Netrigan said:
Don't remember where, but there was an interview with the writer of Borderlands 2 where he talked about his habit of randomly tossing in gay people and couples into the series. He acknowledged that it was thinly done, but didn't have a problem with that. Yes, Sir Hammerlock is gay and apart from a few references here and there about boyfriends, it doesn't amount to anything. And maybe that isn't true diversity and maybe there's a better way to do it, but he thinks its still important to include stuff like that.
And, honestly, I don't remember anything which sounded unlike straight dialogue. Mad Moxxi is always talking about her exes. Her exes talk about her. People refer to love interests all over the place. In a world where gay lovin' is perfectly normal, why wouldn't homosexuals talk exactly like straights about their love last, past and present? Same deal with your fantasy worlds, all that elf on elf action probably means people are pretty cool and open about this sort of thing and if you think it's weird, that's kind of on you.
Although, again, I wouldn't be opposed to a sexuality option in the character creation menu, including asexual for those people who don't want any of that silly sex stuff interfering with their questing or sex party mode where hedonism is the order of the day (I'd be hitting that hedonism switch for that Jack/Miranda/FemShep three-some option. My FemShep is all about the ladies. This is supposed to allow for role-playing and I see no harm in tailoring the world a touch to fit their preferences.
I don't actually remember Sir Hammerlock mentioning boyfriends. This may have to do with general apathy to the sexuality of people I'm not actually sleeping with. Actually, you know, while not your direct point, your post made me think of something: you ever notice how frequently the people who complain that gays need to be done proper or need a reason to justify their presence are the ones who complain about gays "shoving it in their faces?" I mean, you don't see it for women or other minorities quite as much (though I bet there are people complaining that Franklin's friends and family in GTA V are too black or something), but there's this sort of habit where people are assumed straight until it's blatantly clear otherwise, and then people are upset.
Well.
This is one of the reasons we have campy, flaming homosexuals in the first place, people. Because society ignored and/or marginalised gays, so gays decided to be noticed.
Even the argument that there needs to be a reason for someone to be gay in a story sounds like the "why did you choose to be gay?" mentality. And I'm not saying people are trying for that, I'm just saying that it sounds awful familiar.
But yes, gay people actually do often talk about relationships just like straight people. Hell, I've been talking about mine recently, and I only feel the need to specify "men AND women" when it's relevant. Which it rarely is. There was one example, but I don't see it coming up often. Granted, it comes with the side effect that people often perceive me as straight until told otherwise, because they assume when I say "exes" I mean specifically ex-girlfriends, but I don't want to spend my life as a Bioware info dump.
In any event, I like the idea of selectable sexuality as well as selectable gender, skin tone. Saints Row IV let you romance everyone or no-one, a step up from previous games. Considering we often have multiple voice tracks anyway....