Poll: What would you do if a girl was crying in front of you?
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If I don't know the girl, there would have to be very significant reasons for me to bother stopping and figuring out what's going on. Obvious injury, obvious display of fear or something of the sort would be enough for me to investigate further. Otherwise, I couldn't be bothered.
Give her a hug and calm her. When I cry, everyone leaves me alone which I hate. I just want to be held!
depending how well i'd knew this person be it guy or girl i'd talk to them, give my outlook and advice and hopefully cheer them up
If it were a stranger i'd probably do the same as well, if no one was willing to see if this person was okay i'd go but if a group of people were already helping and such i'd probably walk on by
(wow, been awhile since i've last posted... about time i found a thread worth posting on)
If it were a stranger i'd probably do the same as well, if no one was willing to see if this person was okay i'd go but if a group of people were already helping and such i'd probably walk on by
(wow, been awhile since i've last posted... about time i found a thread worth posting on)
I hope you get better soon. At least over here we're heading into winter, you're pretty much in the thick of spring :S
If I knew them, I'd help them out. If I don't know them then I would try to help if they sought it.
I'd try to talk, but I never really know how to open that kind of conversation. I've tried, but rarely succeed.
This. It would be such an awkward situation, I won't know what to say, "How are you?" would probably be my first line and the answer is pretty clear that she isn't good.ejb626 said:
That said, I would do marginally better if the girl was Christian, then at least I could direct her attention to encouraging Bible verses.
So yeah, I'd just ignore any girl crying.
probably talk to them and give them a hug or if they want to be left alone id just leave them be
I'd talk to them even if it's not a "legitimate" reason. I wouldn't ask "are you okay?" The obvious answer is always no. So I'd ask "what's up?" If they open up, or seem to want to ultimately, I'll stick around. If they don't want to talk, you can't force it on them.
Unless it's happy crying. It's often easy to discern. In which case I'd probably make a generic happy comment (about the weather or the like) and keep moving, or if they're someone I know well, settle down and silently accompany them.
Unless it's happy crying. It's often easy to discern. In which case I'd probably make a generic happy comment (about the weather or the like) and keep moving, or if they're someone I know well, settle down and silently accompany them.
