Realtionships u just wanna say F-OFF

[RaphaelsRedemption]

What relationships?

I know I can count real lfe "friends" on the fingers of one hand.

Partially this is my fault, I suppose. I have standards. I will be there 100% for them, always, and while I understand there are degrees of closeness in friendships, I do not see the use in continuing relationships that are essentially defunct. So if I don't hear from someone in 6 months, they are finished as far as I am concerned.

Thius has led to my bi-yearly "Facebook cull" where I track people, see if they have bothered to comment in the past half year, and if they haven't, I delete them.

I mean, how hard is it to press the "like" button on someone's status once in 6 months?

 

[Kouen]

what relationships dont want you to say f-off once and a while... hell that's part of the whole package!

 

[Yureina]

Not really. I have some people I *think* about telling to go away, but at the same time I know that I would regret saying that, especially in such strong terms. I'm just waiting for a moment where I can -sort of- say it, but without them getting offended.

 

[Silver1Wolf2]

Heh 2 years of being the plaything of a girl, didn't get any either, other guys did but when inevitably those guys turned out to be jerks I had to drop everything (relationships included) for her only to be left high and dry when the next asshole came along... that went on for quite some time before she hooked up with a guy I also know (ironically I met the dude while hanging with her one day) and unlike previous boyfriends this guy was up to specs so to say and what does she do? First week she tells me and a mutual (female) friend she'd break up with him if something better came along... she'd pull me along each time both of them went out (weird, I know)... by the 3 week marker in their relationship that mutual friend told me "you know you two love each other but have trouble being together, right?" and I got the sneaking suspicion she was reproducing something that girl told her... week 5... was eating something, bout half way through... she calls.. she wants to hang out with me (just me)... "can't right now, I'll be out in like 30-45 min" "no, right now." suffice to say me not being a lap dog was grounds for a argument... 2 weeks later I apologized (God knows for what) and when she was like "yeah, whatever" I realized she was indeed playing me so I told her to f-off...among other things...quite a few things actually... (now I woulda never did that had I not seen how she was treating the other guy she was still with at that current time, this guy was an honest to goodness good guy, bit weird but a stand up guy and made me realize she'd play me all the same if I ever was to actually get with her and not be her toy)

 

[superbatranger]

The only one I can think of is the relationship I had with my dad. After all the things he had done, I had no choice but to cut off all contact with him.

 

[Hurray Forums]

Only one is my sister. She told our parents I was raping her, to this day I still have no idea why. Nothing really came of it because my sister makes shit up all the time and I ripped her story to shreds(seriously, if you're going to accuse someone of something at least take the time to think up a story that makes an ounce of sense) but having to put up with her just makes me want to scream. Of course I can't actually confront her or tell her what a ***** she is or she would probably make up some new story or go tell someone who doesn't know her well enough to see through her bullshit.

 

[crazypsyko666]

Let's just say that I hope I never run into any of my exes ever again.

 

[RootbeerJello]

Not too long ago this whole drama happened between my two best friends. They went out for a short time, then broke up since they were totally incompatible. As in, it really could never work between them. The guy just kind of shook it off and went back to life, but the girl ended up spending most of the time complaining to me about how the guy was being totally unreasonable, and if I disagreed she would freak out. Then she'd try going out with someone else, say how happy she was to be over the old guy, then break up with the new guy because she still loves the old guy, realize he doesn't give a shit and that's why they broke up, and come back whining to me. Cycle repeats. I might have been fine with this, except that despite how hopeless she was I really liked her at the time. And she would flirt with me all the time. I just sort of went with it even though I knew the next day there would be absolutely no mention of it. We drifted apart after a while, and it was better between us for a short time. Then she kept saying how we never talked anymore, even though every time we talked it led back to the same cycle. Eventually I absolutely flipped my shit on her.

Also, on a less depressing note, I happen to be the target of that guy who thinks everyone loves him and he's hilarious and friends with everyone, except I know three of him and they all suck to varying degrees. One is pretty funny usually but never knows when to shut the hell up. The second one can tell a funny joke once in a while, and he's a pretty nice guy overall, but he's also that guy who quotes family guy and doesn't stop talking about dragon force. The third one is a racist, verbally agressive compulsive lying attention whore who's obsessed with cross-country skiing.

 

[AquaAscension]

Yup. And I guess I pretty much did. And since then he hasn't talked to me, haven't seen or heard from him at all actually XD. Good thing I guess, I was tired of listening to him complain about how horrible his life was and how everyone should feel soooo sorry for him. Like being with me was a fucking curse. Come on, you don't complain about hating everything in your life to your friends, that doesn't make us feel good about being with you!

Augh, the sun just started rising above the mountain and it's in my eyes. Should go to bed now XD.

People like that need to grow up. A lot.

