TKretts3 said:
Yes, my reasons are selfish. Yes, I am doing it purely out of my relation to which is dying. Yes, only self-gain would motivate me to save the stranger. Yes, I would still do exactly the same.
You seem to think of pets as completely different things than humans, things that people won't care about the loss of, and won't suffer when they die. An animal will suffer when drowning just as much as a human would. You also seem to think that one, lets say dog, is just as good as any dog. That simply isn't true. By spending time with said dog, raising it, caring for it, you grow a bond with it. If one dog truly is the same as any other dog then the same could be said for humans.
Just out of curiosity, you say that my feelings of guilt and loss are trivial, so then why is it that later on you attempt to guilt-trip me with a hypothetical life that the person has lives, or their family?
I don't think a dog's life is "completely different" I do deeply consider the similarities and the suffering of drowning will be severe for both, I abhor cruelty to animals, pain is as vivid and profound to a human, chimp or dog it's effects on each mind are ultimately indistinguishable. Pain is a fundamental thing, the simplest animals feels it profoundly as the WORST thing. Still, death as the antithesis of life is different for a human from a dog just as the life of a human is different from a dog. A dog's life is far from worthless, but I think we can agree if there are dozens of rats in your habitation you won't consider each of their several month-long lives that valuable.
But those are irrelevant if your motivation is selfishness, not altruism for their wellbeing.
Why the guilt trip? Because as you admit your loss for your pet is selfish self-pity at not having your dog any more. I am asking you to feel empathy for a being you aren't going to directly get anything out of. Why? Because if YOU were in the water, and you never had any reason or ability to help your saviour, wouldn't you want him to show some empathy? Empathy is what dragged us out of the stone age.
Empathy is what sociopaths like Ayn Rand didn't understand so mistrusted and railed against.
Empathy works for every living thing, really it's a matter of stepping out of your perspective without becoming detached, it is quite an amazing and unique ability of the human brain to perform the thought process of empathy, to think about someone else's thoughts. This is an amazingly influential cooperative ability.
All you say about raising a dog, that only shows how much YOU are attached to it. Not why it's life is more important.
Dogs don't do empathy, they do pack loyalty. That's the way their brains work, they are obedient, subservient and dependent. Man's best "friend" but that's not what a real friend is, a friend is a confidant, who will support you yet challenge you, give you the hard truths and talk things over. Dogs are smart, they'll drag their owners out of burning buildings... and they'll do this even if you beat them, even if you give them no love they will love you.
What life is there to save with a human compared to a dog.
I cannot say a dog's life is worthless, but you must consider that your dog likely only has a special connection with you and could only be with you and it would only ever have been for a short time. While a human has a special connection with dozens of people for a long life, with their parents, with their spouse, with their offspring, with their work, with their art, with their contribution to society in general.
Ideally both would be saved, the dog and the stranger, and you all get to pose for the local newspaper. But which life is most valuable.
But If I'm the winchman on a light rescue helicopter and we are loaded to stall capacity and there is your dog and a child (of the same weight as your dog) as the last few kilos to save before the wave comes... the kid is getting on and your dog is not.
Big question, would you get off the helicopter to stay and die with your dog, or would you get off and let your dog go on the helicopter his/her weight in your place so you'd die alone but your dog would live another few years?
If you think another human's life is less than a dog, is your own human life less than your dog?
I know, if my sister or my mother and I were to be one of the last people out of the jaws of death I'd ask the winchman to lie and tell her that I'd catch my sister on the next flight out.