So here's the problem, A couple of years ago I met this girl though my step brother, it wasn't like a blind date or anything I was in my room playin' GH World Tour when he barges in and introduces her, I know what your think I'm sitting there with a piece of plastic round my neck how do I look good, thankfully she's a massive fan of it but anyways we all start playin' Eye of the Tiger and every now and again she takes a quick glance at me, I did likewise then my brother goes upstairs and stays there for ages talking to his friends on his mobile (I know rude much), so me and her are just down there talking about whatever and there's an instant connection and over the next say year and a half I see her whenever she comes to see my brother on a few occasions it ended up just me n her and I knew I should have said something but I couldn't work up the courage to and now she's at university a good hour away, I know it's not too far but I've had long distance things before and they all crashed and burnt, I had got her out of my head not too long ago but back in September I went Spain with my friend and all he could talk about half the time was this girl he really likes but he doesn't know if she likes him. That got me thinking again and I KNOW she likes me but I'm not too sure what to do (Tips)? Thanks for any help guys.
Poll: What Should I Do? (Girl Trouble)
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P.S. Haven't talked to her since about April/May Last year so it may be a bit weird me calling now just put what you think, Thanks
BTW for the people saying I should get another girl, I have had other GFs since then it's just I've never connected with them as much as I did her, just a bit more info
BTW for the people saying I should get another girl, I have had other GFs since then it's just I've never connected with them as much as I did her, just a bit more info
Try to create some way for the two of you to meet up and catch up with each others lives. From there see if your judgments still hold true.
If you two really had such an instant connection I don't think this would be all that awkward. Try to arrange a meet-up, and just hang out. See how things are, if you still feel that connection, and if you think a long-distance relationship could work. After hanging out with her, figure out where you stand, and go from there.TH_SHOTZ said:
If you still feel the same way, arrange another meet-up to let her know how you feel, or let her know over the phone if this isn't possible. May not be the best way to go about expressing your feelings, but what's most important is actually expressing them. Worst comes to worst and she doesn't feel the same way. Yes, it'll suck, but you'll know where you stand in her eyes, and be able to properly move on from there. If you never express your feelings, you'll never know, and you'll likely find yourself randomly wondering down the road. Of course you'll be able to move on, and eventually you'll meet other girls, but expressing yourself now takes that "what if" out of the equation.
Regardless of how you feel, and as already mention, you'll gain a sense of closure, which is what matter most when accepting any situation, whether it goes your way or not. Best of luck.
Everyone else seems to have covered it, besides the distance thing. Don't be put off by a one hour drive if that's the only thing stopping you. One hour really isn't a huge distance, and it definitely shouldn't get in the way of a relationship if you both feel the same way.
In any case, talk to her about it.
In any case, talk to her about it.
yes, you should talk to her, if only to get over this. (you said you couldn't connect to others as well as you did with her, so she's still an issue. which needs taken care of. it's pretty much the same thing a friend of mine had some time ago. he felt like shit until he finally talked to her about how he felt (for appr. 7 years then xD). they didn't end up a couple, they basically just talked about it and... that was it. but he finally regained his sanity and emotional stability and could move on to someone else without having to think about HER all the time. took him quite some time, but hell)