Poll: Would you want to die before or after your life partner?

[Soviet Steve]

She'd take it harshly if I passed before her. I don't mind going last.

 

[Phasmal]

Kind of morbid, but I probably will die before boyfriend does.
He's always fighting fit and super healthy. I have a terrible immune system.

 

[thespyisdead]

i am too young to think about death... ask me again in 40 years

 

[Hunter65416]

Im going to say...after her..theres a couple of reasons namley that I guess I wanna be alive as long as possible...but as the guy above me said I dont wanna leave someone grieving

 

[Mayhaps]

I want to live as long as possible.

 

[Timberwolf0924]

I'd go after, because I'd like the last thing my lover to see would be me smiling down at her as we hold hands on her death bed. Then I think I will do something crazy so that.. [see spoiler]

 

[Bvenged]

I doubt I'll have a lifetime partner. Not that I'm displeasing, horrid, unappealing etc. But that I'm not looking for anything solid. I plan to see the world, do a lot of high-risk stuff, move around, do things that if I had a family, could hurt it. If I had kids I could screw up their social stigma by moving a lot. If I have a partner I might hurt them by getting shot in the military or something.

Also, I plan to never even die at all. But I'm just awesome enough to do that.

 

[Bloodstain]

After. Not because of selflessness...actually, because of selfishness. I want to make sure I have seen and known my partner until his or her death, and not die before.

 

[the darknees abyss]

i rather die befor so i would'ant have to deal with pain i'll let love one have deal with that crap

 

[dragonswarrior]

After.

She is more scared of being alone than I am. So... It'd be like my deathbed gift to her, to still be alive.

 

[Brandon237]

I want to die simultaneously.

Because that's just how I roll.

Damnit where was that one?!

That sounds best, I voted quickly and then thought about the fact that grief works for other people... damnit, change my vote to Hypotenuse!

This would be best and possibly most romantic, at the same time that is, not the third option O.O

 

[Heronblade]

Well dying before her would make it difficult to complete the act of sacrificing her to the dark gods for the sake of my own immortality, and... um, never mind

More seriously, either at the same time, or afterwards.

 

[manic_depressive13]

I want to die first because I would like my loved one to outlive me, preferably by a significant amount of time. Sure, it will be oh-so-hard for maybe the first few weeks, but it's a bit fucking arrogant to suggest that choosing for them to die before you would be sparing them pain. I'd rather spare them death.

 

[s0p0g]

don't they say ladies first?
i'm kind of old-fashioned regarding stuff like that, so please, after you, m'dear

 

[Xanthious]

I just want to die peacefully in my sleep like my grandpa. Not screaming and yelling like the passengers in his car.