You should just tell people what you really enjoy doing in your spare time, you might be suprised by how many people will positively relate to you, never think about how people might think of you, just be proud to be you, fuck everyone else. Not like I'm some kinda psychologist or anything, but I've been reclusive myself because after a string of bad social experiences I decided I wasn't like other people and nobody would be interested in my boring hobbies, then one day I decided it wasn't getting me anywhere, sitting alone watching the world for 6 or so years, so I just decided to be me, and fuck the world, now I have friends and an active dating life, and yes I am a gamer, I like geeky movies, and all that stuff but if you are you, and make it a challenge to yourself to be awesome in the way you are, to learn new things or try new things, or experience things you at first think you won't like, just cuz you haven't done it before... I'm gonna stop now, I'm doing it again, but seriously, if you want advice, or whatever just ask me, I've been through hell, I don't expect to ever be in "heaven" but if you take charge you can change your own hell by adding air fresheners and nice curtains and a sofa, and all that... or something fuck it's all about perspective, not changing you, but changing how you see you, and how you see others, it in turn changes how others see you, and makes life better...Vault101 said:it used to be
so what are doing/going to do..I hated it, the most stress inducing horible question ever and the most common one to be asked
its ok now...now I just say "this is my job, its an interesting as it sounds" (ie: not very)
I guess now its
what hobbies do you have/what do you like to do...
"ummmm..I errrr " [small/] Im also an A-social person who really has absolutly nothing to say about what she does because from your perspective I do ABOLUTLY NOTHING in my spare time...because Im pretty sure action figures and comics doesnt count for much in your eyes...which is fine I just dont want to bore you wit the detials, I know you wont understand or be interested .....I supose and I should try and fix that but whenever I get out an offer to go/do somthing I know I wont enjoy it and Im sick of having to do things I dont want to do all my life..so now I dont, and the freinds I used to have I think "what do I have in common with thease people?" not much..not much at all...but thats no excuse because I still might enjoy their company if only I could re-connect but HOW do you do that?? do I really want to? have they forget I exist? so instead I say[/I] [/small]
"I like movies...shopping, reading that kind of thing"
On topic, I hate being asked what kind of music I like, or what my favourite food is, THERE'S SO MANY!