Project S.M.I.L.E

[Insane_Foxx]

wow... you people get creeped out easily. I can see it now

*on a bus*
Random Guy: "wow, you're really beautiful" heads off the bus
Girl: "uch... what a creep"

Keep at it ^.^ worse comes to worse, they stay in a lousy mood, and you'll have the occasional one who isn't creeped out, and you helped brighten their day ^.^

 

[Blueruler182]

I don't see anything bad coming of it. Maybe we could start trusting more if people weren't so paranoid of complements, and it needs to start somewhere. I'm a little saddened that so many people on this forum are so paranoid... makes me feel less special...

I try and compliment my friends every now and then, a nice shirt, new hair, not walking funny after having too many drinks the night before, but when it comes to strangers I wont complement them unless we've started a conversation. I think it helps just not be rude outright, since so many people will be to avoid the conversation.

 

[Nouw]

Sorry, I have tried to read it over and over again but I do not understand what I'm supposed to do. Could some tell me please? I respect that you can't speak English properly but I just can't read it.

Something about giving random people compliments I think?

 

[Super Toast]

*starting rant*
(sorry for bad english)

Ive been thinking about how we all want attension in some way or another.
I dont know about ur county, but inn mine (norway) giving compliments, asking someone out or just saying hello to a stranger without beeing 2 beers away from alcohol poisening is something that aint gona happend.

Well am basicly thinking: how will ppl react to some random attension?

Now i just wana start with saying i have no problem with giving a dude a compliment, BUT i dont think (norway atleast) are ready for that just yeat, me beeing a dude and all. I dont wana get punched in the head or get the "ok hes gay" look.

So the basics are to just stop random girls that i happend to walk past on my way to work etc. and say something like:
"exuse me, i could not happend to notice you and i gota say, ur quite beautiful,
have a nice day."

So far (tryed doing this for about 6 months now) its been a mix of laughter/suprise/happyness.

Am not doing it to meet girls btw, that would kinda defeat the purpose, i dont want them to sit back and think: "oh he just said that to get ny number."

I started this beacuse i wanted to be able to make ppl smile and to se how i could affect others. Now the fun fact is that its allso affected me quite allot. I used to be the quite type and got really tense around girls. But now... i can walk up to any girl i want.
Fun to think about how ive changed to.

I think this will raise the girls self-esteem, what do YOU think?
(am 26 btw)

*end rant*

I'm sorry, but that was painful to read. Please use the spell checker.

 

[Beastking]

Am not surprised of what am reading,
as i say its not exactly normal to do this in most contrys.
But i promise you, 9/10 girls so far are walking on with a smile on there face.
Yes 1 of 9 get the "creepy face." Stil wourth it ^^

Looks like you think i dedicate allot of time for this. I dont, as i said its just walking to work or at the train/buss. I dont look at this like somekinda job, am gona do this all my life, it makes me feel good to. And yes i do check if there with there boyfriends hehehe.

The post started out ugly with allot of parainoia but it got lighter down the road, thx to all the ppl who "got it."

I acctualy beleve i read somewhere that i could be expecting jail time for this?

This just show how non-sosial we are now a days ^^