This is going to end up being semantics, because what is legally justifiable isn't necessarily what is morally justifiable. It just ends up being an argument about what "justice" and "justified" means.
If my daughter was killed, I would consider it morally justifiable to kill the murderer, even if it would be against the law and not legally justifiable. I imagine that's what the other poster thinks, too.
Proper "justice" is only what the society as a majority deems is appropriate for the crime. Some countries they just cut off the thief's hand and be done with it. Barbaric? maybe, But I tell ya it sure cuts down on prison costs.
Some would say giving criminals free room, board, and 24-hour babysitting is the real crime.
I think it's pretty obvious that this guy didn't even see the movie. He clearly has no idea that a tazer was involved. Just point out that there WAS a tazer and that his argument doesn't hold water for this movie for that reason, and then let it go. Eesh. Alternately, just call him sexist and leave it at that. Don't combine the two: It makes you look bad, like responding to a kid asking about Santa with a slap to the face, comparatively-speaking.
But both would be true. He wouldn't know the situation well AND he'd be sexist because even if the situation was as he thought it might be, that's still a disgustingly sexist comment. And it's not responding to a kid asking about Santa, he's not at all innocent.
They were acting as if he knew that a tazer was involved. He was sexist, absolutely, but they were assuming that he knew about the tazer instead of just telling him about it.
My analogy sucked, but the point still stands that they were attaching to the tazor bit as if he knew about it instead of attacking his sexism or his ignorance of the tazor.
Fluffythepoo said:
chadachada123 said:
This is going to end up being semantics, because what is legally justifiable isn't necessarily what is morally justifiable. It just ends up being an argument about what "justice" and "justified" means.
If my daughter was killed, I would consider it morally justifiable to kill the murderer, even if it would be against the law and not legally justifiable. I imagine that's what the other poster thinks, too.
Why is rape okay as long as it happens to a "bad guy?" I simply don't buy that premise. It fucking hurts (I'd imagine), in addition to all of the other things that would happen to a person's psyche. You can't rape in self defense. She did it for her own masochistic pleasure. Next will we have a movie where the protagonist is a prison rapist, but it's "okay" because he only assaults convicted rapists? And the movie sees it as justified and we're supposed to be on that character's side?
In that same review he noted the american version of the film didn't so much depict her as some kind of superhero, but as a person with serious issues. That's what she is in the book.
What if i rephrased it as "a father killed your daughter after your daughter murdered his son?"
glchicks said:
People would have no desire to loot the rich because under my system, the rich would be paying their fair share of taxes, taxes that go to fund schools and healthcare, for equal opportunities and a decent standard of living. Minimum wage is currently worse financially for the worker than slave labor, it is not a liveable wage, it is not enough to support families, or god forbid if someone cant afford insurance and they end up getting cancer, their whole family goes into debt forever. All we see is "lower taxes on the rich so theyll create jobs" my ass, weve been doing that for the past 30 years, where are the fucking jobs bush and obama? Time to crank those taxes to the max, boo hoo if the elite can only hire 15 strippers for their next yacht party instead of 30
Without taking emotion into account, I'd say that at that point, our families would be even, and there'd be no sense in seeking revenge if my daughter was at fault to begin with.
I'd hope that I'd be able to keep that thought in my head if the situation ever arose. Edit: But first I would need to have a daughter.
So, I just watched the Girl With the Dragon Tattoo (the American version) and I didn't like it. Granted, I never got bored and it was really well photographed, but I can't shake the feeling that that was an incredible waste of time and a sense of shock that so many people like it. I had no idea what was going on until about the last thirty minutes. All of the investigation stuff was sifting through photos and names of people I had no reference point for, and basically the case hinged on two pictures that apparently had such an obvious correlation that two characters figured it out separately on their own.
But before this turns into a user review / rant and before the dozens of people shouting that the book / other movie were way better, there's one point of contention in this movie that bugged the hell out of me. There's about 15 to 20 minutes of this lengthy 2 hour 36 minute movie devoted to a detailed rape and revenge sequence. I have no idea why it's there, I don't know how it serves the plot, I don't know why it was as explicit as it was, and I don't know why people haven't called bullshit on it yet. For those who haven't seen it
Lisbeth Salander is a computer hacker working for various companies under the table. She gets her money from a trust fund and dresses like a person who might do drugs or have trouble with the law. She has to go to "some guy" to declare her mentally competent and he precedes to ask her to perform oral sex on him to get her money. She agrees. Later, she goes to his apartment, where he handcuffs her to a bed, and as the movie makes sure to tell us, anally rapes her on screen. For some reason, the guy tries to be all nice and friendly afterwards like he doesn't know what he just did. She plans for a little bit and goes back to his apartment. He tries to "apologize" or something and she tasers him. She then handcuffs him, anally rapes him with a glass dildo, and says that she'll blackmail him with secret footage she took of the rape. Then, she tattoos "rapist pig" on his body.
