relationship problems

[Jubbert]

Talk to her about it. Communication. Understanding. Trust. Talktalktalktalktalk.

 

[funguy2121]

*sigh* so it's be a man about it or be a jackass about it huh?

I guess. You can be an ass to her or you can be a man without being a cave man. Simply let her go, and if she freaks, do your best to remain calm. Also, if you do decide to let her go, find a way to get as much of your shit back first, if at all possible.

 

[novixz]

I just don't know who to trust anymore, I try to be open with her, like that time I told her I touched a girls breasts and could have kept it a secret. I guess I'll just put the tattoo on hold and wait to see if her opinion changes.

I think you really need to step back and examine yourself and your relationship right now. And in all honesty, I don't think you're mature enough to be making any of these decisions.

I don't either, but it's just things I have to do, I've made my life what it is today, I have to live with the decisions I make.

 

[novixz]

*sigh* so it's be a man about it or be a jackass about it huh?

I guess. You can be an ass to her or you can be a man without being a cave man. Simply let her go, and if she freaks, do your best to remain calm. Also, if you do decide to let her go, find a way to get as much of your shit back first, if at all possible.

I think I'll give it time, and just let the universe lead me in the right direction.

 

[0p3rati0n]

, and I think I'm in love with her. (I'm 14 btw)

Lets correct that. You have STRONG feelings for her. This isn't Forrest Gump where it was love from the beginning. At 14 your only starting to discover yourself in terms of who your are and what your stands/opinions are. I'm guessing your in middle school or starting High School at the moment. Probably 8th grade, if not going onto Freshmen year. As my mom would say (yes a quote from a parent who is happy married and in love) "Middle School love is different from high school love. High School love is different from College love. College love is different from real love." So trust me dude your not in love. You have a long road to go and many more girlfriends along that way.

 

[Gerard Hughes]

dude your a kid dont think about relationships(or tattoos)until your old enough to make good decisions
dump that chick because 8 months does not mean anything and just fool around with a bunch of other chicks(or dudes, whatever you like) [with protection] until it gets boring and than find a soulcrusher you want to be with thats actually not too much of an ass
i only say this because im afraid of intimacy(which more people should be) and expect women to not expect a cookie for holding me for over a month

 

[renegade7]

You're fourteen. This isn't how a relationship works, and I can't really tell you how it should work, nor can anyone for that matter. You just need time and experience.

 

[novixz]

Love isn't about staring at each other but staring into the future together, if she won't like the real you then it won't work. You gotta break the bisexual thing to her man. And the tattoo isn't a bad idea once you've broken the gate. Being bisexual in a strait relationship is fine as long as you're clear with her that you won't be making out with dudes.

she knows.

 

[StarStruckStrumpets]

No, not to hurt her, to test her. I think love is accepting each other flaws and everything. we have talked about it, ... extensively

You're going to do something as a "test" for your girlfriend?

That sounds like something my Dad's exes would say... :S

 

[novixz]

No, not to hurt her, to test her. I think love is accepting each other flaws and everything. we have talked about it, ... extensively

You're going to do something as a "test" for your girlfriend?

That sounds like something my Dad's exes would say... :S

I've decided not to because I've just been on edge on people invading my privacy and I don't trust anyone lately.