Then I don't know what to tell you. I don't think you're racist, and I think anyone that thinks your racist because of that one little quirk is a moron. You don't have problems with black people in general, so I see no racism here. I'm not sure how to explain your feelings on black people dating people that aren't black though. I switched my major from psychology to sociology a little bit ago. XDnotsosavagemessiah said:that's just it, i know plenty of black people and have no issues with them or their families, and yet if it's somebody i don't know, i find it kind of repulsive, it's weird. Also, black people on their own don't bother me.MasterOfWorlds said:snip
My guess is still that a black person may have hurt someone you know. My guess is that they dated them and were abusive or something along those lines. A lot of times, feelings like these are formed long before we even realize what's going on. It goes a little deeper sometimes than a simple, "Your parents were racist therefor you are racist." Phobias and such are developed much the same way. If your parent (who, as a child, normally represents absolute power and authority), is bitten by a say a brown recluse or black widow spider and almost dies as a result, you're pretty likely to develop a phobia of spiders.
Of course, I could be wrong. You might just be subconsciuosly drawing off of the stereotypes of black people and their dating habits. I mean, let's face it, true or not, that stereotype isn't exactly flattering.