Relationships are tough.

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Macgyvercas

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Single and despising it. There's a girl that I like, but I'm 89% certain she doesn't like me back.

I'm depressed now. I think I'll go play Blood Omen: Legacy of Kain
 

metamorphisis

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AstylahAthrys said:
I got off a bad relationship about a year ago and I've been single since. He was extremely mentally abusive and it took me ages for me to get the will to end it myself. Now I'm scared to date because even though I logically know not all men are evil pricks, I never want to be treated like that again. So now I can't bring myself to date anyone, even this one guy I would really like to ask out because I don't want it all to go to hell like the last one did.
I remember that feeling, i was in the same situation about 8 months ago, it really sucks... but then i started going out with my current boyfriend and its really great... so give that other guy a chance!
 

twaddle

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for some strange reason my girl ahs loved me 4 3 years.. idk know why. well i love her there's that...
 

Bellvedere

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Relationships aren't that bad. Breaking up is tough. Relationships are great. It's so fantastic loving someone. But jealousy and untruthfulness, neglect. That's tough. But that's the boring part. That's when everyone gets obsessed with drama and conflict and lose sight of what's normal. My boyfriend broke up then I cried for two days straight and then I got bored and decided to play dragon age. It's weird being that upset. Also I forgot how awesome it was going out without a boyfriend.
 

captainwolfos

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Single. Sometimes I hate it, sometimes I laugh in people's faces about it.

But yeah. I do like this girl, who happens to be my best mate. And she knows and doesn't really care and/or mind, but it's still kinda awkward.
 

rddj623

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superbatranger said:
It is rough. Sometimes I wonder why I haven't found anyone yet, and about what could be wrong with me. Then I remember that this is life, and it's not perfect.
Unfortunately. Took me 22 years before I had a girlfriend, and the first one ended mutually when we discovered we both would make just better friends then a romantic relationship. Then my second girlfriend was a, (unfortunately because I really did love her), manipulative liar. But all that helped to shape me to the man I am in order to make me the perfect match for my current girlfriend. :) There is hope man. And it may get you when you least expect it.
 

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Inconsistancies Arise said:
Single, and not bothered trying.
Pretty much this.

If I wanted sex, which is the only reason why I would go into a romantic relationship, I could just have a wank or pay a prostitute.
 

lamewalletchain

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Married for about 10 years now. It's pretty awesome.

The only relationship advice I have is ignore 90% of relationship advice (100% if it's from an internet forum).
 

CloggedDonkey

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Aylaine said:
CloggedDonkey said:
Aylaine said:
Taken, and loving it. My girlfriend and I completely understand each other for the most part, and I feel that half of relationship problems is one person not really understanding the other person to address problems/issues that come along as the relationship progresses. If you don't know how to handle something, you will make a mistake, which can lead to breaking up. :/
I'm a little confused here. Didn't you say you had a boyfriend before? I'm fine with whatever you tell me, I just am confused on, you know, how you swing.

Anyway, I have no problems, as I have never had a girlfriend, so I is lonely.
Pretty sure that wasn't me. I've had boyfriends before, but from the time I joined to about 2 days ago I was single. In terms of what way I swing, it's both ways. :)
Must have been someone else, or you where talking past tense. Anyway, -1 to confusion stat for me.
 
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rddj623 said:
superbatranger said:
It is rough. Sometimes I wonder why I haven't found anyone yet, and about what could be wrong with me. Then I remember that this is life, and it's not perfect.
Unfortunately. Took me 22 years before I had a girlfriend, and the first one ended mutually when we discovered we both would make just better friends then a romantic relationship. Then my second girlfriend was a, (unfortunately because I really did love her), manipulative liar. But all that helped to shape me to the man I am in order to make me the perfect match for my current girlfriend. :) There is hope man. And it may get you when you least expect it.
True. I think there is someone out there for me, but I just haven't found her yet. I know I will, the only question is when. Unfortunately, it doesn't really help that I haven't felt anything for any of the girls I know here beyond being friends.
 

Andalusa

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Never been in a relationship, but from what I've seen and heard, they are difficult things that ultimately end up hurting people.
 

EeveeElectro

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Blarg! Don't get me started on the awfulness of my last relationship, I'll be here all week....
One thing that stuck out was at the start, he fancied my boy mate more than me and said he'd cheat on me with him if given the chance.

My current boyfriend has gorgeous girl mates and I bet he fancies them more than me. He's always calling them gorgeous on Facebook, not good for my self esteem.