I would have to say love, shes my frist girlfriend to go over a month of going out with meZeithri said:
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try 4chan. thats the best place for this kind of thing. Its full of high school kids anyways and you can get your dick ratedbbarco224(341) said:
Well i saw what you posted on the topic of 4chan, but i dont feel like being spamed with cocks and N wordsdbungus2000 said:
Don't ask her, but do talk to her and just subtly mention that you're ready. Then, leave it down to her. It's her choice too, and she'll let you know when she's ready for sex, so then you can do it as a special thing between the two of you when you're both happy to try it. Which is how it should be.
Legally, you're both alright for it, so there's no problems there. Really, the only thing is waiting until she wants sex too...
Legally, you're both alright for it, so there's no problems there. Really, the only thing is waiting until she wants sex too...
...So your answer is that no, you haven't spoken with her about it at all. Unless she said that she doesn't want to have sex when you spoke bout a month ago ? and it certainly doesn't sound like you had a complete conversation to me ? you don't have a problem at all. So, here's the non-solution to your non-problem: wait for a good opportunity (this means that you're alone and you're not busy talking about something else, not that the conversation naturally flows toward sex, which from the sounds of it will never happen ? actually, a good opportunity is in the middle of a bit of "hand use") and tell her you want to have sex with her and ask how she feels about it. Maybe she'll say yes. Maybe she'll say not yet. Or maybe she'll say never. No matter what, you'll know where you stand.bbarco224(341) said:
Despite what decades of romantic comedies have told you, true love does not mean that you are able to see into the future and know what you want to do without uncertainty. If someone waits until they have no doubts before they make a decision, they will wait until they are dead.Zeithri said:
Let the relationship take it's natural course. If you try to rush it, it might not be as enjoyable for you and her.
"Should I ask?"
Seriously?
Yes, I approve.
"So honey, I was wondering if we could have sex soon, seeing as I want to cement our relationship. I want to share the most intimate of times with you, because I feel we are ready for that next level. I really digg you, babe, you make me horny as fuck"
Or...
You could just get her to come over, cook for her(If you can cook. Else order something in) pop in a romantic comedy like The Notebook or some shit, and start making out. Remind her about stuff like "That reminds me of how I feel about you" or "I can totally relate to that, since I am so desperately in love with you"
You will soon get to second base, and then just push onwards.
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Seriously?
Yes, I approve.
"So honey, I was wondering if we could have sex soon, seeing as I want to cement our relationship. I want to share the most intimate of times with you, because I feel we are ready for that next level. I really digg you, babe, you make me horny as fuck"
Or...
You could just get her to come over, cook for her(If you can cook. Else order something in) pop in a romantic comedy like The Notebook or some shit, and start making out. Remind her about stuff like "That reminds me of how I feel about you" or "I can totally relate to that, since I am so desperately in love with you"
You will soon get to second base, and then just push onwards.
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I feel like adding this, just to comment that the poster is right and I would use the "like" button, had there been one. Good morning blues is awarded one point from here. +1.Good morning blues said:
bbarco224(341) said:
It really should just be natural. As in things will go further than kissing on their own. Once you both are in the mood, it'll just get heavier and heavier until... well you know.
And remember, no means no. Seems to be a thing people forget. Just because she's horny doesn't mean she wants to ride you raw.
Even I got reeled in(somewhat) - and that is just plain embarrassing.bbarco224(341) said:
Let's see how many more views and responses you can get here, trollboy-o.
How is that any different from your first phrasing?darkless said:
A person should be free to want what they want from a relationship, and find another partner if not fulfilled. To most people, part of a relationship is sex and therefor people will want, and expect, to be able to get sex while in a relationship.
Be serious - who, above the age of maybe 15, is in a relationship without sex?
Well depends. Can you imagine spending your life with this girl? Then I say wait. If you cannot, go for it. I did it with the girl I thought I wanted to spend the rest of my life with, and it ended a year later, thanks to boredom. We were just... bored of each other.bbarco224(341) said:
Well aren't you just a model citizen!?bbarco224(341) said:
Seriously though, this is just becoming rather funny. What is with that? "But i want to a place full of smart people, not trolls"
So you, as a troll, thinks not to try to troll the trolls, but rather the "smart people"? What?
You're purposefully not making sense here, troll-boy.
Sex isn't special anymore. It's fun and good times.darkless said:
Nobody saves themselves for marriage.
"I am not ready"... Then get ready fast, seriously
I can understand having patience, when you really care for somebody, but then that somebody should try satisfying your needs regardless, as they should care as much for you.
The best, along with being the most meaningfull, experience of a relationship is the sex - as with anything. Who doesn't want it?
Tell me, if it isn't too personal of a question, why you are not "putting out"? Or, if you a boy, why on earth you are the only one without a sexdrive?
