llafnwod said:
Kagim said:
Answering that question is kinda silly. Unless you have already been in that position its hard to say either answer definitively.
As easy as it for us to say yes or no and lay down a completely logical reason as to why we choose yes or no until we are sitting there in the doctors office receiving the news that our beautiful baby we have spent the last two and a half months picking out names, building a room for, planning for college and making part of our lives before they are even born is going to have down syndrome... No one can answer that question.
I am aware that it is difficult, but a question being hypothetical does not mean your answer is not useful. Do your best.
My point is the answers ARE meaningless until your in the position.
In example. I could easily say i would have no problem killing a child because they have leukemia and are suffering.
But until i am looking the child in the eyes... Everything i say is meaningless.
It's not a manner of difficulty. In fact the question is the easiest thing to answer in the world when i am not the one confronting it. I can back up everything i say with logical statements and justify the consequence.
However that's only because i have no emotional investment in the child I am about to terminate. I haven't spent the last ten weeks obsessing over every little aspect of my future child's life. Haven't picked out a name and purchased clothes in anticipation of the arrival. I haven't spent the last two weeks meticulously preparing my babies new room painting it the perfect color, safety proofing it and constructing every piece of furniture by hand.
I haven't sat and talked to my parents and grandparents and laughed and talked and fought over how my child is going to be raised.
I have no emotional investment in the hypothetical child, thus the answer would be only valid if i didn't care about the child at all if it were real. If after ten weeks i didn't care at all about the kid. If i hadn't invested anything into the child.
And if that's true... then the child didn't stand a chance to being with.