So, how is she any less of a rapist than the guy who raped her? Theoretically, the guy could easily call the cops and they'd both go to jail for a really long time. Isn't rape categorically wrong and a crime no matter who commits it to who? Why does this beloved (from what I've seen online) character get let off the hook? One could argue that he "deserved" it or was "asking for it," but by definition, no one deserves or asks for rape. It's not possible. It feels pretty despicable and disgusting to paint that act of violence as justifiable, which I'm pretty sure this movie does. Maybe I'm weird and looking at it the wrong way, but it feels fucked up.
Honestly, I didnt see the movies but I can tell you what I read from the book. She deperately needed access to her money and did not so much agree to the oral sex as much as she didnt say anything or resist. In turn, she was planning on blackmailing him afterwards by secretly filming him next time he abused her. But, instead of oral sex, he brutally anally raped her. It took her weeks to physically and emotionally recover. She decides to do what she does not because he is a rapist, but because he is a sadist who enjoyed causing women pain. The sexual assault she was going to use to gain the upper hand in their relationship, it was the brutality and sadism that pushed her over the edge.
I dont personally feel for him. He attacked her because he thought she was retarded and wouldnt know how or where to get help. He literally thought she was retarded and therefore abused her violently, which is far more despicable than mere rape.
So, how is she any less of a rapist than the guy who raped her? Theoretically, the guy could easily call the cops and they'd both go to jail for a really long time. Isn't rape categorically wrong and a crime no matter who commits it to who? Why does this beloved (from what I've seen online) character get let off the hook? One could argue that he "deserved" it or was "asking for it," but by definition, no one deserves or asks for rape. It's not possible. It feels pretty despicable and disgusting to paint that act of violence as justifiable, which I'm pretty sure this movie does. Maybe I'm weird and looking at it the wrong way, but it feels fucked up.
He raped her in the ass, literally handcuffed and raped her in the ass. I dont get the disconnect here, she was 100% justified in taking her revenge. Are you the kind of person who does wrong and expects the victim to just take it and shut up? I just dont understand your point of view at all.
At a guess, I'm going to say his point of view is, "So my mom lied to me, and two wrongs do make a right? It's okay to rape someone as long as he raped you first? So if someone got drunk and killed my wife in a car wreck, it would be okay for me to go run over his wife because he did it first?"
Your analogy is totally irrelevant, if my wife got killed by a drunk driver, my beef would be with the driver, not his wife. If america kills my family with a drone strike, then I will spend my life getting revenge.
If someone rapes me in the ass, then I WANT FUCKING JUSTICE, and justice is to give him his own medicine, so that the ************ knows what its like to be on the recieving end. What if you got raped in the ass by some sweaty fat clown huh? What would you do? Write him a sternly worded letter?
No, Justice would be a trial by jury and a jail sentence. What you're suggesting isn't Justice, it's iron age barbarism. I get you're going for this "I'm a tough guy thing" and fine that's up to you but don't try and twist your lynch mob mentality into Justice.
Lynch mob my ass, how is one person getting revenge for something that 100% without a doubt happened to her a lynch mob mentality? Jesus what hole are these rapist apologists coming from. It seems to me many of you are defending the rapist on some perceived inequality between man rape and woman rape cases. While that may exist, it doesnt excuse the rape of women because many people dont treat rape of men by women as seriously.
Are you dense? No really, how do you get "rape apologist" from "we should follow the law and not act like fucking animals"? Where did I defend the Rapist? If you checked the original post I made you'd see I'd have them both locked up. It doesn't fucking matter what your reasons are, a crime is a crime even if it's committed against a criminal and it must be dealt with accordingly. There's a reason vigilantism is outlawed and only works in comic books.
Rape is rape, it doesn't matter who it happens to. While no court in a civilized society would give Lisbeth the maximum sentence due to trauma affecting her judgement she should still be punished. No one gets a free pass.
