I haven't watched any of Anita Sarkeesian's videos since the damsel in distress ones so I don't really know what she's said since but in what I saw she never stated that games would make men go out and rape/kill/beat women or even that playing games only had an effect on men.
Her primary argument is that video games perpetuate negate gender stereotypes and the continual reinforcement of those stereotypes does have the ability to subtly influence how people (the gals and the guys) think about the roles of men and women in society and their capabilities in those roles.
I did see the one where she discussed domestic violence in relation to video game violence against women and it was really poorly explained/linked however what I got from it was that it was less about causing players to actually go out and hit/kill women and more about propagating the notion that (women) could "deserve it"/"were asking for it". Even then I kind of think it's a pretty tenuous link but still not a "monkey see, monkey do" argument, like those of Thompson.
Her primary argument is that video games perpetuate negate gender stereotypes and the continual reinforcement of those stereotypes does have the ability to subtly influence how people (the gals and the guys) think about the roles of men and women in society and their capabilities in those roles.
I did see the one where she discussed domestic violence in relation to video game violence against women and it was really poorly explained/linked however what I got from it was that it was less about causing players to actually go out and hit/kill women and more about propagating the notion that (women) could "deserve it"/"were asking for it". Even then I kind of think it's a pretty tenuous link but still not a "monkey see, monkey do" argument, like those of Thompson.