Now, I know Buffy isn't everyone's cuppa tea and that's quite understandable. But I think most people who hate the show never really watched it, apart from a cursory glance that wouldn't do the series justice. At any rate, it is, in my opinion, one of the best coming of age stories made for television and for me personally it's wrapped in nostalgia, since the series got me through my teen years. I grew up watching the show.
So, hell, I'm biased. It may not be the best series ever, hell, it's not even Whedon's best show, but for me, it's the best tv show ever made, never mind it's occasional lapses in quality and the fact that it was probably dragged out for too long. It's not that the later seasons were all that worse, it's that the first three seasons and the rest of the series are almost like two different shows. But I loved it every bit until the end. The final season was kinda odd. It had a couple of great episodes, a fitting epic arc and everything came full circle. It was time for Buffy to end. And not only because of the fact that it'd ran it's course and, like Buffy, I'd grown up but because there was a distinct feeling that the writers and the cast wanted to move on too. They'd been doing it for a while and as the series was about to end you'd think they'd pull all the crazy ideas out of the drawer that might have been previously discarded for whatever reason.
But they didn't. Buffy went rather gently to that good night. Yeah, there were the comics and such but they never really felt right. They went too far from the original idea and where they didn't it just felt like a re-hash. I enjoy Whedon's other stuff and the legacy he left behind. I have all the DVDs and if they ever do a proper Bluray release with a decent retrospective documentary, I'm gonna get that too. But I'm kinda torn about Twilight and such. Yeah, you can clearly see that they've taken their cues from Buffy and while I can imagine that if I was thirteen (and a girl, maybe) I would enjoy them. Maybe it's that I'm an adult now but I can't shake the feeling that Twilight and the other romantisized vampire offerings since Buffy suffer from a lack of decent, innovative writing and a slightly misjudged tone. Yes, Buffy was always about the end of the world and doomed love -- or how at least that's what life feels like for a teenager -- and how time changes those attitudes. But there was a certain humour and quirkiness that got lost in translation, I think, along the way, when people started doing these "new" versions of Buffy. Not that Buffy's idea was completely original but it managed to take its ideas and mix them into something fresh and engaging, a bit like Star Wars did a long time ago in a galaxy far away.
As for the Buffy movie... I dunno. Certainly, whether it's made or not, will not take anything away from my fond memories of the series. I guess it's just that if it sucks and it probably will, I'll feel that people who haven't really seen the show will think it was shit too. But that might be moot, since few of those people would go back and watch the series anyway. I suppose it's a bit of a child of its time, it's very much late 90s, turn of the millenium TV drama; a seminal show that I think paved to way for the current wave of more "respectable" drama to a greater degree than most people realize.