Poll: You're a virgin, would you rather your first time be with another virgin or someone with experience?

[dobahci]

One thing that's great about girls who are experienced -- not all of them, but a lot -- they love to teach.

Oh yeah, that's totally a better situation. That's totally not awkward, embarrassing, or degrading. /sarcasm.

Honestly, it's not.

If it's someone you care about, and you're a virgin, they're probably delighted to get the chance to show you what they know. And you get to benefit from their experience, learning it from someone who isn't likely to judge you or have any expectations of you other than that you're willing to learn, and explore, and have fun.

What's the downside? I mean, I guess it could be pretty awkward if you're really insecure or something... but if you're comfortable with the person, it shouldn't be an issue. Obviously if they're a stranger, the situation would probably be pretty different.

 

[blackflare]

That is a good question.
They would both have there advantages and disadvantage
Seriously either way is a good choice but I choose both....

Being realistic though probably another virgin.

 

[HollaAtchABoi]

This topic has inspired my latest work:

Now sit with me and have a beer

I aint been a virgin in about ten years

My woman was a champ

Maybe a bit of a tramp

And it brought me great loads of cheer


-Holla

 

[Rooster893]

Obviously a virgin. I hate feeling inexperienced.

 

[infohippie]

Would you run a raid you'd never done before with an inexperienced leader?
There's your answer.

 

[alandavidson]

A simple question really: You're a virgin, and for some random-ass reason you've had bestowed upon you a great power, the power to choose whether you lose your virginity to some other virgin, or an experienced individual. They are identical in every other way.

Wait, we can't choose who we lose our virginity to if we haven't been granted a great power? I thought that was a big part of "growing up".

 

[Redd the Sock]

Two virgins in bed is one too many.

 

[camazotz]

Been there, done that. Experienced was the way to go.

 

[camazotz]

A simple question really: You're a virgin, and for some random-ass reason you've had bestowed upon you a great power, the power to choose whether you lose your virginity to some other virgin, or an experienced individual. They are identical in every other way.

Wait, we can't choose who we lose our virginity to if we haven't been granted a great power? I thought that was a big part of "growing up".

I just assumed it was a really, really lame superpower that precisely mimics a normal feature of life.

 

[camazotz]

Obviously a virgin. I hate feeling inexperienced.

You know, thinking back, the great thing about sex is that it's very instinctual, and if you're with an even vaguely patient partner its going to run a lot more smoothly than you would otherwise realize. And generally an experienced woman (talking from the male perspective here) is going to be a lot more patient and understanding with an inexperienced guy. Usually older women with younger men are getting hooked up for a reason, and the inexperience is part of the charm to them, it seems.

 

[IamLEAM1983]

It absolutely doesn't matter to me. If I like the person enough to have sex with her and she likes me enough to have sex with me, then odds are we'll be willing to put any bumps in the road aside (such as virginity) and get on with it.

Being a virgin myself, I really wouldn't care if I had an experienced teacher to guide me along or someone who's just as green as I am. The fact that this would be my first time would make the experience pretty damn significant on its own, and I'd have faith in my partner to cut me some slack.

I don't want to be inconsiderate towards the OP or anything, but stupid poll is stupid. At least, in my very humble opinion. The only instance where I'd say virginity matters as an issue is if you're the virgin and are stupid or insecure enough to lie about it. Then you're setting your partner up for disappointment, as he/she might start out expecting a performance on par with someone who's had one or two previous relationships.

 

[Blindswordmaster]

I HAVE A CHOICE?!

 

[Simskiller]

Don't care, just want to get laid.

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