Poll: Would you rather live in a big city or a small town?

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Zhukov

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Big city thanks.

Small towns are alright. I've lived in one. Not a bad place to grow up.

But big cities have all the good shit.

I currently live in either a small city or a large town with delusions of grandeur. Whatever a population of about 100k makes. It's okay.
 

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I've lived in plenty of places including big cities, small towns, and rural areas and I've got to say, I'm more of a city kind of person, especially big cities, it's mostly that my hobbies are not very popular in M?xico so in order to be able to enjoy them you need to be in a city with huge cultural variety, that simple really, I get bored in the countryside but I do get to finish like a million video games and shows because there's not much else to do.
 

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DrownedAmmet said:
Madmatty said:
Hazy992 said:
I'd rater live in a big city, they're much more lively and there's so much more going on. I love in a town with around 165,000 people and it's boring as shit.
To each his own but I personally find living in large cities would REALLY suck! I like being able to go out into the back bush and shoot cans with a BB gun. Big cities are fine to visit but living there would be depressing as fuck for me.
I grew up in the country all my life, and I do kind of miss being able to fuck around in a backyard, but I much prefer living in the city.I like living in a place where I can walk to the grocery store, or walk down to a pub and have a drink and a burger, even if the closest shooting range is a thirty minute drive away
Well to each his own my lad to each his own. I'm just saying that for me city life is depressing and you get all your minerals in one breath. That's why next time I visit Toronto I'm bringing a gas mask
 

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I'm from a small town of around 9000 people. I'm pretty happy with that. We're right in the middle of a few larger towns, so anything we could need is around 15 minutes away. The town itself is pretty quiet, crime is practically non-existent, the people are mostly friendly.

I've briefly lived in cities (New York and Chicago), and I can't say I'm much of a fan. Too crowded, too polluted, too much crime, everyone's a stranger because there's just so many people... it's just not worth it to me. I'd rather be where I am, and make the 45 minute drive to Boston if I ever wanted the city experience... for some reason.
 

Lufia Erim

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Im black. And like my privacy. Big city for me.

From what i hear, small towns like to talk a lot and name and shame people who are different. It's like highschool but for adults. No thanks.
 

Vault101

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I grew up in a Rural area (like seriously very small by most standards)my sisters partner in general conversation asked me if I was ever going "go back home"...it took me at least a second for my mind to tick over and realize he was talking about "home" as in the farm...part of me wanted to snort-laugh my drink onto the patio (but I didn't cause I'm not rude)

I have generally good things to say about my childhood in that regard but the life and culture were never my thing, it's for community minded people and early nesters

that;s not to say I've turned into some [strike/]latte[/S] energy drink sipping greens voter elite (well mostly) I love the country but as an outsider...not part of it
 

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Lived in small towns and villages in rural UK most of my life. Have to admit I quite like it. Although I don't drive which is a bit of a pain, but me and my partner are more introverted. When we do go out it's with friends who we can catch a lift with anyway.

Currently live in a very small farm-centric town of around 6,000 people that has everything I need. I work a short walk down the road, and there is a town centre with mostly independently owned shops. There are also both primary and secondary schools, a large super market and plenty of takeouts (for such a small town, I think there's at least 4 fish and chip shops!). There are also frequent buses to the far larger local town for more shopping options. For anything I can't get, there's always online!

I prefer the more quiet nature of a town. although it is a very busy town (market days especially) it's never close to city levels of noise, hustle and bustle. Suits me just fine.
 

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There's barely one city big enough to be called big by international standards (over 600 000 in Helsinki) in Finland and I wouldn't really want to live there. Sure, my needs could one day change, but my current hometown has 35k people and an easy access to the rest of the country by train (no movie theatre though). Yeah, nothing really happens here, but that doesn't bother me. Then again one could make the case that I could be a more socially active person had I lived somewhere with more happening, y'know, but schmeculations.
 

RedDeadFred

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Having lived in both, I'd take big city over small town. Small towns have their perks, but for me, there's just not enough to do. There's simply more options with cities. Plus there's the convenience factor. Whatever you need tends to be fairly close whereas small towns may require trips to the big city to get what you want. For example, when I lived in a small town, having to drive into the city to go to Costco was always a pain.
 

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I prefer big cities. There's more to do, both in number and variety. Day-to-day activities are generally more convenient. In general, it's a more exciting place to live.

Small towns are great for relaxing, though, making them good for getting away for a couple weeks out of the year.
 

gsilver

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I grew up in a town of 5000.
I have lived in a metro area of 2 million (San Jose, CA).
I currently live in a metro area of 520k.