OT: My roommate. He's finally moving out, and I want to tell him that he used to be cooler before he installed his new ego 9000 with new and improved super thin skin. His head is a balloon, even tiny negative comments are pins. He pops with the slightest wrong phrase, but thinks he's got everything figured out ever. I want to write him a letter expressing how terribly not good at everything he really is, but realize that it really won't actually help. He'll just get offended, figure that it's all in my head, and move on through the world causing massive amounts of static electricity to build up with his ego-balloon head until he comes to a shocking realization when he finally grounds himself in reality.

People will often tell me to F-off with their eyes after I say a pun like that last one.

 

[Guitarmasterx7]

No, I don't have any, because if I ever want to end a relationship with someone, I will. Unless that person is my boss or something.

Then again, I'm a sociopath. Maybe you "normal" people have some reason for not doing so yourselves.

 

[ultrachicken]

There's this REALLY annoying person I know who acts like he's a 6 year old. He seriously bites me and my friends whenever we do anything remotely mean to him. And there's plenty of reason to be mean to him.
He has a habit of poking people nonstop. He makes weird noises just to annoy me. He either takes off our hoods (even when raining) or steals our hats. He's a hypocrite in almost every way possible.
The reason I haven't told him to f off? All of my other friends accept him, hell, they even like him. I can't actually break off my "friendship" without going through all of my other friends.

 

[Corpse XxX]

Yup. And I guess I pretty much did. And since then he hasn't talked to me, haven't seen or heard from him at all actually XD. Good thing I guess, I was tired of listening to him complain about how horrible his life was and how everyone should feel soooo sorry for him. Like being with me was a fucking curse. Come on, you don't complain about hating everything in your life to your girlfriend, that doesn't make us feel good about being with you!

Augh, the sun just started rising above the mountain and it's in my eyes. Should go to bed now XD.

I completely agree, all that moaning makes both parties feel down and useless..
And the constant "threat" that they're gonna kill themselves makes relations a living nightmare, cause they make it feel as though it is your fault that their life is shit..
After 2 years of it, i just had to close my eyes and leave it all behind, could not take it anymore..

I might be mistaken but are you not suppose to wake up and start the day when the sun rises?

 

[Vampire cat]

I completely agree, all that moaning makes both parties feel down and useless..
And the constant "threat" that they're gonna kill themselves makes relations a living nightmare, cause they make it feel as though it is your fault that their life is shit..
After 2 years of it, i just had to close my eyes and leave it all behind, could not take it anymore..

I might be mistaken but are you not suppose to wake up and start the day when the sun rises?

Yeah. I'm actually quite pleased that I don't know whats going on with him, and if he's alive or not. Feels great to not have to worry any more!

And waking up at sun rise is for fools! HAH! ... ... I'm ill, so I've been at home for the past few days =p. Ended up watching 24 all night Oo. Warming up for when the 8th season comes out on DvD so I can watch it in one go, and I do so by seeing all seasons, I'm at season 6 episode 11 now^^.

 

[HaraDaya]

Currently I have some issues with my dad constantly acting as a babysitter for me when it's not needed. I'm 20 and still living with my parents. Can't wait to move out.

Some years ago I broke up with ex-girlfriend for being extremely (hahaha, ex) needy to the point where it just got plain annoying. She got mad if my attention wasn't focused on her, and being a gamer and all, I was often found hanging out with other gamers doing our thing. Thing that made me broke up however, was because I found out she mostly liked me for my looks, and not much else. Screw that, I've been picky as hell with girls since then. I don't do shallow relationships. Not worth the effort and time.

 

[Corpse XxX]

I completely agree, all that moaning makes both parties feel down and useless..
And the constant "threat" that they're gonna kill themselves makes relations a living nightmare, cause they make it feel as though it is your fault that their life is shit..
After 2 years of it, i just had to close my eyes and leave it all behind, could not take it anymore..

I might be mistaken but are you not suppose to wake up and start the day when the sun rises?

Yeah. I'm actually quite pleased that I don't know whats going on with him, and if he's alive or not. Feels great to not have to worry any more!

And waking up at sun rise is for fools! HAH! ... ... I'm ill, so I've been at home for the past few days =p. Ended up watching 24 all night Oo. Warming up for when the 8th season comes out on DvD so I can watch it in one go, and I do so by seeing all seasons, I'm at season 6 episode 11 now^^.

If i am not mistaken, one season of 24 last for 24 hours? Therefor going to the conclusion that when season 8 comes out, you would have watched 8 days of continous Kiefer Sutherland?
Not sure, but that cant be healthy

 

[Vampire cat]

If i am not mistaken, one season of 24 last for 24 hours? Therefor going to the conclusion that when season 8 comes out, you would have watched 8 days of continous Kiefer Sutherland?
Not sure, but that cant be healthy

Can NEVER get enough Kiefer Suthland! NEVER *fan-girlish madness gleams in my eyes*! I miss Tony though, I'll be so happy when I'm done with season 6 and get to watch season 7, cause he's in it^^.