Poll: Would you change your sexuality?

[jebbo]

I looked at the title and thought this was going to be a stupid thread but actually it's quite an interesting question.

As a straight guy I'm happy with who I am but there have been times, especially recently, when getting rejected or blown out by women has made me wonder if it would be easier if I was gay as I get on with blokes better. But then I realise it would just transfer the problems of relationships to the opposite gender. Plus I don't find men attractive

Asexuality would be interesting as then you would never really have the problems of sexual frustration or rejection or awkwardness, just kind of get on with life and have friends with no complications. However sex is just too damn fun to give up!

So nope. Straight and I wouldn't change it.

 

[Something Amyss]

At one point, I would have killed to be "normal" I'm bisexual, and I'm comfortable with that now.

 

[itsnotyouitsme]

There's a particular reason who im straight. It's not that i dislike gays nor even that i haven't seriously thought about it, and if you ask my friends they might give you mixed answers. However the reason above all of why im straight is quite simply, because im straight. I'm straight and i know it so there is no reason to hide behind masculinity and there's no need to feel offended nor day to day prove that i am straight to others. The only one i care that they know im straight is the girl im boinking, beyond that people can think what they will.

 

[Jedoro]

Hetero, wouldn't change it. Fuck being bitter, I don't give up on my goals.

 

[lolelemental]

"lucky bastard... no matter where he goes he can at least have something to look at"

Story of my life xD

At times there's too much choice, so my brain has a melt down and I choose no one and stair at the wall instead :S

 

[itsnotyouitsme]

Question: Does Asexual mean just masturbation or does it mean you suddenly create a clone of yourself which you run off and marry and boink? Because if the second is true then would it be possible to get a female clone of yourself? And if so i will have to say... nope, still straight. Having a female clone of yourself you boink might get a little weird.

 

[Lieju]

I'm lesbian, and quite happy with that, although sometimes it feels like being asexual would be easier. Falling in love can be shitty.

 

[P.Tsunami]

Is it reversible?

Because I'm fine with being a guy, but I think it would be very educational for any person to put themselves in the opposite sexes shoes for a day even.

Also BOOBS YAY

This is not what the thread is about though. Gender =/= Sexual orientation.

Personally, I'm bi and quite satisfied with it. *shrugs*

 

[Adzma]

Question: Does Asexual mean just masturbation or does it mean you suddenly create a clone of yourself which you run off and marry and boink? Because if the second is true then would it be possible to get a female clone of yourself? And if so i will have to say... nope, still straight. Having a female clone of yourself you boink might get a little weird.

I don't know if you're joking or not but I'll humour you. To be asexual is to have no particular preference in gender and in most cases no sexual urges or desires whatsoever.

 

[DuplicateValue]

Nah I'm pretty happy with my sexuality - it's not a whole lot to do with gender, so much as the person themselves.

As in, if I see someone who's attractive all-round (good looks, nice personality), then it doesn't matter whether they're a guy or a girl. I guess that's being bi, but...
I dunno, it seems a bit different.

 

[Vohn_exel]

I'm hetero and quite happy. Now if only I could find a woman that was happy with my heteroness

 

[Shock and Awe]

Nah, I am pretty happy with being into the womenz.

 

[hyrulegaybar]

The major flaw in asking this question is that you DON'T have a choice. Anyone who has to come out as gay comes to accept the fact and is happy with it, but given a choice, virtually everyone would choose to be heterosexual. Just like an amputee is happy with their situation, but would have chosen to not lose a limb.

I mean, I'm gay, but until I came to terms with it, I wanted to figure out a way to still have a wife and kids while enjoying gay sex. Backwards, I know, but that's how I thought. I think this thread will find primarily frustrated heterosexuals, depressed homosexuals, and a few people chiming in that they're bisexual so that people will look at them.

I'm joking about the last part before someone bisexual unloads attitude on me.

 

[hyrulegaybar]

I'm happy being straight. I like women... they're pretty
My mate is gay and once told me that, if it were possible, he'd change to being straight because there's still so much of a stigma and struggle with being gay. I think he was being a tad dramatic; as far as I can tell, being gay is extremely accepted by our generation (not so much our parents', though). But I can't say that confidently without being in his shoes

That's probably his problem though. It's not our generation that's the problem. It's all the old fogeys who are still in power.

If you'd like to know how far we still have to go, gay people cannot donate blood, let alone marry, adopt kids, join the military, or keep their job or housing for being gay (at least in the US in all 50 states).

Why do you think we're all still pissed off?

 

[Denamic]

I don't see the point with some of those options.
If you want to be gay, you're already gay.
But bisexual, however, could be a logical choice.
I mean, you retain your current preferences, be it gay or straight, while still widening your strike zone.

Your post tends to suggest you think sexuality is a choice. Am I correct in thinking that? Or have I misunderstood what you're saying?

No, I meant that in the hypothetical sense.
As in, if it was a choice.

 

[The Night Shade]

I'm Heterosexual and i like it that way