesn't translate into "sleeping around". I don't have any real experience in the matter, but I believe I'm a monogamous type of person. So, hypothetical perfect lifemate, feel free to be flirty with the other girls and boys, but only playfully thank you.

Would probably need someone who was more solid and dependable than I, and who could give me a loving kick out "the nest" so to speak when I need it. Like Daystar I'm a lazy bugger so there's that, but I'm also awash with social phobias that make me cocoon myself at home more often than not.

Wow, what's with my vocabulary today?

I am waiting by the phone for you to call me all night long.

Where have you been?

Just call 1-800-ASSASSINO

You beautiful, beautiful man. Thank you, that made my day! <3

You say that, but I am still waiting by the phone.

You must call me!

[HEADING=2]Nobody else.[/HEADING]

 

[waj9876]

If you need to google these words, do so. I'm not going to explain them.

I am very attracted to the yandere type of person. - Example: Yuno FUCKING Gasai from Mirai Nikki. Anyone who knows who I'm talking about, high five.

I pretty much despise the tsundere type of person. - Example: Akane Tendo from Ranma1/2.

 

[RedDeadFred]

I am attracted to woman who are kind, yet daring.

I don't find woman attractive if they have that whole diva personality.

P.S. I hate bananas.

 

[gmaverick019_v1legacy]

any girl who can take a joke, or better yet, dish one hard back at me.

the other day a new friend of mine told me to "take the dick out of my ass and choke on my nuts!" after she countered my spike in volleyball really well, i was in shock but it was hilarious and a huge damn turn on, i'm pretty sure i smiled for the next 10 minutes that she had the gall to say something like that to me.


otherwise someone who isn't arrogant/self centered aboout everything, and tells the truth/tells it how it is, i fucking hate lying more than damn near anything, so if a girl has those three things my heart is probably close to thumping pretty damn hard anytime she is around.


luckily for me i may have found a girl like that as of recent

 

[MrMixelPixel]

I've found I'm attracted to confident outgoing females. Someone who isn't afraid to initiate things. In a relationship, I have a bad habit of not initiating things... Like conversation! Should I fix that? Maybe? Or maybe I should just find a lady friend to do it for me.