I'd definitely prefer something smaller than I'm in right now (quieter, better air, less traffic, and good small towns will still have some decent restaurants), though options are kind of limited if I want to, you know, actually find a job there.
Though telecommuting is definitely in the long-term plans.
 

MeatMachine

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Small town.
I basically live in a frontier community, and I love it. Infrastructure is lacking and there isn't much diversity in the way of stores or restaurants, but my internet works fine, so I don't need much else. Keep your smog and urban sprawl.
 

sageoftruth

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I've been mulling over that for years. Ever since College I've been living in the city, and I hate it. It's noisy, getting anywhere is a hassle, no one respects the rules of the road, whether they be pedestrian or driver, friendliness towards strangers is unexpected and usually unwanted, and in tight spaces, I feel crushed between everyone's personal space bubbles.

Still, I wonder if there is anything I've begun to take for granted, like the easy access to just about any kind of store or restaurant, or the easy one-stop train ride to work.

All I know for certain is that when I retire, I'm getting the hell out of the city and going back to the suburbs.
 

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Never lived in a small town.

I currently live in a big, though not that big, city. I feel like it is rather big, but everyone I know from Paris, London, Berlin, New York, LA, or even Toronto consider Montreal to be on the smallish side.

I like it, to be honest.
 

SupahEwok

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I want to live alone in a log cabin in the woods on a mountain 45 minutes away from a big city on the coast.

...yeah I'm gonna be looking for a while.
 

SlumlordThanatos

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I prefer a happy medium.

I grew up in a little podunk town of about 5000. The only significant thing about our town was the Tyson's plant. When I moved away to go to college, the town I was in was just the perfect size. Big enough to where I can find just about anything I could want, but not so big as to be sprawling and crowded.

I could never live somewhere like New York City, but college towns are a fantastic middle point.
 

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Which provides me the best means to earn gratuitous amounts of profit without sacrificing a proportional amount of time in general convenience? I prefer cities, myself. Their existence is a peerless example of human collectivism, self-management, and the technologies that allow for mass housing and logistics. Towns are towns. Places where in ages past were often situated in between major agricultural centers or intersections of reasonable trade. But cities ... cities are an example of where humanity has achieved a prerequisite efficiency (or abundance) not merely to obtain them, but to create more of them.

I also like the energy of cities. The lights. So much so I always found nights in the country to be almost frightening. Say what you like about light pollution, there's something calming about your apartment bathed in red or green neon whenever it is 'darkest'... in the country night is night. Can't see a damned thing in front of you, and the slither of something over your flesh as you push your way through the scrub back to a place of refuge is inherently fear-provoking.

Sure you can rationalize that it was just a slimy leaf, but good luck in not checking with your lighter just to be safe. Honestly, all the people screaming how we need to be 'closer to nature' are on drugs. Nature is entirely apathetic to your existence. It doesn't give a shit. At least if we surround ourselves with people behind buildings of rebar and concrete we might have a chance of a cuddle and a pat on the head.

I've lived in 28 cities across the world, and it never surprises how much chaos can be contained within what are often very similar systems of control that guarantee its continued existence.

Towns are organic. They rise organically, their foundations built on the reasons for their own existence. Late modern cities are purposeful, deliberate, planned, and yet ever more chaotic through its density of populations.

Whenever people go off on a spiel about humans are violent, stupid, insane, cruel, or narcissistic ... I always point to cities. Whereby humans can have the capaciy to be socially-minded, conscientious, reasonable, and 'live and let live' ... where humans are naturally reticient to turning where they live into battlefields solely because they have annoying neighbours, or because council does something you don't like near you.

If humans were half as violent as people say, cities would be perpetual nightscapes of internecine conflict, bedlam and viciousness. But time and again, cities tend to produce the most reasonable people who have a practiced understanding of how one deals with strangers or people they simply don't understand. Either with quiet apathy, or practiced patience ...

City building -- one of the few, big things both capitalists and Marxists can agree on.
 

Wakey87

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Never lived in the city but I have lived In a small Town, I then moved to the middle of nowhere (3 houses in a mile or two radias) I now own a house in a small village (maybe a hundred houses and a shop).

I personly prefer less people as possable, less people to piss off and be pissed off by. Also we get pretty fast broadband in England even in rural areas.
 

maninahat

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I've lived in both a village and the city. The former has advantages of peacefulness and space, but is an utter pain in the arse for everything else. Unless you have a car, the only way to get to the city was to take a bus - there were only two scheduled in the morning and two in the late afternoon to get back, and it cost you at least a fiver each time, and that was back in 2002.

Cities are vastly more convenient in every respect, and I can't get away from that. But you can't take the country out the boy.