So, a OPEN Relationship?Serenegoose said:
OT: Single. I dont give two shits about relationships anymore. More trouble then they're worth unless I meet someone I can bond with very well.
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OT: Single. I dont give two shits about relationships anymore. More trouble then they're worth unless I meet someone I can bond with very well.
I poll'd "Its complicated".
The reason for this was because I couldn't choose between 'sadly single' and 'single by choice'. The way I see it, and a way thats been complimented by friends of mine (both male and female), is that I won't put myself in a situation or relationship where I'm required to take care of a girl (emotionally, physically, financialy, all that good stuff associated with an intimate relationship) until I can take care of myself. For example, i'm currently out of work, unfit, and living with my parents. The prospect of an intimate relationship is currently pretty far down my priority list in terms of where I want to be in life. By this time next year though, I should be much closer to a lifestyle in which I would allow myself to look for a partner. Until then though, I've gotta focus on making myself someone worth being with for the sake of whomever that will be.
If that makes sense
The reason for this was because I couldn't choose between 'sadly single' and 'single by choice'. The way I see it, and a way thats been complimented by friends of mine (both male and female), is that I won't put myself in a situation or relationship where I'm required to take care of a girl (emotionally, physically, financialy, all that good stuff associated with an intimate relationship) until I can take care of myself. For example, i'm currently out of work, unfit, and living with my parents. The prospect of an intimate relationship is currently pretty far down my priority list in terms of where I want to be in life. By this time next year though, I should be much closer to a lifestyle in which I would allow myself to look for a partner. Until then though, I've gotta focus on making myself someone worth being with for the sake of whomever that will be.
If that makes sense
Single by choice.
Man, forget having a girlfriend to be happy. I tried that once, and the only thing I got out of it was a lighter wallet.
Man, forget having a girlfriend to be happy. I tried that once, and the only thing I got out of it was a lighter wallet.
Single. If I like someone I'll pursue some possibility of a relationship, if it exists, but there isn't really anyone like that in my life at the moment.
I'm single as there are no girls at my school who'd I'd ever consider going out with.
Simple as that.
Simple as that.
well it was bouncing between in a relationship and it's complicated until finally bam sadly single
but now, 7 months later, awesomely single
I could find a girl but I just don't have time between video games and this upcoming video thing but hey who knows I may be more free after October...mreh
but now, 7 months later, awesomely single
I could find a girl but I just don't have time between video games and this upcoming video thing but hey who knows I may be more free after October...mreh
"Sadly single"
However, I'm thinking of approaching this cute danish girl, and thanks to BonaiK's relationship thread, I'm pretty confident...
However, I'm thinking of approaching this cute danish girl, and thanks to BonaiK's relationship thread, I'm pretty confident...
Im gonna go with its complicated and actually explain what that means.
This girl and me have been like for lack of a better word "dating" for a while, where we go and do stuff together and shizzle or she comes over but we dont act like boyfriend and girlfriend. Mainly because she HAD an idiot boyfriend she wanted to break up with but didnt have the courage. Now she has broken up with him; it was hardly a clean break and shes kinda devastated by how bad it was. So even though she has some feelings for me and i have some for her we cant properly date yet because shes still recovering from her break up. Until then we can still do stuff together but not like officially as a boyfriend and girlfriend. I asked her out teh day before yesterday and she said "im thinking about it". So yeah a "maybe" constitutes as is complicated right? Kinda in limbo? Doing stuff with a girl where you both have feelings for eachother but you cant like properly be together because shes confused?
This girl and me have been like for lack of a better word "dating" for a while, where we go and do stuff together and shizzle or she comes over but we dont act like boyfriend and girlfriend. Mainly because she HAD an idiot boyfriend she wanted to break up with but didnt have the courage. Now she has broken up with him; it was hardly a clean break and shes kinda devastated by how bad it was. So even though she has some feelings for me and i have some for her we cant properly date yet because shes still recovering from her break up. Until then we can still do stuff together but not like officially as a boyfriend and girlfriend. I asked her out teh day before yesterday and she said "im thinking about it". So yeah a "maybe" constitutes as is complicated right? Kinda in limbo? Doing stuff with a girl where you both have feelings for eachother but you cant like properly be together because shes confused?