So, I just watched the Girl With the Dragon Tattoo (the American version) and I didn't like it. Granted, I never got bored and it was really well photographed, but I can't shake the feeling that that was an incredible waste of time and a sense of shock that so many people like it. I had no idea what was going on until about the last thirty minutes. All of the investigation stuff was sifting through photos and names of people I had no reference point for, and basically the case hinged on two pictures that apparently had such an obvious correlation that two characters figured it out separately on their own.
But before this turns into a user review / rant and before the dozens of people shouting that the book / other movie were way better, there's one point of contention in this movie that bugged the hell out of me. There's about 15 to 20 minutes of this lengthy 2 hour 36 minute movie devoted to a detailed rape and revenge sequence. I have no idea why it's there, I don't know how it serves the plot, I don't know why it was as explicit as it was, and I don't know why people haven't called bullshit on it yet. For those who haven't seen it
Lisbeth Salander is a computer hacker working for various companies under the table. She gets her money from a trust fund and dresses like a person who might do drugs or have trouble with the law. She has to go to "some guy" to declare her mentally competent and he precedes to ask her to perform oral sex on him to get her money. She agrees. Later, she goes to his apartment, where he handcuffs her to a bed, and as the movie makes sure to tell us, anally rapes her on screen. For some reason, the guy tries to be all nice and friendly afterwards like he doesn't know what he just did. She plans for a little bit and goes back to his apartment. He tries to "apologize" or something and she tasers him. She then handcuffs him, anally rapes him with a glass dildo, and says that she'll blackmail him with secret footage she took of the rape. Then, she tattoos "rapist pig" on his body.
So, how is she any less of a rapist than the guy who raped her? Theoretically, the guy could easily call the cops and they'd both go to jail for a really long time. Isn't rape categorically wrong and a crime no matter who commits it to who? Why does this beloved (from what I've seen online) character get let off the hook? One could argue that he "deserved" it or was "asking for it," but by definition, no one deserves or asks for rape. It's not possible. It feels pretty despicable and disgusting to paint that act of violence as justifiable, which I'm pretty sure this movie does. Maybe I'm weird and looking at it the wrong way, but it feels fucked up.
He raped her in the ass, literally handcuffed and raped her in the ass. I dont get the disconnect here, she was 100% justified in taking her revenge. Are you the kind of person who does wrong and expects the victim to just take it and shut up? I just dont understand your point of view at all.
I imagine his point of view is that if someone does something terrible, even as revenge for something equally terrible, it's still TERRIBLE. You can't just lose all sympathy for another person because they did something wrong, no matter how wrong it was. That sympathy is exactly what made you think it was wrong in the first place, which is why this stupid eye for an eye logic doesn't work.
He raped her in the ass, literally handcuffed and raped her in the ass. I dont get the disconnect here, she was 100% justified in taking her revenge. Are you the kind of person who does wrong and expects the victim to just take it and shut up? I just dont understand your point of view at all.
I'm assuming that, if the same events happened, but in reverse order, you'd be cheering for the guy, yes?
If you wouldn't (and you likely wouldn't), then that's his point. Double standards. Alternatively, he wants to know why there were two rapes in the first place.
Your assumption is a mistake, I would absolutely be rooting for the guy. However its important to note that it would be wrong to rape her back with his own dick, he would have to use an apparatus like she did.
yes, Id love to see how you work your way out of being tazered to the point of unconciousness...tied up, beaten....and then have a metal plug shoved up your ass
since your aparently not "pathetic and weak" I'm sure you'd handle it just fine...
I'll send someone over to your house later with a taser and see what you say about it then, OK?
I mean, you know what tasers DO, right? They aren't things you shrug off, they're devices that turn your limbs to jelly, pull your muscles incredibly tight, overload your nervous system and even stop your heart if you have heart troubles. You get hit with a taser, you fall down. That's just what happens. Then you're stunned for several seconds, and the assailant can do whatever.
Unless you're magically immune to this, but quite frankly, I'd like to see you taser yourself before I'll believe that.
I think it's pretty obvious that this guy didn't even see the movie. He clearly has no idea that a tazer was involved. Just point out that there WAS a tazer and that his argument doesn't hold water for this movie for that reason, and then let it go. Eesh. Alternately, just call him sexist and leave it at that. Don't combine the two: It makes you look bad, like responding to a kid asking about Santa with a slap to the face, comparatively-speaking.
