Relationships are tough.

[keybird]

So ive been dating this girl for a few moths now and shes great. We get along amazingly together and we care for each other deeply. However, it seems like all of my friends are having relationship problems. My best girl friend is in love with a guy but hes in love with aother chick more. My best guy friend thinks that his girlfriend might be cheating on him, hes just in denial about it.

So, anyone want to vent about there relationship problems currently or in the past.

P.S. Im kind of like a doctor for all of my friends, a relationship doctor that is.

EDIT:

 

[BlumiereBleck]

My good friend ran away after she couldnt sleep with her "boyfriend" anymore, my best friend is in denial about the girl he likes liking him back even though she does.

 

[Yureina]

I'm single, for better or worse.

 

[Worgen]

oh, yeah, well one of my friends got married a couple years ago then he moved to boston... Im not sure where I was going with this

 

[Hazy]

I'm single, for better or worse.

Seems we're quite similar in that regard. :/

 

[keybird]

oh, yeah, well one of my friends got married a couple years ago then he moved to boston... Im not sure where I was going with this

[sub] HAHA [/sub]


Well, hell, neither am I....unless he moved alone?

 

[Gotham Soul]

Single, and happy. Which is good, because I don't know if I would have time to be in a relationship with a girl when I'm busy wrestling alligators, punching kangaroos, eating crayons, flying without wings, drop kicking babies, throwing cars and catching butterflies.

 

[Yureina]

Single, and happy. Which is good, because I don't know if I would have time to be in a relationship with a girl when I'm busy wrestling alligators, punching kangaroos, eating crayons, flying without wings, drop kicking babies, throwing cars and catching butterflies.

That's quite the busy schedule! :O

 

[Worgen]

oh, yeah, well one of my friends got married a couple years ago then he moved to boston... Im not sure where I was going with this

[sub] HAHA [/sub]


Well, hell, neither am I....unless he moved alone?

nah, really the main reason he got married was because he had a job offer at mit and since they loved each other they decided to just get married and move up together

 

[J. Reed]

I guess I was just fortunate in finding my girlfriend. My first and only girlfriend, I might add. We've been together for three years and haven't had any problems. It literally just keeps getting better.

The closest thing I can think of that I could call a "problem", is the fact that we met right at the end of high school, which meant she'd have to leave for college soon. Summer is the only time I get to see her regularly. And visits during school are sparse.

Long distance sucks. I love this girl, and plan to marry her once we're done with school, but quite literally, we've spent more days apart than together. It really, really, really is a crappy situation.

So, does this count as a problem? I don't mean to be non-contributing.

EDIT: Damn. 10 posts while I was typing. Holy crap. I thought I'd be the first.

EDIT EDIT:

3 years with no fights or a single problem.

It almost seems too perfect >_>

Hm... referring to me, maybe?

I'll just assume you are...

It's not like we haven't had disagreements or misunderstandings or been angry at one another. Because we have. But I love her. She's my best friend. I trust her and believe her at her word. And she's the same with me. It's this level of trust and understanding that resolves problems without threatening "us".

She's been upset with me and I with her multiple times, but never has anything come close to jeopardizing our relationship.

 

[Pokenator]

The title of this thread pretty much sums up my feelings for relationships in general, you guys might be hunky dory now but you are only a few months in, from my observations, it is usually after the year mark that the sugar coats begin to crumble. My friends that are in serious relationships fall into two categories: 1) Those that complain endlessly about them and 2) Those who enjoy them but the friend has been so consumed that they completely disregard all of their other friends and have often completely changed as a person to imitate said partner. However, people have different personalities and many people really seem to need another person beyond their friends for company or to 'care' for them, so I guess I can't really judge as we are all individuals with different social requirements.

 

[AstylahAthrys]

I got off a bad relationship about a year ago and I've been single since. He was extremely mentally abusive and it took me ages for me to get the will to end it myself. Now I'm scared to date because even though I logically know not all men are evil pricks, I never want to be treated like that again. So now I can't bring myself to date anyone, even this one guy I would really like to ask out because I don't want it all to go to hell like the last one did.

 

[CloggedDonkey]

Taken, and loving it. My girlfriend and I completely understand each other for the most part, and I feel that half of relationship problems is one person not really understanding the other person to address problems/issues that come along as the relationship progresses. If you don't know how to handle something, you will make a mistake, which can lead to breaking up. :/

I'm a little confused here. Didn't you say you had a boyfriend before? I'm fine with whatever you tell me, I just am confused on, you know, how you swing.

Anyway, I have no problems, as I have never had a girlfriend, so I is lonely.

Spoiler: HERE IS ME

 

[Marter]

I'm single, not really happy about it, but I believe I understand why it is.

 

[child of lileth]

I'm single right now. Most of the time I end up with psychos. My friend told me I'm the biggest psycho magnet she's ever met. I just want to be single for a little longer so I have time to get ready for the next person that comes along, seems normal for the first month or so, and then starts abusing me over something stupid.

 

[superbatranger]

I'm single, for better or worse.

Seems we're quite similar in that regard. :/

As am I. It kinda feels odd seeing all those couples walking around, especially when most of them are your friends. Makes me wonder if I'd ever find anyone. Just a downside of being really shy in real life. But that's how things are.

 

[airwolfe591]

The title of this thread pretty much sums up my feelings for relationships in general, you guys might be hunky dory now but you are only a few months in, from my observations, it is usually after the year mark that the sugar coats begin to crumble. My friends that are in serious relationships fall into two categories: 1) Those that complain endlessly about them and 2) Those who enjoy them but the friend has been so consumed that they completely disregard all of their other friends and have often completely changed as a person to imitate said partner. However, people have different personalities and many people really seem to need another person beyond their friends for company or to 'care' for them, so I guess I can't really judge as we are all individuals with different social requirements.

I'll assign myself into category 3 if you don't mind.

I'm currently in a long distance relationship and have been for about a year and a half now and I'm very happy with her, but I managed to cause a falling out with one of my best friends, because they both would 'discuss' about spending time with me behind my back and when I would be alone with one or the other, I'd vent my frustration a little, he caught a bit of my frustration when he scrolled back on one of my conversations with her and I haven't heard from him since. It's got me really bummed out as of late even though I try my best to not let it get to me. Though my I think I'm starting to lose the little bit of sanity I have left because of my lack of social behavior since.

 

[Irridium]

I remember my last girlfriend.

She was a complete *****, and I ended that relationship in an epic way.
I don't feel like going into how it all transpired, since thats personal, but I will tell you how it ended.

Big fight at the end of school, large crowd, after her little speech and "cry for help", I just swung my jacket over my shoulder, and said "Quite frankly my dear, I just don't give a damn." and walked off.

It was the greatest moment I've ever felt.

 

[dodo1331]

All of you guys who are complaining about being single: BE HAPPY.

I am in a relationship and I am not exactly very happy. Would much rather be single right now.

OT: Anyway, all the girls I've been with don't really care at all for me or are too obsessive. The last one I was with NEVER hung out with me. The one I'm with right now is extremely clingy.