Reconciling Adulthood with Gaming

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Eclectic Dreck

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Dirty Apple said:
NeutralDrow said:
Prioritize your kid, make time for both if you can. Depending on your tastes, you can even indoctrinate introduce them when they're old enough. Worked for my father, at least (though mom apparently had to talk to him about too much time on the computer).
No, my first priority will be family, no questions. It's just that I don't know too many Dads who are excited about a game releases. Can Dads also be gamers?
I know a few newish dads who are also gamers. Every father has some hobby (even if it's just watching the tube) that has to make room for increased family responsibility. With my dad it was sports (he still plays softball on the city leagues and he's closing in on 50). With a few of my friends it's video games. The key difference is, where I might have 2 - 3 hours at a stretch to play a game they often only have an hour or so at best (unless it's a weekend).

Losing interest in new game releases is a natural part of this process. Once a hobby or activity is no longer a dominant part of your life, what reason do you have to follow it as closely? That doesn't mean you can't look forward to the releases and whatnot, but your now limited time must be spent judiciously. Between working, eating, sleeping, spending time with the family and all that other adult stuff, how do you best parcel out those remaining hours in the day? For someone like me, who has several dozen hours not occupied with work, classes, health realted hobbies and the rest, I often have plenty of time to find out about the new releases. For someone on a time budget, perhaps playing the games is more important.
 
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My children (Supposing I don't choose to forget the 'Open Front Door' attack in favor of Hyperbeam, and as such fail to create them) will consider gaming to be the natural family communication medium. That way, as babies I can play while they are asleep, and when they get older, I can play with them.
I can see it now- the day my child beats me in Warcraft3 or gets that first headshot... Can't get any prouder.