There's about 15 to 20 minutes of this lengthy 2 hour 36 minute movie devoted to a detailed rape and revenge sequence. I have no idea why it's there, I don't know how it serves the plot, I don't know why it was as explicit as it was, and I don't know why people haven't called bullshit on it yet.
I haven't seen the American version. But I've seen the original film and I know exactly the part you mean.
In the original film, no immediate aftermath to the anal rape is shown. So we don't get the part about him acting nice. And when she shows up to his house to get revenge, he makes a strong suggestion that he's expecting her to have sex with him again. So no hints at all that he's anything other than a completely evil man. As well as sticking a dildo in his arse and tattooing him, she also forces him to watch the footage she took of her being raped.
Yeah, I wasn't sure what the point of that entire sequence (and the graphic nature of it) was either, except possibly to set her up as a bit of a screwed-up individual. Or maybe it's a revenge fantasy for victims of rape. *shrugs*
I saw the original film in the cinema with my boyfriend, mother and grandmother. My mother and grandmother had read the book. My boyfriend and I hadn't. It was a bit uncomfortable.
On a positive note: I don't know if it made it into the American version, but the original film also strongly implies that she's bisexual (I seem to recall we see her naked getting out of a bed that has another woman in it). This appears to have no plot relevance whatsoever, giving the film/book (depending on whether that was in the book) a big tick for including a bisexual character without it being either plot required or an excuse for a girl-on-girl sex scene.
Haven't seen the American version... Swedish with subtitles for me. Is she less of a rapist than him? I'd say so. She did it for revenge, she's not the type who instigates that sort of thing. Still, she did rape him, so I guess that technically makes her a rapist, even if it was an act of pure retribution.
Still, less of one. Had he not raped her, she wouldn't have even considered such a thing.
I imagine his point of view is that if someone does something terrible, even as revenge for something equally terrible, it's still TERRIBLE. You can't just lose all sympathy for another person because they did something wrong, no matter how wrong it was. That sympathy is exactly what made you think it was wrong in the first place, which is why this stupid eye for an eye logic doesn't work.
Sure you can lose all sympathy for another person if said person does something horrible first.
Say for example you see a girl getting raped, a person steps in and beats the rapist to a pulp, will you step in and defend the rapist? Will you make the rapist to a victim?
Do you know what characterisation is? This particular segment establishes a fairly defining characteristic of Lisbeth and her methods and ability to respond to things. She is also not meant to be terribly sympathetic at this point in the story.
Also how fucked up are you that you sympathise with the guy who thinks it's okay to rape an apparently simple girl under his care?
Why is rape okay as long as it happens to a "bad guy?" I simply don't buy that premise. It fucking hurts (I'd imagine), in addition to all of the other things that would happen to a person's psyche. You can't rape in self defense. She did it for her own masochistic pleasure. Next will we have a movie where the protagonist is a prison rapist, but it's "okay" because he only assaults convicted rapists? And the movie sees it as justified and we're supposed to be on that character's side?
At no point is it meant to be justified, she's meant to seem like more than a little dangerously okay with doing horrible things to people, particularly anyone she thinks has wronged her. If the next two are made the second with re enforce that idea and reveal why she thinks the way she does.
Do you know what characterisation is? This particular segment establishes a fairly defining characteristic of Lisbeth and her methods and ability to respond to things. She is also not meant to be terribly sympathetic at this point in the story.
Also how fucked up are you that you sympathise with the guy who thinks it's okay to rape an apparently simple girl under his care?
I'm not sympathising with her, she's deliberately unsympathetic, what she does is disproportionate in the extreme and shows some serious level of being fucked up that she shrugs it off the way she does. The point is to establish this short of behaviour in her, not as a revenge fantasy.
The whole movie was kind of a bummer, but I actually enjoyed the rape scene. Honestly, I felt more sad at the end when she rides off on her motorcycle than I did watching the rape scene. Which is kinda something I didn't want to admit, but I'm glad I didn't see it in theaters--I'd have had to leave early. I don't know, I've never been able to take rape seriously in movies. It's a horrible, despicable thing to do no doubt, but I know I'm watching a movie, I know it's fake, and... well... Rooney Mara has a... how can I put this...
...anyway... I think it served a purpose. It set her up as a ruthless, eye-for-an-eye, kinda girl. I don't think we're supposed to see her as a "Hero." I see her more as a damaged, lesser evil, anti-hero.
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